The story of calla lily girl

Record the stories of girls around you.

She loves calla lily, so pure, elegant and graceful.

She is a post-80s child photographer who loves to eat delicious food and buy beautiful clothes. She always smiles, has long white meat and moves slowly. Good character, good to people.

After graduating from college, she came to Beijing, became a North drifter, and later met her husband. After marriage, due to physical reasons, she finally gave birth to a child, which really killed her half-life. In order to create a better environment for her children, she decided to go back to her hometown in Changsha, Hunan Province to start a business and open her own shop. Husband also supported her and planned for a long time. When everything was arranged, my in-laws realized that they thought their baby son was going to be abducted and ran away, so they quickly went to Beijing to make a scene. Their in-laws also abused her mother and cursed her, and her father-in-law also touched her mother. Finally, my in-laws forced them to divorce. The relationship between her and her husband is still very good, but her husband divorced her for so-called filial piety.

In this way, she took her mother and daughter back to her hometown city, and her marriage was divorced, so she still had to continue to do business. Everything is difficult, just think about what the store does. Looking for storefront decoration and shopping with partners, there are also some frictions, but they can all survive. The store finally opened and the partner got pregnant unexpectedly. Let her work hard. She used to rely on her husband for everything except work, but now she has to face everything by herself. I feel weak and have no way out. I often feel that I have made the wrong choice, I have no time to accompany my children, I am divorced, and my children can't grow up with my father. If you are tired, you must grit your teeth and stick to it.

A few days ago, my eyes suddenly couldn't see anything, and I was frightened. She went to the hospital and her eyesight recovered. The doctor said that she would be blind at the age of 50 or 60, so she should take good care of her eyes and not be depressed all the time. Her eyes are related to her crying and bad mood.

She said that the saddest time was when her husband was around, so she decided to transfer the shop and go back to the north to accompany her husband. Children still need their parents' company.

Her story made me realize that on weekdays, some things are handled by myself, not others. Because there is no guarantee that there will always be some people to rely on, and relying on anyone is better than relying on yourself.

And family and everything. Marriage is the combination of two families, and we can't just consider ourselves.

Before getting married, we must examine the other family, whether the other parents' family is reasonable and whether the family is harmonious.

Be sure to spend more time with your child when he is young. There is no way to go backwards in his growth. The company of parents is too important, and his family background will affect his happiness in life.

Venture capital needs to be cautious. When looking for a partner, you must see clearly whether you can go through the storm together or not, and whether you absolutely trust each other. It's really hard to do physical stores now.

Finally, I hope my calla lily friend can face all this bravely and wisely, and everything will get better soon.