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Collision with menstruation's mind

On May 7th last night, I sat in a chair in the hospital, waiting for Tony's call. Tony was going to talk to his mother tonight, so we didn't talk.

I was about to go back to sleep when my aunt came over and asked me what I was doing. After a brief conversation. My aunt told me that a person just left and left without relatives. I heard that he fell on a tricycle two days ago and was taken to the hospital. The doctor said that he needed to be sent to the ICU ward immediately, and he could survive if he was rescued in time.

The uncle is only 5 1 year old, and his family said there was no need to rescue him. Whatever happened, he stayed in the hospital for two days. He left yesterday, with no relatives around. He went alone.

My aunt thought I was scared, but I didn't. I just don't think I can accept this. Every time I hear such words, I feel very uncomfortable inside, even if it is not someone who has something to do with me.

Aunt said, I don't know why I didn't save him. I watched my relatives leave like this. You said it doesn't matter if you leave someone to accompany him even if you have no money. Don't let him be so lonely. Aunt watched the patient leave. It's in another ward. Other patients ran out in fear, but my aunt kept watching my uncle leave. The doctor and aunt said, don't look, you will be afraid in the future. Aunt came back, I'm not afraid, what's so terrible about it? I just feel sorry for him, and I didn't have a relative with me when I left.

Aunt also said that there is an uncle who is over 70 years old. On the day of hospitalization, many people came, and the nurses in the ward were quarrelling as a bee, because during the epidemic, only one patient's family could visit, not so many people. I thought it was a warm-hearted picture, which was different from the uncle who left.

Aunt went on to say that the next night, there was no one to take care of his family. Grandpa couldn't find his ID card and medical insurance card, and he kept walking in the hospital bed. The old man is inconvenient to move, because he moved to the ward once before, and he was very anxious. My aunt went to help uncle go and told him not to worry. I told the nurse that she would bring it to you when she found it. Relax first and have a good rest. Even if you really can't find them, you can reissue them. Don't worry, have a good sleep tonight. Grandpa answered yes, but he was still very anxious.

The nurse was also very angry and called the uncle's family. The nurse said that you should give it to me at once. A large crowd came last night, but they couldn't even shout. Today, no one.

When I heard what my aunt told me, I thought of my grandfather. I told my aunt that I was particularly sad to see Wang He and Wang Yang always accompanied by your aunt, and I was here. They can walk and move, but it's not serious, but you are always with them.

Think about it. When grandpa was ill, my family pushed me and didn't take him to see a doctor. I can't make my own decisions, and I can't get a word in. It's particularly uncomfortable to watch, and it's uncomfortable to watch grandpa. When I went to the hospital, grandpa slept alone at night, taking care of himself, and his legs and feet were not convenient. He goes to the toilet slowly, draws water and eats breakfast by himself. My grandfather is over 90 years old, and only during the day, my second sister-in-law brings him food. My grandfather still feels very happy, saying that there are such good granddaughters and grandchildren. Now look at these two young people. They accompany me every day, and I feel particularly uncomfortable thinking about my grandfather. I choked up and said. I want to cry at the mention of my important person. Aunt put her arm around my shoulder and said nothing. I will spend more time with my grandparents when I go home in the future.

I said, seeing the scene of their car accident, the car was destroyed like that. I saw that they were a little injured, but it's good to be okay. I thought of my father again. I drive all the year round to pull goods, and I am very worried and afraid of my father.

Feeling her strength and optimism, the beautiful aunt experienced many difficulties.

Aunt said her father was sleepy, too. When she was 7 years old, her parents died. At that time, her life was difficult and she starved to death. At the age of seven, she became an orphan.

Therefore, my aunt has no grandparents. My grandmother took care of her since childhood and lived with her since childhood. Aunt understands how I feel. Aunt and grandma gave birth to Seven Sisters, but when grandma was sick, they were both shirking. Aunt drove her to the hospital herself, and she did all the formalities herself. At that time, my aunt started her own business and got up early every day.

My aunt also had a serious illness. I don't know if it's cancer. My uncle and aunt divorced at that time. When menstruation was most in need of company, the man around him left him. During the illness, my aunt's grandmother left, but my aunt didn't see her. My aunt's mother kept it from her until her grandmother was cremated. She cried many times.

Last year, my aunt was diagnosed with cancer, which should be uterine cancer. During her illness, her father also checked out stomach cancer. She said that there was no money at home, but her aunt said that she would not give up treating her father, no matter how difficult it was, she must save her father. Aunt is very strong, and I am very grateful to Tik Tok for many good people who have given her a lot of help. Aunt also launched a water drop fundraising. No matter what, I won't give up a chance to live.

Aunt also told the doctor and her son that if I couldn't get off the operating table, I would donate all the useful organs. Anyway, people are gone, and cremation is also a box of ashes. Why don't you donate my organs to people in need and give them a chance to live?

I think my aunt is a big lover.

Aunt said that her father seldom talks, and her mother talks a lot and is very strong. Often quarrel with my father. Aunt always says to her mother, "mom, you have to make way for dad." Dad was in poor health and had a hard time since childhood. Think about it. When you are bullied by other children, you still have your parents when you go back, and only your own father can carry everything alone. Make way for dad and don't always quarrel with dad. "

Aunt's mother said yes, but she often forgot after a few days and quarreled with her father, so aunt always said these words to her mother.

Aunt said that after she got married, she would never let her father go to work again. Aunt and her father said, don't worry, I will take care of you, and I won't starve you if I have a mouth to eat. Just have fun and don't go out to work. So my aunt worked hard when she was young, doing her own thing, getting up at two or three in the morning every day and going home in the dark at night. This is what I want! I also want my father not to work like my aunt.

Aunt said, a person is to be strong, don't think about who to rely on, no one can rely on, and people must rely on themselves.

I think my aunt is a very expressive person.

I think my aunt is a very strong person.

Yesterday, several people suddenly came over and asked about Wang, my aunt's son. They're still filming. Later, I asked my son and mother to say some touching words, "Mom, you have worked hard, and my son will definitely take good care of himself." Now that I am the only man in my family, I will definitely support our family. "

But my son couldn't say these words, and inexplicably, he was suddenly asked to say these words. My aunt said to her son, son, think about the difficult days when my grandfather was ill and you saw grandpa and his mother lying in the hospital bed.

I found it funny and a little deliberate.

Aunt said that this is a friend she met in Tik Tok who is doing public welfare. It happened that everyone was a fellow villager. After knowing her, my aunt read all his Tik Tok. This uncle in Tik Tok has been doing public welfare. He was an orphan since he was a child. They care about each other and get to know each other through chatting. At that time, my aunt and her father were ill, and my uncle in Tik Tok said he would come to help my aunt. I thought it was not easy for my aunt, it was very difficult. But my aunt didn't agree. At that time, my aunt still felt a little unreliable, even if it was fake. After all, she is in Tik Tok.

Now I know that my aunt's son had a car accident and said that he must come this time. He went back to Qionglai once the day before yesterday, but my aunt didn't see the text message or receive his phone call. When my aunt replied to the message, it was already past 5 pm, and Uncle Tik Tok had gone back and said that he would come down the next day, that is, yesterday.

Aunt said that she had talked with those people for a long time, and she came up to help her, which was the shooting just mentioned. The king looked puzzled. When they left, he asked his aunt what was going on. Why didn't you tell me in advance? This makes me a little dizzy. Aunt said, I just deliberately didn't tell you, to see your reaction, and I didn't want others to think that I told you in advance and rehearsed.

Aunt said, that's what I want. Look at his reaction at that time. When I told him to think about the days when his mother and grandfather were ill, I saw that he was obviously immersed in it and had great feelings. I just don't want people to think that we are acting and rehearsing. We just want to be real. So I didn't tell my son.

I think my aunt is a real person.

My aunt said that I thought all the photos taken by Tik Tok were fake, but she said that all the photos taken by Uncle Tik Tok were true, but I really did it, and I didn't just help once, but I always paid attention to it and will come to you again after a while. There are so many warm and loving people.

Aunt said that this uncle started a small company and started to do public welfare with some money. Uncle Tik Tok himself is an orphan, and life has been very difficult since childhood. Now he has a daughter who was born mentally retarded. Uncle Tik Tok said that doing public welfare by himself can be regarded as accumulating more kindness for his daughter. It was too difficult when he was born. Aunt said, Uncle Tik Tok is really great. His daughter is like this, helping so many people every day.

"Aunt said, uncle Tik Tok helped an old man, a lonely old man, homeless, living in a rotten cloak car all the year round, with only the shell of a scrapped car. The old man picked up the rotten leaves that others didn't want in the market, took them back and cooked them outside. I also took in many stray cats and dogs, saying that this is also a life, so I went to those restaurants to pick up leftovers for those cats and dogs to eat.

Uncle Tik Tok came and built him a small house, that kind of tin house. They suggested that the old man send both cats and dogs to the homeless station. The old man said no, these are my treasures. I'm afraid they can't take good care of it. I have to take care of them myself.

Uncle Tik Tok also brought oil, rice, grain and a lot of dog food and cat food. "

"Because of the epidemic this year, the old people can't sell their own things. Uncle Tik Tok also helps the elderly who don't sell oranges and taro in Tik Tok, cut the fruit and put it in the car, and then sell oranges and taro in Tik Tok to live. All the money sold went to the old man. Citrus and taro are two different old people. "

I used to think that many of these things were fake, but I didn't expect them to be around, and there was a lot of kindness. Don't always look at others with that questioning eye. You are like that yourself, and not everyone else is like you.

Later, my aunt asked me who was just coming up. I said it was the boss and my aunt said it wasn't. I can tell who he is at a glance. My aunt said that this is a teacher of Yin and Yang. After people leave, they need to find a master to clear the way.

Slowly we began to talk about how we really felt when we saw this. I said that after I saw it, the people in the hospital were so helpless that I wanted to be a volunteer in the hospital. Aunt said that I thought the same thing when I first got sick. I saw that they were inconvenient to move and needed help, and I really wanted to help them, but I never did it because of my poor health and getting weaker and weaker.

I said that sometimes I really want to help some people, but I am embarrassed. I feel embarrassed to express myself or help others. My aunt said, don't be embarrassed, just say what you think, express it, do whatever you want, and don't care about other people's eyes and comments. Live high is good.

I said that I came to Sichuan and found that people here helped each other. Very human. I like Sichuan very much. Aunt said that people everywhere are like this, and there are still more good people than bad people in this world. I said that I knew it was good for the elderly when I was very young. When I saw those old people being bullied or children being unfilial, I gnashed my teeth and felt that they really didn't deserve to be human. I will pick up bottles for an old man with my classmates. She is also very kind to us. But primary school is still a little timid. When I saw a coffin on the beam of that grandmother's house, I got scared and slowly stopped contacting that grandmother.

Aunt said that she didn't like playing with children at all when she was a child. She just likes to move a small bench, sit next to them, listen to their stories and talk about life. Aunt said that she 16 was with her father, the first boyfriend and the last. During the divorce, many people were discussing whether my aunt was seeing someone outside. Aunt said, our mouths grow on others, and we can't control them, and we don't have to control them. I hope I have done nothing wrong. I don't believe that they dare to stand in front of me and say me in front of me, and live well.

Aunt is very beautiful, great beauty, very temperament, very loving. At first glance, I called my aunt my sister and thought this was Wang's sister. We talked like this all night, and I couldn't bear to sleep. I wanted to hear my aunt tell her story, but I couldn't help recording it. She will be a legend, ordinary and great.

Aunt and son get along well as friends, and now they are also very good on the plane. Aunt said that she felt that she owed her child too much, and she didn't give him a complete family since she was a child. She should love him well. I said it's not like watching you divorce your uncle. My aunt said I owe my child, and now the child is in the hospital. If we don't get along well, it will affect my son. Like friends, they talk to each other and express their love for each other.

Aunt's son is also very filial. When his aunt was ill, he stayed up with his mother for two days and two nights. The doctor said aunt couldn't sleep. When she sleeps, things will go from her neck to her throat. When she falls asleep, she can't sleep. Aunt began to sleep and breathe, and her son would wake her up. Her grandmother asked him to have a rest. When her grandmother came to see her, her son didn't trust me and asked me to keep it for myself. I didn't trust you to come, so I stayed for two days and two nights.

Yes, a safe family is happiness. Whether you have money or not, you will be happy in peace. Aunt is very happy to live with her father, mother and son, saying that even if I have no money, I am very happy to eat porridge for three meals a day.

When I first saw menstruation coming to the hospital, she almost cried. I stayed with them day by day, took care of them and said that they were all well now, so I was relieved. As long as they are all right and alive, it is easy to say anything about the car, because he went out in his cousin's car.

Because the aunt's son is worried about what to do with the car, the aunt told her son, don't worry, I'm glad you're okay. Your father is handling the rest, and the insurance company is paying for it. Don't worry. Besides, even if our family really can't afford it, mom still has a car standing there. I'll give it to your sister and I'll drive. Don't worry, I'm glad you're okay.

Aunt's son is particularly worried about his mother. He said to his mother, mom, I don't think it's that hard for you. I want you to go back and have a good rest. I have nothing to do now. I don't want to have nothing wrong with myself. You will be tired and nauseous. I leave the hospital and you stay in the hospital.

So we talked a lot. There are too many words to say, and I want to record them completely. After listening to my aunt's words, I felt a lot of experience and feelings. This is a special experience for me, so that I can cherish, cherish life and live happily every day, even though I have never experienced it.

Aunt said that her hair used to be very long, and she had to take it off when she went to the hospital for chemotherapy. Others advised her not to shave her head. She couldn't accept it at first, and her sister in the next hospital bed told her that I used to be like you, and I couldn't accept it at first. Now I think it's good to shave my head. Encouraged by her sister, she asked her sister to shave her head with me.

They went to the place where they shaved their heads, shaved their heads for free, and gave them two hats. They had no hair and asked them to take them back as a souvenir. Aunt said, don't you want it? I'll give it to you. The barber said no, you can take it back as a souvenir. I just thought that what they earn is hair, which may be made into wigs and sold for money. As a result, they didn't want hair and money, but also gave two hats, entirely for public welfare.

My aunt told me a lot, some of which may not be remembered now, but I will keep them in mind. Cherish life, fear life and cherish every day. Take good care of the people around you.

When we were about to go back, we happened to see them disposing of the uncle's body, so I told my aunt that I wanted to see it. We just watched them push him away and looked at him, although I didn't see anyone. We wonder why they didn't save him, why they didn't accompany him and let him go by himself. Look at all their clothes. They don't want to be poor. They can afford it. But why be so rude and let such a young life leave this world?

I told my aunt that if those are his mothers and children, I really think they are so inhuman, and we should also educate our children to be kind and caring. Later, I told my aunt that maybe these are not my uncle's own children, but those may be his brother's children. This aunt is not his mother, but his sister, etc. This uncle is a man without a wife and children. I feel so sad, my aunt told me, or we can think so. They just didn't want to see him so sad, so they let him go by himself. Is it okay? I said no, I couldn't think of it. I think they should stay with him instead of letting him die painfully in the hospital alone. People in our country will go home and leave with their families when they are dying, instead of being pushed into the morgue alone in a hospital bed.

Every day is particularly beautiful, cherish life, and hope that God will not give us life and take it away easily.

Learn to express, learn to love, help more people and protect their families. Life is short and bitter, but you are sweet.