There must be one thing before life can be lonely.

? Some time ago, I sat with my colleagues to eat and chat. One of the colleagues said she also wanted to pick up the paintbrush again. She graduated from a normal school with an art major. Later, due to many reasons, she switched to teaching politics and gave up painting. ? Many years have passed, and the skills of painting have been forgotten. Now I suddenly want to pick up a paintbrush and learn to paint again, for no reason. I just want to add some spice to my life and spend my free time. She said that an old man in the county who was very good at painting promised to teach her when he had time, and we all agreed with her idea.

? In addition to working and taking care of family, people should also make some time for themselves. Do the things you like and are passionate about to add a little fun to your life, otherwise your life will be boring.

I once heard a friend say that her husband loves photography very much, and the cameras are expensive. She has been learning photography in her spare time since she started working. She has been persisting for many years, although she has not become famous. But it’s also true that technology is slowly improving. Later, when some units had shooting tasks, they also came to their friends’ lovers to take pictures. Although it is only a small amount of income, the important thing is that Gandi enjoys it, has no complaints, and is just happy with his passion. This is life’s best medicine. This good medicine can cure work fatigue and cultivate body and mind.

I saw an article written by teacher Chen Daoming in "Reader" a few years ago. The self described by Teacher Chen Daoming does not have the aura of a star. He likes many things outside of work. In addition to playing the piano very well, he also likes to read and write articles. What surprised me is that he also likes to sew clothes and bags for his wife and daughter. He said that after his daughter grew up, she lived abroad for a long time. Whenever I miss my daughter, I sew clothes for her dolls. He jokingly said that this was a strange and obscene trick to please women and children. They are all inactions, but if we don’t do inactions, how can we spend our lives with a limit? ’ Teacher Chen Daoming, who looks like an emperor on the screen, is sitting on the sofa sewing bags for his wife and daughter stitch by stitch when the lanterns are on? And have fun doing it. It’s hard for us to imagine, but it’s so real and so moving. The little fun in life allows people to truly restore themselves.

Our work is very important. It provides us with food and clothing. Our three meals a day, firewood, rice, oil and salt are all given to us by our work. Working hard is our mission. But small passions outside of work are also important. It is these inactions that allow us to live a successful life. Let's make our life ripples interesting.

Small interests in life can be a brush, a paintbrush, a pen, etc. One stroke, one world, the world inside us. It can also be a book, a SLR, or a bicycle, and a colorful world opens up. Even a stitch and a thread can show the true nature of life.

? My daughter likes to draw comics very much. She can draw freely. She even went to the bookstore and bought two thick comics course books, and she learned by herself without any teacher. Although she didn't show any talent in painting, she was intoxicated in it. Sometimes when she was tired from homework, she would stop and paint a few strokes. Sometimes she would paint alone in the house on weekends. Her focused and satisfied look made me feel She is looking for a way to live in harmony with herself, a way that she likes and that can please herself. Nowadays, children's schoolbags are so heavy and they are under so much pressure to study. Fortunately, there is something that allows them to be free and happy themselves after studying and be grateful for life.

I was not in good health for a period of time. I took leave at home during the treatment. Those days were really difficult. I have seen many doctors and tried some folk remedies, but they had little effect. My heart is very depressed, and I often feel pessimistic emotions welling up for no reason. Then I thought, I need to find something I like to do to make me forget about my illness. I guess what was my favorite thing to do when I was a kid? Reading, I really liked reading when I was a kid. Living conditions were poor at that time and there were few books to read. But I still tried my best to find books to read. Later, when I grew up, in order to prepare for exams, I only read textbooks all day long. The hobby I had at the beginning of my life was lost in the passing years. Thinking of this, I suddenly felt that reading was a little friend that I had with me day and night many years ago. It has given me infinite imagination and longing for life. Looking back on it, it feels as warm as ever.

? In the past two years, I have been with this little friend hand in hand. Facing the difficulties in life. Read novels, biographies, and essays. Also read Carnegie's books and so on. I personally believe that "anything that can enlighten you is a good book, and anything that can make you emotional is a good article." In my spare afternoon, I read the heart-wrenching youth literary works written by those born in the 1980s. Is it hypocritical, nostalgic, or overflowing with literary and artistic diseases? I am very grateful to Sanmao, Xinyiwu, Haruki Murakami, Lin Qingxuan, etc., and thank them for their touching words to accompany me, a person with no ambition in life, to spend my leisure time. It also allows me to calmly accept the suffering and pain that life has given me. No more confusion. Those times were quiet, beautiful and satisfying for me. I would also like to thank the adult educator Carnegie. He let me know that to meet the best version of myself, not only requires precipitation and hard work, but also requires tolerance and acceptance, even if it is bitter and tiring.

I couldn’t get enough of it, so I wrote some words on my blog, Weibo, and public accounts to express my feelings. I know that not many people will take the time to read these nagging words. Only I know that it is these nagging words that keep me from thinking randomly and staying away from some negative emotions. Every night I burn the midnight oil to write is a moment for me to fill the gaps in my life. I am very satisfied and fulfilled.

If life is empty, the heart will be filled with hesitation and loneliness. If life is abundant, we will feel the thickness of life and have no time to be lonely. There must be one thing that you like and insist on, and the corners of your life will be filled with fun. You might as well calm down and look for it.