Praise groups exploded: what is more terrible than decadence is virtual happiness.

Praise groups exploded: what is more terrible than decadence is virtual pleasure addiction. 0 1 Recently, major online news media broke the news that the "praise groups" in colleges and universities was on fire. What is praise groups? You got up late today ","It shows that you have a big room for improvement and a bright future ","It shows that you have enough sleep and good health ". Praise groups is such a group of people that no matter what you say, they will surround you with compliments. According to media reports, the first group owner in praise groups is four junior boys from Xi Jiaotong University, who are students majoring in energy and power engineering and roommates. Three boys said that their original intention of building a group was to spread happiness and comfort people. Later, "praise groups" became popular, and other universities quickly followed suit. Recently, screenshots of group chats in universities such as Jiaotong University, Tianda University and Tongji University have been posted by netizens, almost all of which are unprincipled praises regardless of the occasion, and they also boast that they are alone in the dormitory ... The following comments agree to join the group, and some say that the three views are not correct. Among them, the highest number of praises is this sentence-three views are not correct, still there. This is the comment of a netizen named "Big Watermelon". In many comments, it is known as far ahead. Have to say, serious attitude and cold criticism, instantly poured a bucket of cold water on people addicted to praise groups. Customized bragging service, team bragging group, unprincipled bragging language and highly sought after praise groups do not actively seek adjustment solutions when they are in a bad mood, and even indulge in strangers' sweet words. Its rapid popularity and wide audience coverage are worrying: do young people now have to relieve their anxiety through such decompression? Isn't this a sugar-coated cannonball? Really fundamentally solve the problem of emotion and stress? The answer is of course no. Praise groups's existence is like watching a fairy tale movie divorced from reality. Life is mixed and trivial, but we can get short-term comfort and pleasure from this movie. However, we have to return to reality in the end. This kind of virtual happiness can only ignite our passion and soften our spirit and fighting spirit at a certain moment, but it can't reduce the unhappiness in reality by half. Anyone who has brushed Tik Tok knows that Tik Tok is too addictive. The most terrible thing is the powerful big data algorithm in the background, which makes Tik Tok's customized service very thoughtful. If you stay in the mobile phone photography course longer than other videos, it can automatically identify and push more videos about mobile phone photography for you, making people feel that they like to watch all the way down. In this way, an hour passed, a morning passed, a day passed, and a night passed. Virtual happiness is easy and quick to get, but it is the easiest to lose your most precious thing. "praise groups" stole your opinions and fighting spirit, while Tik Tok stole your most private personal information. What's more, when you browse some goods in Taobao and then open Tik Tok to browse, you will find that Taobao boutique will push some things you have just browsed in time. Before, the cooperation of merchants made you unconsciously enter their marketing routine, but you exposed your personal information and killed your leisure time. And staring at the phone for a long time, nothing is gained, but the cooperation between businesses is getting closer and closer because you click and browse unconsciously. At the bottom of the marketing chain, we are actually just consumables of virtual happiness. The reason of virtual happiness addiction lies in our escape from life. Everyone knows that addiction is not a good word. Addiction is infatuation and obsession with bad things. Why are you obsessed? Because of lack. An ordinary person becomes an alcoholic, often not because he likes drinking, but more likely because he is depressed because of changes in his life. He can only paralyze himself by drinking to get the illusion of being divorced from reality. Similarly, nine times out of ten, when we feel powerless, we will choose to escape. In this era, technology products are rapidly updated and developed, so we hide in Tik Tok, Taobao, and countless seemingly healthy but lonely social software. We thought we had been happy, but we really lost a strong heart and a self-sustaining face to face real life. Most people's life is not so easy, and only higher interest pursuit can resist wind, frost, rain and snow. The news released by Xinhua News Agency recently is very exciting. Mr. Li, from Luzhou, Sichuan, became popular on the Internet with his hand-made musical instruments. Bricks, pumps, wine bottles and other common materials in life can be made into musical instruments that can be played. Netizens called him "Guan Ge". In the video, he plays with a brick emotionally, no worse than a professional musical instrument. It is said that a clever woman can't cook without rice, but Mr. Li's behavior of making musical instruments with materials has really inspired many netizens spiritually. It turns out that bricks can be turned into musical instruments without professional equipment. What is more worthy of appreciation is that this way of creating conditions for ourselves makes us feel his love for life, and his investment in originality and musical instruments far exceeds that of most people. The so-called professional, probably. True happiness is not indulging in virtual happiness, but should be healthy and calm. You need to really please yourself, just like the view of "please others, please yourself" in many articles. Buy yourself a flower, make daily plans for yourself, exercise, read, travel, see the world and make yourself better. You are what you invest in yourself. Look at Tik Tok, ten years later, you are still brushing tiktok; You have mastered a skill, and after ten years, you can become a strong person in a field. Learn to invest in yourself correctly and please yourself. We can follow the following three rules. First, develop good living habits. Habit accompanies one's life. When habit becomes nature, it becomes something that can be done without hard thinking. It can save thinking cost and cultivate the ability to do things efficiently. Second, tell yourself not to be lazy. Just like the recent large-scale articles, behind all the Excellence, there is self-discipline like asceticism. The more self-disciplined, the more free and self-disciplined people tend to be slim, regular in work and rest, and have good study and work habits. The so-called lazy people getting rich is just a joke played by scientific and technological progress. Most successful people are self-disciplined. Third, abandon useless network software. The hardest thing now is to put the phone down. If one day, you put down your mobile phone, you may feel empty, but after a long time, you will feel calm. Without the messy network information, life will return to its truest appearance. -—END—-about the author: Scorpio, dreams don't work through writing, but you can take off when you are free. 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