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On Friday night, I invited Lele to the hot pot restaurant where we haven't got together for a long time. While waiting for the soup to boil, we talked about the movies we have been chasing recently and the shopping list we haven't finished yet, complaining about our recent unhappiness. ...

Hot pot and old friends are a perfect match, but balabala's cheerful rhythm is interrupted from time to time by Lele's WeChat and ringtones. I have guessed that these text messages and phone calls come from the same person, Lele's boyfriend D.

When he and Lele first started dating, we used to envy their greasy strength. They all cried and refused to eat this dog food, but we are also happy that Lele found someone who cares about her so much.

But after a long time, we vaguely felt Lele's unspeakable helplessness to this relationship.

There is no denying that D is a warm man in this love, but he can get along for a long time. For Lele, who needs to have his own space in love, his warm temperature is too high, which is really hot.

Listen to Lele, the first quarrel was because she wore a long skirt, but went out without leggings, and then D's face was as ugly as a subject director who saw a bad girl.

Later, it even gradually transitioned to giving advice to Lele's work. He doesn't think there is much room for improvement in Lele's current job, but he recommends positions that Lele doesn't care about. What to do with life planning? Such a big move once made Lele very dissatisfied, and there was a feeling that private territory was violated.

Just like Lele, when she invited some of our girlfriends to dinner, D always kept texting from time to time. Once, her mobile phone died, so he called several of our close friends one by one and asked if Lele was with us, which made Lele laugh and cry.

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Invaders in love, one in time, give me all your time, the other in physical space, I want to know where you are, what you are doing and who you are with. Third, psychologically, ask the other party to completely open the psychological world, let themselves go in and out to spy, and turn themselves into a small circle embedded in their own big circle.

However, love needs independent space.

I once saw an advertisement copy of rice in Taiwan Province Province, which probably means that delicious rice is a little sticky, but not too sticky.

In fact, the same is true of the just-sweet partnership-"a little sticky, but not too sticky." It's so sticky that people want to escape. On the one hand, they expect more intimacy, on the other hand, they hope to be independent and free.

Love should not be "alienated", but it needs an appropriate "distance"; The relationship should not be "limited", but it needs a moderate "boundary".

Even the closest partners are two independent individuals who have their own emotions and need private space.

Ann from the new media doesn't know what 9: 00 to 5: 00 is, but it happened that her boyfriend is in the foreign trade market. When I was busy, the time of the two people was completely staggered. She was under the same roof, but she felt that when I came back from work, he fell asleep. He has to wash up and go out to work, and I just have time to rest after work, and I can't say a few words a day.

Because both of them are in the rising period of their careers and know each other's hard work, they made an appointment to work together, but they also came up with a compromise, meeting at different breakfast shops at home every day and eating different breakfasts. Then, a person goes to work in high spirits, and a person is full and goes home to sleep enough electricity.

Catch up with the small holiday, the two of them discussed the plan to go out to play together and relax. If there is a scenic spot that two people want to go together, do it well and have a sweet trip. When one party obviously wants to go to some scenic spots, but the other party lacks interest, or one of them is too busy to have a good sleep during that time, it is agreed to let the other party move freely for a period of time. A person packs his bags to see the distant place he wants to see, and a person stays behind the home to adjust and rest.

Special treatment in special circumstances, not trapping each other on the issue of "you love me, you must always accompany me", is a mature love concept of two people.

As Peng Jiahui sang in Like Two People, consideration means occasionally forbidding you from being like a lover.

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Two people in love get along like warm hedgehogs. If you are far away, it will get cold. If you get too close, it is easy to make the other person uncomfortable.

According to Rose Island, the best love is that two people accompany each other. Don't bind, don't entangle, don't possess, don't rush to dig meaning from each other, it is doomed to failure. It should be, the two of us, standing side by side, looking at this lonely world.

Semi-sugar love means that we love each other, but never bind each other in the name of love. We dance happily, but occasionally we can be alone. We hug each other to sleep, but we can also let each other run and struggle on the road of life. I like being with you, but I don't want to stick to you all the time. Sometimes I will go shopping with my best friend for afternoon tea and chat with my family for a long time. Occasionally, I will set you free, drink and watch football with my brother, and play chess with my father.

A short separation will not affect our long-term love. When I am busy, I also believe that whether you are in my eyes or not, you will be in my heart. We run hard on the track of life and occasionally stop to drink and eat meat together. The moment we hugged, that was the love I wanted.

Good love is a little sweet, but not too sweet. A little sticky, but not too sticky.