Thank you for appearing in my youth

Youth is the most unforgettable time in life.

It will always be precious because of certain emotions.

Whether it is family affection or love,

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People come and go, youth is short

Fortunately, I met you,

so that I will never be alone.

On this hot afternoon, I quietly finished reading "Thank you for appearing in my youth". The pure and heart-warming words made my mood better.

This book is co-written by Wenzi and Jin Haosen. To be precise, Wenzi serves as the main writer and Jin Haosen serves as the photographer. One focuses on the text and the other on the illustrations. In the end, a book with written words is presented. The exquisite pictures make me fall in love with the works even more.

There are many stories and reflections written in the book, including Wenzi’s own, others’, as well as his and Jin Haosen’s, a collection of 15 stories about friendship, love and family ties, *** Together they constitute Wenzi’s unforgettable youth.

Regarding his friendship with Jin Haosen, in the eyes of outsiders, they are two completely different people, one is rigorous and thoughtful in thinking, the other is lazy and casual, but the same thing is that they always follow their hearts. Therefore, they eventually became the most tacit partners, doing what they like together and living in the lifestyle they like.

Liu Tong commented on Wenzi and the lifestyle he chose, "How can anyone be so wonderful in all aspects? Like Wenzi, he is self-satisfied, satisfied, and does everything well at the moment, without being impatient or impatient. It’s pretty cool, isn’t it? ”

As Wenzi said, life is too short, only by doing what you like, you should work hard and enjoy every moment. With.

So even though he had an enviable job, he still pursued his inner yearning and became a freelance photographer, traveling all over the world. Even if it was precarious, he still had no regrets and later opened a coffee shop. Museum, photography academy, and B&B. Toss around as much as you can, and try your best to realize all possibilities. Be brave and persistent to the point of envy and even admiration.

Regarding family ties, Wenzi said this when writing about his father. Every time he made an important decision, he would ask his father’s opinion. His father’s answer was: Then follow your own ideas. Yes, it was good. He never suggested or objected to anything. My father’s unconditional support allowed me to be willful and free, and eventually I became the person I wanted to be.

Father's open-mindedness gave Wenzi enough courage to pursue everything he likes and live a straightforward and unrestrained life. Try desperately, work hard, and finally live your life the way you like and become the person you want to be.

This not only reminds me of my parents. When I was growing up, although they never gave me any advice, they only had one wish, that is, as long as I am safe. But what I want to do, they absolutely support. I think it is precisely because of this that I have formed my independent character today.

They did not require their daughters to get a stable job like many parents, but allowed their daughters to fiddle with it, which to a certain extent also gave me a lot of freedom.

After graduation, I worked and lived alone in a strange place with no friends or relatives. Later, when I proposed to go to Beijing, they all agreed, so I was alone. Went to the imperial capital with our luggage.

I often think that if it were other parents, they would definitely have a lot of worries about a girl going to a big city alone, and then they would try their best to keep their daughter by their side, but it is precisely because of them With the support, I was able to see a bigger world and experience different ways of living. Although I did not achieve any enviable achievements during my one and a half years as a North Piao, I have never regretted it, and I am very grateful to them for not opposing, which has given me a restless heart. Sometimes I live alone. , can we better understand the hardships of life, jump out of our comfort zone, find the direction of life, and slowly move closer to our dreams.

Although when I was alone outside, I blamed them for not being as meticulous and caring as other parents, but now, I have gradually understood that for them who are not used to expressing their feelings, Maybe they have never expressed their care and affection nakedly, but their love has only changed, but it has not diminished at all.

Regarding love, I want to thank Brother Bin.

Because of him, the period of youth from the age of 21 to 26 has a brighter color.

He is also a post-90s generation, only one year older than me. I often criticize him for being the most unlike a post-90s generation. But he is much more mature than me. With him, he has always taken on the role of taking care of me, while I mostly just enjoy his care and consideration. Unlike me who is rough and arrogant, he is a rare meticulous and thoughtful boy. With him, he can always arrange everything in order. He is a very considerate and caring person, and he is also a very affectionate person. Big boy.

In 2013, the year he was about to graduate, it was really a turbulent time. Facing an uncertain future, we were worried and confused. During the ten-day meeting in the library where we often went, On the first floor, my heart was full of sadness, but he comforted me and said, "My dear, don't be sad. In five years, no matter where we are, we will be together!" I don't know why he is so sure, but he The firm tone when he spoke made me involuntarily choose to believe that he could do it.

During the two years in different places, we met only a few times, and then moved to Beijing. After all the hardships and twists and turns, we finally got closer and came together again. Although there were still occasional quarrels, it was worth celebrating. The thing is, we are finally no longer separated.

We have been in love for five years from 2012 to now, and our wedding is around the corner. Fortunately, we are lucky enough to be lovers who have not been defeated by time. Such a happy result is due to his tolerance and dedication, and he is also grateful to the blessing of fate.

Five years, I once thought it would be a long time,

Now it seems that it is just a passing moment,

Look at the road traveled step by step,

No one can copy it, and no one would want to do it again.

Thank you for appearing in my youth,

Let my youth have no regrets.