"Stubborn Lifetime, Never Forget Innocence" is an inspirational idol drama

Sister-in-law Ximen (Douban ID is "It turns out to be Sister-in-law Ximen"), this person and her name are well known to everyone. They are a group of life photos on the Internet in 2012.

(The picture comes from the Internet)

From that time to a long time later, everyone labeled her as an "Internet celebrity" and "self-media person", etc. Seems like a bad label.

Sister-in-law Ximen has actually worked as a film screenwriter, theater producer, and advertising producer. Now he is a fashion self-media person and writer.

As of 2019, it has incubated and signed more than 200 self-media accounts, covering more than 100 million fans across the entire network. It has become one of the top 100 "content startups" in the new list of 2019. At the same time, the company has many works He also won the "Golden Eye Award" in the advertising industry.

(Pictures come from the Internet)

As you can see from the above resume and pictures, Sister-in-law Ximen is a beautiful, talented, capable, and wealthy person. There are "young people."

She went from being an Internet celebrity on social networks to becoming one of Forbes China’s 50 KOLs;

From an unknown screenwriter who graduated from the Central Academy of Drama, to now The founder of Huaguo, the leading domestic MCN organization.

She has also encountered a lot of controversies along the way, and she has faced all of them head-on in the book.

(Pictures come from the Internet)

This book,

is not a biography of “Internet celebrities” and self-media people;

There are not so many pretentious feelings;

There are no artificial thoughts.

The whole book reveals the word "true"!

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The back cover of this book by Sister Ximen is even recommended by Feng Tang, Lu Jinbo, and Di An.

Feng Tang praised her for "having an interesting life", and Dean was moved by her "power of words". After reading the book, publisher Lu Jinbo said, "Beauty, wealth, and marrying your first love are all... She deserves it".

Last month, she went to Chengdu to promote the book and sign sales. I also met my sister-in-law in Chengdu (Sister-in-law Ximen’s real name is Zhang Xinxin).

I still remember that at that time, my sister-in-law and the team dragged their suitcases directly to the event site.

Before the event started, in the warm-up video, the first shot was of the sister-in-law typing out the words "I will take matters into my own hands and enter the world tactfully" in a word document. Then, I saw from the video My sister-in-law’s dedication to this book, her dedication to life, her dedication to work, and her dedication to our readers, I really think it’s very nice!

From the moment I saw the video, I was full of curiosity about this book and this person.

During the event, when a reader asked my sister-in-law "Will you consider coming to Chengdu to work in the future?"

She replied: Of course she will come to Chengdu, but not for work , it must be life. Who works in such a pleasant city? Ha ha.

At the end of the event, as long as readers come to sign books, she will ask: "Do you want to take a photo?" Then stand up and take a selfie with the reader.

She was still in the middle of the book signing when she said to the guest at her event, "travel self-media person" Wang Xiaohou'er: Don't worry, you can go back in time. I've changed my flight to a later date.

It is just as I imagined, her goodness is reflected in all aspects. ?

When I saw her dedication to this book from the warm-up video before the event;

When I saw her from the live atmosphere at the event, For the reader’s dedication;

When I was near the end of the event, I saw her dedication for her work.

She wrote a sentence in the book:

The self is unknown and the future cannot be predicted, but the world cannot be disdained.

She also said in her vlog:

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"Stubborn Life? Never Forget Innocence"

This book The first 11 articles in the book put aside the glamorous life of an Internet celebrity and tell the story of Zhang Xinxin, the sister-in-law of Ximen, while growing up in a wrestling style while slowly making peace with the world.

I was moved by the love, family, friendship, entrepreneurial history in her book,

and the story of her "desperate three mothers" from college to work.

(Pictures come from the Internet)

Also in the book are "Children's Entertainment", "N Ways of Expression of Love", "Passion to Act for Ideals", "Self-Sickness" "Hospitalization Situation" and other chapters, read ***Ming.

Her love affair with Lao Yang

is just like the hero and heroine in "That Little Thing in the Early Years". The two knew each other since they were young, but it wasn't until many years later that they met again at the Central Academy of Drama. During that time, the two met almost every day. Slowly, the heroine's heart moved, and the hero also said the four sweetest words in the world, "I like you."

She and Lao Yang have known each other for 33 years, been in love for 13 years, and been married for 8 years.

What Lao Yang is least good at happens to be what she cares about least, and Lao Yang’s shining point happens to be what lights her up the most.

Lao Yang, in her opinion, was the perfect match.

(Everyone wants to find such a soul mate)

When I saw the love between her and Lao Yang, I felt for the first time that text and video can both So touching! ! ! (The exclamation point is used because this love is really youthful.)

It was only after reading the fairy love between her and Lao Yang in the book that I understood where her gift to me belonged.

Her family relationship with Lao Ya, Lao Zhang, and Boss Xie

When I came to the family relationship from her love, the content gave me mixed feelings.

Because her father, Zhang, is a photographer, she grew up reading Maugham, Zhang Ailing and Chen Danqing and watching different movies. Because of her father's stubbornness in art, father's love was often absent in her life. Eventually, my parents also divorced.

Her relationship with her father gradually became estranged. Their relationship caused her father to miss her growth, and Zhang Xinxin also missed her father's aging.

Although Zhang Xinxin and her father missed each other's more important stage. But she has no regrets either. Because now, they are all living in their own lives and living pretty well.

(The picture comes from the Internet)

On the day of Zhang Xinxin’s wedding, the person who held her hand and handed her to the groom on stage was not Lao Zhang or Lao Xie, but It’s the bridesmaid Xiaohan.

Zhang Xinxin wrote in the book:

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Valentine's Day in 2007 was the first Valentine's Day since my sister-in-law and Lao Yang were together.

(Pictures come from the Internet)

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Years of Friendship

She has been with Hu Han, Han Xia, Lin Bixuan, etc. The way she treats her friends is revealed in her relationships.

From being "dismissive" to each other at first, they later became each other's best friends.

The innocence and innocence of her and her friends, as well as the wildness of her ideas, really reminded me of a lot of my past.

(Pictures come from the Internet)

Entrepreneurship Era

My sister-in-law thinks:

The scariest thing about starting a business is not that it is filled with challenges every day. The unknown. What you have to face every day is the company's narrow escape.

When she opens her eyes every day, the first thing she thinks about is "Where am I now?" "What time is it now?" "What should I do next?"

(Pictures come from the Internet)

She often wears 10-centimeter high heels and runs on various stone roads to go on catwalks.

In the dead of night, I can often calm down and write some of my own content.

In fact, behind every life you yearn for,

there must be someone who works harder than you think.

This world may not be the world you and I thought,

But we can rely on our own strength to enter any world we are in right now. The world you want.

(The picture comes from the Internet)

It is precisely because of Zhang Xinxin’s unyielding determination that she was so tired at work that she vomited blood. Due to work reasons, I was not treated in time, which resulted in a tumor growing next to the trachea. The surgical plan is complex.

This book once again made me feel "reluctant to finish reading" and "smirking" and "enthusiastic".

See those in the book:

The day my sister-in-law decided to dissolve the company

The darkest day when I was attacked by the Internet

The day my father left

The day I separated from my lover of more than ten years

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Later

Seeing her success in Beipiao

From a novice in the workplace to the boss of a company with more than 100 people

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I am really These feelings and contents are all what my friends and I have experienced or are currently experiencing.

Therefore, when I read the complete book, I couldn’t hide the excitement in my heart and the thoughts in my mind.

I must recommend this book to everyone! ! !

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If you want to have a chance to get to know "it turns out to be Sister Ximen" again;

If you want to understand the story behind the glamorous Internet celebrity from a different perspective;

If you have experienced unspeakable love, family affection, friendship, or some kind of life and death moment in your life;

Maybe when you open this book, you will have clarity. answer.

I am Xiaoqiang, a post-90s generation.

Not a writer, not a new media. I don’t think the world is good or bad. I’m just used to using words to record the present moment of my life.