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Nansheng insect photography daquan

If your child is keen on studying all kinds of bugs, will you support it?

In the documentary "Little Boy", 1 1 year-old Yin Ran is a little boy who especially likes to study bugs. He spends most of his energy studying bugs every day and brings all kinds of bugs home every day. At home, a special place was opened for him to raise bugs. At present, more than 200 kinds of insects have lived in his new home.

In the eyes of many parents, studying bugs all day can't do anything well. 1 1 year old, is the beginning of junior high school, and is about to enter the critical period of preparing for the most intense six-year study. How can I study bugs every day?

However, Yin Ran's parents are very supportive of their son's interest.

Mother Yin said, "At first, we were just a bystander. It turned out to be very interesting. Let's play together as spectators. Other people's circle of friends is an attraction, and our circle of friends is a bug. "

She believes that according to adults' thinking, it is useless for children to be busy with this matter all day, but no one can be sure whether it is useful or not. At least now parents and children have enjoyed this moment and are very happy.

Yin Ran is not an excellent student in the class, but he knows a lot about the species and habits of insects. Once the teacher stumbled upon his hobby and asked him to share it with his classmates.

In the process of exploring insects, Yin Ran also made many great friends and got professional guidance and help.

It can be said that Yin Ran is a very lucky child. With the respect of his parents, he found his own pleasure and what he really liked, which is undoubtedly the luck of life.

A respected child goes further.

Yin Ran's mother said, "When a child concentrates on what he likes, his eyes are very charming. Wouldn't life be boring if all his fun things were taken away? "

Fortunately, people can find their own interests and get the support of their parents from an early age.

In Xiao Shede, Yan Ziyou likes to study bugs and dreams of becoming a biologist, but his interests and dreams are not worth mentioning in the eyes of his mother. Her mother thinks that students' study is the most important. She threw away her child's snail, stopped her child's football class, forced her child into the learning track, and finally Ziyou had a nervous breakdown.

Sun Yunxiao, an education expert, said: "The premise of educating children is to understand children, and the premise of understanding children is to respect children."

Some children love reading, some children like running, some children are obsessed with bugs, some children can sing and dance, and there are many life trajectories. Only when they find the person they like, are they willing to try their best to run forward.

What parents should do is to help their children find the right track and be their staunch supporters.

Li Jiaqi said that when he started working as a counter teller and anchor, he was surrounded by gossip and contempt, thinking that a boy selling cosmetics and being an anchor was just doing nothing. But his mother has been standing firmly behind him, facing the gossip, full of domineering: "He didn't steal, didn't rob, and earned money by his own career. I don't think there is anything wrong. "

It was his mother's respect and support that made Li Jiaqi have the courage to go today.

Lin Zhuoyu, a post-90s Hunan boy, started writing at the age of 5 and published books at the age of 12. He has won more than 200 literary awards, is the youngest member of the Chinese Writers Association, and is known as "the first post-90s writer".

Mother Lin said that her son loves writing, so he respects his interest and likes nature, so he took him to travel. She believes that "to respect children's interests and let them grow freely, we just need to grasp the general direction."

Teacher Wang Renping said: Transparent parents know that adults are more important than success, and fun is more important than usefulness.

Don't stifle children's dreams, don't ignore their talents, on the contrary, be a supporter of their dreams. Once children feel the respect and trust from their parents, they will have great strength from their hearts and have unlimited possibilities.

Respect is not equal to bottomless tolerance.

A mother posted that 15-year-old children are addicted to playing mobile phones every day. If their mobile phones are confiscated, they will lose their temper, throw things, and even threaten to jump off a building and run away from home. She asked helplessly, "Over the years, we have given our children the greatest respect and met all the requirements. Why do we get a more rebellious child in return? Is there anything wrong with respect? "

There is nothing wrong with respect, but the mother mistook doting for respect.

In the book 13 what powerful parents won't do, it is mentioned that giving children proper authorization does not give them all control.

Many parents regard respect as doting, as bottomless tolerance, and give their children whatever they want, so that children who grow up will be arrogant and willful, especially in adolescence. Respect for children should have a bottom line and principles. Guide and encourage children to grow to the maximum extent within the scope of principles.

The child is still young, and the concept of right and wrong is still very weak. It is easy for them to regard their parents' respect as connivance, indulgence and wanton growth. Parents should know that respecting children is not laissez-faire, but letting them grow up under their own control.

Yin Ran's mother has a very good saying, "One can't just do what one likes in one's life. There is a balance between what he wants to do and what he should do. If you choose time to see bugs, what you have to do next may be very tired, so be aware of this. "

Although Yin Ran is obsessed with studying bugs, she still insists on doing her homework every day, completing the content of her study, and paying attention to research and study.

Wise parents will set boundaries and rules for their children on the basis of respect. Whenever possible, parents should grasp the general direction, understand their children's real interests, provide necessary conditions and do a good job in supporting their children. At the same time, parents must drag the bottom line into their hands and do not allow their children to break through. Only in this way can children go further.

Yin Ran's mother has a very clear sentence. She said: "A child has his own logic, and he has his own order of doing things. What you think is important may not rank first in his world. "

Education is not an easy thing. Parents should not only learn to respect, but more importantly, cultivate a strong heart, give their children time and space, and let them grow up freely. Once respected, it will become the internal driving force for his growth and promote him to become a better self.