Why should you withdraw the message?

Anyway, I send you a message and withdraw your attention. What kind of psychology is this? This is definitely not meant to write about your childhood. The elders will tell us a truth:

"There is no regret in this world."

If you do something wrong, say If you make a mistake in a sentence, you can't do it again, you can only accept the fact.

But on WeChat, you can buy regret medicine. If you accidentally say the wrong thing, you can tap "Retract" and the words will disappear as if they were never said.

Sometimes, people retract because they made a typo, and more often, they retract because they accidentally said what they were thinking.

In fact, a person’s true words are hidden in his message of withdrawal.

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Sometimes, the reason for withdrawing a message is because I dare not say that I love you.

I once asked a few friends, what is it like to withdraw a message?

My friend Mengmeng shared her experience of withdrawing the message.

Mengmeng once had a crush on a colleague in a company. They had a good relationship. They often went out to play together and would chat until late at night. The two of them talked about everything. In the eyes of others, they look like a couple in love.

However, although Mengmeng and her colleagues were very close, they never took that step. How does the other person feel about her? This question makes Mengmeng's heart beat.

One night, Mengmeng said good night to her crush on WeChat as usual and prepared to rest. She was lying on the bed, tossing and turning, unable to fall asleep. When her brain got hot, she picked up her phone and sent the other party "Do you know I like you?"

Within two minutes, she withdrew the message. information. The next day, it seemed like nothing happened.

Mengmeng told me: "I really want to confess to him, but I'm worried that I won't even be friends after confessing."

Many times, we withdraw a message, except for a few The situation is not only due to typos or sending to the wrong person, but more often, it is due to accidentally speaking out the true thoughts in the heart.

When we expose our true thoughts, we will feel uneasy because we don’t know how the other person will react, so we can’t help but withdraw.

I saw a behavior on the Internet that caused a lot of people to scream. I turned on my phone, sent a message to the other party, and carefully wrote down what I wanted to say in the dialog box, but I didn't dare to send it out, so I could only delete it word by word.

I think those who deleted the conversation feel the same as those who withdrew the message.

Be cautious and particularly troubled. I am afraid that the other party will see the news, but I am also afraid that the other party will not see it.

For those who are in the state of "more than friends, not enough lovers", the true meaning in their withdrawn messages is: I like you, but I dare not tell you.

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Sometimes, the reason for withdrawing a message is because one dares to be angry and dare not speak

Writer Adasi said: Adults A social disaster is blurting out the truth.

Sometimes, speaking the truth is a kind of catharsis, but in the workplace and interpersonal relationships, this kind of catharsis may be a disaster. And withdrawal is the last remedy for these social disasters.

Two days ago, my colleague Xiao Ma vented his anger once.

Xiao Ma is a contracted photographer in the company. His photography skills and photo editing skills are top-notch, and he has won many prestigious awards.

Last week, his boss took a job for him, and the requirements were not much. He just needed to take photos that satisfied the customer and edit the pictures to the customer's satisfaction.

I thought it would be completed quickly, but unexpectedly it took a week.

During the cooperation process, the customer's requirements changed like the weather in June. Xiaoma also changed the requirements no less than 10 times. Every time he negotiated with the customer, the customer would show off his several points. It took hours to reply.

When the final modification was made, the customer said, you should change it back to the first version.

Xiao Ma's emotions suddenly exploded, and he sent a sentence to the customer on WeChat: "Is it interesting that you are making blind changes like this and not listening to my opinions?"

The moment it was sent, Xiao Ma calmed down and withdrew the message. He knows that he cannot offend his customers.

Under adult social rules, you cannot speak the truth casually, because your true words may make others unhappy and may even bring trouble to yourself.

Sometimes, when you are communicating with others, maybe what they say makes you angry, or maybe you strongly disagree with their views, but in order to maintain the relationship and not cause trouble for yourself, you can only stay calm. , and then withdraw the angry words.

If you find that your friend or colleague has withdrawn his message from you, his true meaning may be: I have a problem with you, but I don’t want to offend you.

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Sometimes, I withdraw messages because I am afraid that you will worry

Posted by Xiao Zeng, WeChat is the most annoying thing The function is to withdraw the message.

I asked why, and she said: "Because I withdrew the news, I didn't even know that my mother was sick."

One day, when Fa Xiao was working overtime, her mother suddenly called She sent a voice message.

Because she was busy at work, she did not check the message immediately.

After finishing his work, Fa Xiao discovered that his mother had withdrawn the voice message. When she asked what she had sent, her mother said she had sent the wrong message, so she never took it to heart since she was a child.

Until a month later, when Fa Xiao was chatting in a group of relatives, a relative suddenly asked her: "How is your mother's illness? I heard it is quite serious. Is she okay?"

Fa Xiao was stunned. She had no idea that her mother was sick!

She called her mother and asked why she didn't tell her. After mum hesitating for a while, she said, "I sent you a voice message about this before, but seeing how hard it was for you to be alone outside, I didn't want you to worry about me, so I withdrew it." Doctor Zhou said it was okay, but he didn’t tell you anymore.” After hearing this, Faxiao was so angry that she almost burst into tears and said loudly, “Why should I withdraw the message after I sent it? Wait until something really happens before you tell me!"

There is such a person in our WeChat address book.

They will not disturb you often, but they will always pay attention to your activities. They will always forward various health and wellness messages to you, for fear that you may not take good care of yourself. When they hear you're in trouble, it gets on their nerves. But they rarely tell you what happened to them because they are afraid that you will worry about them.

They are parents.

Chinese-style parents often love their children deeply and are forbearing. They hope that their children will be filial and care about themselves, but they are afraid that they will get sick and be a drag on their children.

They are willing to give everything they have