My girlfriend and I realized that today is exactly one year, and we hit it off as soon as we met! Two days to confirm the relationship! We will meet during the Spring Festival. ...

The misunderstanding has happened, so we should eliminate it.

As you can see from your detailed description, the first point of misunderstanding is that she is coming, and your delay has caused her to have ideas in her heart.

The second point is that the two places have different views on work, but they have not achieved normal communication. At this point, there has been a crisis, a very serious crisis, and you didn't feel it.

Third, when the crisis is so great, you let him see what happened between you and your ex-girlfriend. This kind of thing will only happen when she is in a good mood and you are with her. )

I won't say the following points, but they have deepened in the misunderstanding between the two. Let the other person think that you are insincere. The point is the second point. If you can't handle the second contradiction, you will be in trouble.

After you make a choice in the second point, the other party can be satisfied with your answer in the second point. (At least when you think she will accept it) Go to Guangzhou to find her decisively. Tell the other person your second thought. Talk to her sister and her mother about your thoughts. Make yourself popular first. It's hard if no one is on your side to help you speak. For more than a year, you don't know her home. This is a big mistake. Many words can be solved without thinking about the phone. The phone is just to solve unimportant things. Just for an appointment. It is necessary to solve the problem face to face in order to really solve it. If you can't see each other, the problem will definitely not be solved.

Think about it! hope this helps