Why do you have to laugh when taking pictures?

I raised my mouth and pretended to smile.

He began to pinch my face until he squeezed the smiling face out.

"Why do you have to laugh?" I asked.

He said: because it will look better, others will be happier when they see it.

This is something I have to go through every time I take pictures with my boyfriend.

But I don't like laughing, I don't like taking selfies, and I don't like taking selfies with a smile.

Looking at yourself in a fake smile in a photo is uglier than crying.

I tried to tell my boyfriend that it's unnatural to take pictures like this, so I won't laugh or take pictures next time, which is natural and beautiful.

"OK," the boyfriend promised.

But the next time I take a photo, he will still say to me: Come on, smile, smile. ...

Since it's useless, try to adjust yourself and smile at the camera. But it's really embarrassing to look at the photos of yourself laughing and laughing!

Every time we take a group photo, someone always says, no, you're not laughing. Do it again. I'm embarrassed to say every time, forget it, your pictures are all good, but they always insist on remaking them.

Laughing at the camera for no reason, I feel like an idiot. This idea makes the smile even more unnatural.

Whoever takes pictures will make me laugh, but they don't seem to notice that I don't like taking pictures like this.

Do you have to laugh when taking pictures? Those who cry and laugh and make all kinds of strange movements have their own characteristics. Why should we strengthen them?

Two.

In the eighth issue of the second season of Wonderful Congress, emotional photographer Wang shared his experience of shooting emotions.

Her philosophy is that sadness needs to be seen and is made up of sad faces in tears on the big screen.

Those people are ordinary people regardless of their personality, occupation and age. They all seem to have a good life, but they have stories in their hearts. The way they cry is so real and so heart-wrenching.

When many of them finally chose movies, they didn't choose pictures of themselves crying. Most ordinary people are ignored, and sadness will get better faster if it is seen.

She said that a star posted a crying photo on the Internet, and everyone was waiting in line, saying that he was melodramatic, crying and posting photos on Weibo. There is no one to comfort him, no one to tolerate him, and he may regard netizens as the object of talking.

Our society advocates positive energy too much, as if crying is a loser and a bad mood. Everyone should have a look of invulnerability and quiet years. Our mood is very stable, just a normal social person.

Three.

My friend especially hates children crying. Her daughter happens to be very fond of crying. Every time her daughter cries, she loses her temper. The daughter seems to think that her mother doesn't like her crying, so she refrains from crying.

Once they went back to their hometown, because there were too many people and there was a traffic jam, and their friends were very unhappy. At this time, my daughter saw the ice cream and clamored for it, but it was not convenient to buy it. She refused.

My daughter began to cry, and my friend was very upset. She also cried and began to scold her. Why are you so ignorant and crying? But who knows that my daughter said that if you don't buy it for me, you won't let me cry.

My friend was confused by her question. Yes, why don't you let her cry?

Sadness needs to be accepted, and crying is also a normal emotion. Why not be accepted? Why can't it be as natural as laughing?

We don't allow ordinary people to cry, but even if children cry, it is considered a bad thing. Children who cry will be bullied, and children who cry are weak. ...

If we are not allowed to cry, what else can we vent? When emotions accumulate to a certain extent, they will always erupt.

finally

My boyfriend hates me crying and even loses his temper with me. But this is beyond my control. Existence is reasonable. I hope you can be yourself.