What should I learn at the age of nineteen?

Nineteen years old is a very beautiful age. Compared with seventeen or eighteen years old, the ignorance has faded away and the youthfulness has been bid farewell. But compared with adults, they are less mature and more childish. For this age that is neither the flower season nor the rainy season, only learning can make us happy. After all, there is no end to learning and there is no limit to learning. If you are a student, in addition to learning the knowledge in the textbook, you also need to learn some ways of dealing with others. After all, as an adult, sooner or later you have to enter this society. So it is necessary to get involved earlier, but how to behave in society may not be something that can be learned in books. This kind of thing needs to be felt and learned in daily life.

It’s actually quite embarrassing at this age. It’s not too big to say that it’s too young, but it’s not too small to say that it’s too young. I feel that no matter what time or age, learning more is not a bad thing. Even if you are bragging and chatting with others, if you cover a wider scope, the chat will be more lively. Speaking of learning, there is nothing special to learn, and there is nothing that does not need to be learned. It is just that different things need to be learned at different ages. Young people are all young and energetic, the kind that don’t know how to feel sad, the kind that are carefree every day, the kind that think they are the best in the world. I don't particularly like such people. I think they have no ability and they make noises all the time. He behaves in a high-profile manner, but in reality he is just an embroidered pillow.

So for a nineteen-year-old, the first thing to learn is humility. Humility is not only a good practice, but also an ability. A person who knows how to be humble can always remember his own shortcomings and work hard to make up for his shortcomings. A person who does not know how to be humble does not have the ability to improve himself. As the famous aphorism says, humility can make people progress. Humility is not only a kind of cultivation, but also a way to attract people. Humble people, people around them are willing to be friends with them, and they have the kind of special effects that attract them. It can make people around them consciously approach them.

Getting along with humble people is like taking a breath of spring breeze, making them feel comfortable and at ease. But at this age, it is not enough to just learn to be humble, you must also learn to ask. This question is not to ask you to inquire about some gossip news, but to ask if you don’t understand. Because at our age, we are only at the beginning of our lives, just like the rising sun. We don’t understand that there are too many things. So we have to learn to ask. This kind of asking means humbly asking others for advice, so that they are willing to take the initiative to answer our questions.