Why are more and more young people busy planning wedding banquets themselves, no matter how busy they are at work? Isn't it easier for parents to arrange?

In today's society, more and more young people choose to hold their own wedding banquets instead of obeying their parents' arrangements. This phenomenon has aroused people's concern and thinking. Why do young people have such a choice? What kind of concept change and social background is involved in this?

First of all, it should be clear that hosting a wedding banquet by yourself does not mean disrespect for parents. On the contrary, it shows the independent quality of young people. In the past, many young people lived according to their parents' wishes and had few opportunities to express their thoughts and needs. Nowadays, young people are exposed to more information and ideas in education, work and life. They are beginning to realize their rights and pay more attention to their choices. So they are willing to make efforts for their marriage, even if they are busy, they have to arrange their own wedding reception, which shows that they are responsible for their own lives.

Secondly, hosting your own wedding banquet is also a challenge and innovation to traditional culture. Traditionally, wedding banquets are often arranged by elders, while young people have to obey the arrangements. However, this concept is no longer applicable in modern society. Young people believe that marriage is a matter for two people, and they should participate and make decisions together. So they will choose their favorite places, favorite styles, favorite menus and even invite their favorite guests. This behavior is a challenge to traditional ideas, but also the pursuit of individuality and diversity.

Moreover, hosting your own wedding banquet also reflects the importance of personal space in modern society. In the past, family members were more closely related and had less personal space and privacy. Nowadays, young people have gradually formed independent personality and values in the process of growing up. They want to maintain a certain degree of independence and personal space in their marriage life, rather than relying entirely on each other. Therefore, they will try to keep their opinions and choices in the process of preparing the wedding banquet to safeguard their rights and interests.

Finally, hosting your own wedding banquet is also an adjustment to the concept of consumption. In the past, people generally thought that weddings were a way to show off wealth and status. Therefore, many families will hold grand wedding banquets and spend a lot of money and energy. But with the development of society, people gradually realize that the real meaning of wedding lies in the love and commitment of two people. Therefore, more and more young people begin to reflect on this waste phenomenon and try to hold wedding banquets in a simpler and more environmentally friendly way. This not only reflects their concern for sustainable development, but also challenges the traditional consumption concept.

In a word, now more and more young people are busy planning their own wedding banquets no matter how busy they are at work. This is their insistence on their rights, personality and values in the face of the trend of diversification and individualization in modern society. This choice is not only a challenge and innovation to traditional culture, but also an adjustment to personal space and consumption concept. We should respect young people's choices, understand their pursuit, and guide them to establish correct values so that they can get real happiness in their marriage life.