There are only three kinds of lovers in the world, destined to grow old together. What kind of marriage do you belong to?

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When every couple enters marriage, the same idea is to want to grow old with each other. In real life, some couples spend the ups and downs of life hand in hand, but some couples leave as soon as they leave.

And those couples who have been together all their lives have similarities. They are both lovers and lifelong friends. Just like there is a saying: in the best marriage, both husband and wife are partners.

There are three kinds of couples in the world who are destined to grow old together. What is your marriage? If I can, I hope you are the second.

The first kind: couples who share joys and sorrows.

In The Three of Us, the writer Mr. Jiang Yang wrote such a touching sentence: "Our family is very simple, and the three of us are also very simple. We have nothing to do with the world, just want to get together, stay together and do what we can. "

Every time I read this sentence, it always makes people cry.

The marriage between Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu is a typical case of sharing weal and woe.

From acquaintance to life in the next few years, the two men have experienced many ups and downs of life together. In that special era, Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu were sent to the countryside and suffered a lot. Two people are assigned to work in different places, so it is difficult to meet each other at ordinary times.

Sometimes they finally meet, instead of complaining to each other, they cheer each other up in poetic language and spend the most difficult time together.

When Qian Zhongshu was seriously ill in bed, their daughter A Yuan passed away. Jiang Yang, 80, not only has to face the pain of losing her daughter, but also goes to the hospital to visit Qian Zhongshu every day to comfort him.

No matter how hard life is, she still propped up this broken home with her shoulders.

Qian Zhongshu once said, "I never thought about getting married before I met her. I have been married to her for decades and have never regretted marrying her. "

This sentence sounds contradictory, but when you think about it, you just met a real person. When you really meet your soul mate, you will break all the rules in your heart. Because you love her, she is the only rule.

A husband and wife who share weal and woe, they rub each other into their lives.

They accompany each other, feel the cool summer breeze and enjoy the flying snow in winter. You can share weal and woe when you are down and out, and you can still keep Do not forget your initiative mind when you are successful in official career.

The second type: soul mates with highly consistent three views.

Xu Zhimo once said: "I will look for my only soul mate in the vast sea of people." I am lucky to get it; No, my life. That's all. "

Among them, the foundation of soul mate is to achieve the consistency of the three views. Couples with a highly consistent outlook on life have much less friction and contradictions, and have the same pursuit in spirit and life goals.

I have seen the story of such a couple on the Internet. Qi zhou and Daqiang Gao are people's soul mates. From high school to college to work, they have always supported each other.

Qi zhou doesn't like shopping and eating delicious food during his break. She likes to raise some flowers and plants on the balcony, or go climbing nearby to learn photography.

Qi zhou's husband Daqiang Gao also likes this quiet life. He gave up a lot of entertainment, accompanied his wife to help arrange flowers and went out to play.

Such lovers have the same hobbies and the same way of thinking. Even if they are different, they can understand and appreciate each other, instead of laughing at you and suppressing you.

My neighbor Sister Wang is a very elegant person. Even when she goes out to buy food, she will tidy up neatly, and sometimes she will draw a delicate light makeup. Sister Wang's husband always said that she was melodramatic and not like a housewife.

Sister Wang sometimes buys a bunch of flowers and puts them at home. Her husband thinks it's a waste of money, so he might as well buy some cabbages. In this way, the two men went further and further in the noise and finally divorced.

In fact, there is no right or wrong between them. Married life is originally composed of small things, and it is particularly tiring to be with people with different views. Even if you make a mistake, the other person will stick a hard thorn deep into your body like a hedgehog.

An emotional teacher once said, "Only when couples have the same frequency can they resonate, and only when they communicate can they have a heart-to-heart relationship."

Those soul mates who have the same three views will always be very comfortable to get along with, and naturally they will be together for life.

The third type: couples who have a strong sense of responsibility and don't give up even if they are in trouble.

Modern marriage is as fragile as glass. You want a divorce if you are a little unhappy, as can be seen from the soaring divorce rate.

We envy the love of the older generation because they have a strong sense of responsibility.

Tony Leung Ka Fai is a clean stream in the entertainment circle and a model of men.

Many people think that Tony Leung Ka Fai must be a special playboy, but if you know the story of him and his wife, you will be moved by his sense of responsibility.

Tony Leung Ka Fai met his wife Jiang Jianian at the bottom of his career. Jiang Jianian appreciated Tony Leung Ka Fai's acting skills and used his social connections to help Tony Leung Ka Fai. She not only helps him at work, but also takes special care of him in life.

Jiang Jianian's contribution made Tony Leung Ka Fai feel the warmth of his family.

At that time, Jiang Jianian's relatives and friends all said, you are so young and beautiful, why do you like this poor boy? But Jiang Jianian didn't take her friend's words to heart. She fell in love with Tony Leung Ka Fai without hesitation and became husband and wife.

Tony Leung Ka Fai once vowed that he would never fail Jiang Jianian in this life.

Later, Jiang Jianian was seriously ill, with a bloated figure and rough skin.

Tony Leung Ka Fai never gave up, always stayed with his wife and took care of her in every possible way. The media often see Tony Leung Ka Fai walking down the street holding his wife's hand. When attending a friend's party, he will also introduce his wife to his friends. He proved his promise with his own actions.

I am used to seeing the separation and combination of the entertainment circle, and I also see more grievances between husband and wife in the world. Without a high sense of responsibility, marriage will never come to the end.

People with a high sense of responsibility, they see through the world, understand what they should cherish and give up, and will never touch the dew marriage outside.

In the end, marriage is about responsibility.

If your marriage is one of them, I believe you and your wife will grow old together and spend a lifetime together.

If not, it doesn't matter. The most important thing in a relationship is to have the determination to change yourself and work together towards this goal.

There is an old saying that in the past, horses and chariots were slow enough to love a person for a lifetime, and the love of holding hands took a lifetime. I hope we can all find someone we like, "I hope a person will never leave each other."