Where is the way out for stay-at-home mothers after their children go to school?

1. Problems faced by stay-at-home mothers

Paying attention to children's growth and education is the main reason why most mothers choose to return to their families. Being a full-time mother is actually a great job in any country. What problems have you faced when you have been a full-time mother for so many years?

I have been away from the game for too long and can't keep up with the rhythm.

Quitting to take care of the baby at home means that mommy has to give up her original job and concentrate on taking care of the baby at home. After leaving the workplace for too long, mommy may face the problem of disconnection and even social elimination. Moreover, if mommy doesn't seize the opportunity to enrich herself for a long time, she may feel that she is a yellow-faced woman, and her life is boring and flustered.

The economic pressure is too great, and one person supports the family.

From a double-income family to a single-income family, one more family member will greatly increase the family's economic pressure! In the case of insufficient family economy but increased expenses, mommy should shoulder the heavy responsibility of saving money! Moreover, family members often think that "bringing children at home has no financial resources, that is, it has no contribution to the family." Therefore, it often increases the psychological pressure of mommy.

When children get older, they have more free time.

When the children grow up and go to school, mommy spends a lot of time alone, but she can't get rid of it. She felt empty and depressed. Moreover, after children study, they have their own small world. Mommy can't stick to his ass all day, and her heart is full of loss.

Poor social evaluation has a negative psychological impact on mommy.

Social evaluation often does great harm to stay-at-home mothers, which is the root of their low self-confidence! According to statistics, women's satisfaction with bringing children at home is 70% in the United States, about 5% in South Korea, and as for Japan, it is as low as 20%. The reason is not only that women think that quitting their jobs and taking care of their children at home will hinder their career planning, but also that there are universal social values. According to the general social values, the so-called contribution to the family mainly refers to the economic contribution, and does not affirm the performance of parenting, so it often makes women feel that their social status is inferior and affects their wishes.

2. Where is the way out for stay-at-home mothers?

For full-time mothers who come back, these jobs that are the easiest to get started in many occupations are worthy of attention-baby nurses, baby care workers and early education teachers, including parent-child parks, early education centers, childcare institutions, baby photography and other companies all need talents with parenting experience to join. Perhaps you have read the stories of the following netizens, or you have started another spring in your career:

Become a lecturer in positive discipline training

The name of the Year of the Horse comes from our son, nicknamed Year of the Horse. Year of the Horse worked in a foreign company for training and solution sales. After her son went to kindergarten, the Year of the Horse began to systematically study positive discipline and set up a salon, and began to organize positive discipline training for parents.

Active discipline teaches children "self-discipline" through mutual respect, kindness and firmness, family meetings, encouragement, learning from mistakes and other tools and methods, helps parents and child caregivers understand the core of children's misconduct, and brings more happiness to the family.

Up to March 20 14, 22 classes have been organized and taught. More than 300 parents had a systematic positive discipline study at the Year of the Horse Salon. Many students become important friends in life, and continue to help their parents after training and study, and continue to learn in life practice.

Promote healthy and nutritious cartoon meals

When I was breastfeeding my son, I encountered the same headache as most mothers-whenever I tried to coax him to eat more, he always shook his head and ran away. Once, I suddenly had an inspiration. My son especially likes cartoon images. If the food is made into a cartoon shape, won't his son refuse?

So, I first designed some cartoon patterns that children like on the computer, and then cooked the meat and vegetables carefully, accompanied by fruits, and put them into the designed cartoon patterns. As a result, my son ate the "cartoon meal" at once.

Later, I designed hundreds of "cartoon meals" by computer and sold them in my friend's restaurant, which attracted many children. Under the word of mouth of parents, "cartoon restaurant" was full of customers for a time. Now, I have registered my own catering company and promoted "cartoon meals" to the whole country through the Internet.

Proxy child camera

My business comes from a children's projector given to my daughter by an American friend. No matter how loud the 5-month-old daughter cries, as long as she sees the image projected by the projector and hears the voice inside, she will smile through tears. Mothers in the community are also very interested in this machine. So I decided to open an online shop to represent this kind of children's projector. Now, I have successfully promoted the products to some kindergartens and early education centers, and my business has begun to take shape.

Teach baby yoga

When I was pregnant, I occasionally came into contact with the popular "baby yoga" in the United States, so I took my baby to practice yoga soon after I was born. I was surprised to find that the baby developed very well in balance and flexibility, so I introduced "baby yoga" to young mothers in the community. Now, my family's parent-child yoga studio has officially opened, with hundreds of students.

Do a part-time job online.

I study pharmacy, and do medical academic promotion for foreign companies, that is, translate English documents, do product PPT, collect clinical problems and so on. I don't have to go to the company because I have a task directly called by my boss. In fact, there are many part-time jobs online now, and mothers can use their skills to find a part-time job that suits them.

3. Join your mom's circle of friends and look for opportunities.

Perhaps after reading the entrepreneurial experience of the above mothers, you will say: There are too few opportunities, how can others have such a good opportunity? In fact, the opportunities are all found by themselves. Those mothers who have successfully transformed have encountered such confusion. There is no need to be anxious and broaden their circles. Maybe there will be a chance?

Expand one's social circle

Many SOHO people have been found in the online "full-time mother entrepreneurship circle", and some of them have opened "DIY parent-child paradise" at home to teach their children to do handicrafts; Some open a "small dining table" to help parents who come home late in the community pick up their children and cook dinner in the afternoon; Some run winter and summer care classes to help children arrange holiday life; Some open a "children's life museum" at home, where they can rent toys, borrow books and sell books ... It is difficult for full-time mothers to return to the workplace, and maybe they can find more opportunities by joining their mother's circle.

Career orientation is clear and step by step.

In the career direction, Mommy tries to join professional associations and have more useful conversations with relevant people. The development of this major should keep pace with the times. We must follow the development trend and related news in this field. For example, image artists should be familiar with the latest drawing software, and accountants should understand the latest relevant management regulations.

After a stay-at-home mother finds a job again, she can start working as a part-time employee. Even these part-time experiences will make your resume icing on the cake when you look for a full-time job in the future. It's not too late to consider working full-time when the time is ripe.

Recognize yourself and base yourself on reality.

Pay attention to your feelings: Before you go out to look for a job, you must ask yourself clearly: Why should I re-employ? What do I expect from the flexibility of working hours and income? what can I do? What can't I do?

Be realistic: if you can only work 30 hours a week, don't join a big company with rigid working hours, and pay attention to finding other companies with relatively flexible working hours.

Stay-at-home mothers, they have super pressure resistance, strong love and unique affinity ... these are also the "soft power" that enterprises need. Stay-at-home mothers, whether they want to find another job, take a part-time job or start a business, find their own position and go on firmly. It is said that women are not afraid to have children and raise children. What else can beat you? Stay-at-home mom, come on