Xingyue photography

A few days ago, a post circulated on the Internet:

"Wang Bingbing is too casual! It turns out that her innocence is fake. Is this too hypocritical? "

This photo is of Wang Bingbing and a male photographer. The male photographer seems to have surrounded the ice with his hands.

Bingbing, dressed in a chef's uniform, smiled skillfully, as if she didn't mind this ambiguous angle.

As soon as the photo was sent, the comment area at the bottom was suddenly ugly:

"I have long felt that she is held too high, or pure, and I don't know what she looks like behind her."

"Sure enough, there are countless men behind a beautiful woman ..."

However, what is the truth? Some netizens couldn't stand it anymore and posted a full version of this photo.

It turns out that on the other side of Wang Bingbing, there is a staff member, Miss Sister. She and a male photographer take close-ups of food with a camera.

The atmosphere at the scene is not how close Wang Bingbing and the male photographer are, but how everyone laughs and laughs together during normal shooting.

On that day, Wang Bingbing went to the fish market in the northeast to cook fish, wrap jiaozi and paste tortillas with Miss Xingyue, the main beauty of UP.

The poster is full of malicious remarks and countless smearing speculations in the comment area below, which is really creepy.

Many times, what you hear is false, and what you see is not necessarily true. Never believe the facts that are easily given to you.

The "truth" you see is often just the tip of the iceberg, and the real truth is hidden in the bottomless sea.

But you hold high the banner of trial, hold the so-called "truth" you see, and judge others at will.

It's terrible.

02

Some time ago, a chilling thing happened.

In a hospital in Henan, several doctors followed the ambulance to treat the seriously wounded.

The doctors are sitting in the car eating bananas. Someone recorded this scene with a mobile phone and posted it online.

Unexpectedly, someone immediately began to question in the comment area:

"The doctors have a good appetite. The patient lying inside is still alive and dead. Can't they get off and eat again? "

"Will eating on the transfer affect the treatment?"

However, what is the truth?

On the same day, in order to save patients, doctors traveled a full 420 kilometers and worked intensively for 7 hours.

They are hungry and tired, but time doesn't allow them to eat.

So they had to go to the supermarket next to them and buy bananas that can quickly restore their physical strength, so as not to affect the follow-up treatment.

Moreover, at that time, the patients in the ambulance were in a stable state under the action of sedatives, and the doctors did not forget to stare at the monitor even when eating.

Why do so many people always leave without knowing the truth? Is there less such phenomenon around us?

A doctor drank a bottle of glucose water after the operation.

I didn't expect it to be a network storm:

"Is there free glucose in the operating room? Very expensive. 7.8 yuan, how about a bottle? Did you give money? "

"Just drinking? Will it hit the patient's account at that time? "

The sprayers won't know that the doctor had a brain stem bleeding operation that day and got off the operating table at 4 am, so he couldn't drink water on the way.

He was thirsty and drank a bottle of glucose water, which was included in the cost of the department.

A migrant worker likes to share his lunch at the construction site online, and once uploaded a video of him eating a self-heating meal.

As a result, someone came out with malicious speculation: "Fake migrant workers, right? Hands are so clean, will you still shoot videos? "

Later, my son had to send a long article to clarify that my father had been a plasterer for 30 years and his hands were clean because he washed them before eating.

I usually like to share my daily life with you, so I bought a new camera specially.

The production cost of bar essence and spray is too low, and the ugliest and most hopeless side of human nature is exposed to the fullest in this group of people.

They wave moral sticks, point magnifying glasses at others, listen to the wind as rain and take pleasure in attacking others.

They go with the flow, like blind obedience and rhyme, and jump to conclusions on impulse before they have the ability to know the truth.

03

I read a fable, which is worth thinking about.

Two angels traveled once and went to a rich family for the night.

Although the family is rich, they are not friendly to them. They refused to let them spend the night in the guest room, only found them a corner in the cold basement.

While the angels were making the bed, the older angel found a hole in the basement wall and repaired it conveniently.

The next night, two angels went to a very poor farmhouse for the night.

The farmer and his wife are very enthusiastic about them, giving them what little food they have and providing them with beds.

The next morning, the angels found the peasant couple crying because their only source of livelihood-a cow died.

The young angel was very angry and asked the old angel, "They are so kind, why don't you stop the cow from dying?" Isn't this a good man who has no reward? "

The old angel patiently explained, "When we spent the night in the basement of the rich family, I found that the holes in the wall were all gold bricks."

My family was fascinated by greed and didn't want to share their wealth, so I filled in the hole in the wall.

Last night, death called the farmer's wife, so I replaced her with a cow.

Remember, some things are not what they seem. "

This is the famous "Agnes Law" in psychology: everything is easy to enter but not easy to get out.

In other words, some things are not what they really are. You must think deeply about the essence of things through the appearances you see with your eyes.

If you don't have the ability to transcend, once you are deeply involved, it will be difficult to extricate yourself.

If you only look at appearances and lack quiet thinking and analysis, you will often be confused by illusions.

Just like a blind man touching an elephant and looking at a leopard in a tube, you will never know what things really look like.

04

Two suggestions, for you who want to be alone in this internet age, which is easily induced by group emotions.

1. Reject the evil of mediocrity.

Hannah arendt, a Jewish philosopher, put forward a viewpoint called "the evil of mediocrity" in her works.

She said that the most extreme evil in the world was not actually committed by anyone.

It is committed by those who have no motivation, no thoughts, no violent character or evil thoughts, and those who refuse to be individuals.

Such people don't want to think, don't make judgments, and just blindly follow the crowd.

This blind obedience of countless individuals will lead to a huge disaster, like an avalanche.

Liu Yu has a very good saying: "No drop of rain will think that it caused the flood. When a chain of evil deeds grows to every link of this chain, everyone seems to have reason to feel innocent. "

Seeing others kowtow, maliciously splicing, distorting the facts and discrediting others, you also follow the trend to forward comments when the truth is unknown;

Seeing some emotional, illogical articles and fragmented information, it is easy to be incited to judge others from the moral high ground;

In this way, you unconsciously fall into the "evil of mediocrity", hand over your brain and be led by faith.

The only solution is to keep thinking independently at all times and refuse to be unconscious, blindly follow and rhyme.

Don't easily believe the facts given to you by others, observe and think more, provide evidence for your own ideas and constantly verify them.

② Using the shadowless lamp effect.

In the operating room, the shadowless lamp can illuminate the operating table from different angles to ensure that the surgical field of vision has enough brightness and will not produce shadows.

Similarly, if we can look at the problem comprehensively like a shadowless lamp and learn from each other's strengths, we can get a more perfect answer.

Therefore, when a hot event appears, we might as well not draw a conclusion so quickly and let the bullet fly for a while.

When the viewpoints of all insiders converge, a structural relationship will be formed that complements, corrects, confirms and extends each other, and the truth often emerges at this time.

Don't listen to one side of the story, observe and think without comment, and understand through multiple channels and ways to get closer to the truth.

There is a good saying: "Some things will never be understood without personal experience." Just like the flowers in the water and the moon in the well, you think you understand, what you see is real, but it's just a projection. "

In this era when seeing is not necessarily believing, I hope we can all have and maintain the ability to think clearly.

Encourage each other

Author: Little Coconut, life must be a little chic.