Wedding preparation strategy

Wedding Preparation Guide | Bridegroom's Wedding Gift List

The whole process of the engagement party

On the day of engagement/engagement party

1. The man goes to the woman's house with a bow, or directly delivers it to the hotel.

2. Newcomers go to the hotel with their parents.

3. The couple and their parents greet the guests at the gate of the hotel.

4. The engagement ceremony begins.

5. Both parties read and sign the marriage certificate.

6. The man proposes to the woman (depending on the demand).

7. The couple made a simple speech to express their engagement.

8. Parents of both parties make simple speeches. Express blessings and thank the guests.

9. At the opening ceremony, the newlyweds toast and relatives give red envelopes to meet.

1. At the end, the couple's parents will see them off.

Before the engagement/engagement party

1. The families of both parties will discuss and determine the engagement time and place.

2. Invite and inform the guests of the time and place of the engagement party.

3. Go to the engagement party in advance to make simple arrangements (if you invite a master of ceremonies and a photographer, you need to communicate well).

betrothal gift

betrothal money: it can also be said that it is the bride price money negotiated by both families.

Gifts: Most of them depend on local customs. For example, in some areas, paying attention to six kinds of gifts actually means that the newlyweds have a rich life after marriage.

jewelry: generally divided into three kinds of gold and hardware, three kinds of gold include rings, earrings and necklaces.

hardware: on the basis of three golds, bracelets and anklets are added. Ningri

Banquet money: The money for the engagement party needs to be given to the woman.

dress+makeup

ceremony list

engagement letter: find your favorite style in advance and make it custom-made, and sign+affix your handprint on the same day.

Bouquet: Some boys are going to propose marriage when they are engaged, and they can also be given to girls as an engagement.

cake: engagement cake, double layer will do.

Tea set/saucer: Some engagement customs require offering tea to parents. What to put in tea and how many cups to prepare can be determined according to the custom.

layout list

background board: write "engagement party" and name and date.

welcome board &; Easel: put it at the door to guide the guests.

balloons: used for various decorations, such as balloon doors or tied to chairs for decoration.

happy characters: they can be used as decorations on the betrothal gifts.

table/tablecloth: for items such as betrothal gifts.

reception list: wedding candy/cake/cigarette/wine/melon seeds/peanuts and other festive items.

red envelopes: you can give them to children.

clothing+makeup

clothing: you can consider a red dress, or a decent skirt+small high heels.

make-up: make an elegant and energetic make-up, and you can ask someone to help you make it. If you have a hairstyle, the shawl will give you a sense of intimacy, the ponytail will give you a sense of virtue, and the short hair will give you a sense of refreshing and capable. According to the dress and the man's parents' preferences, make appropriate changes.

Couple: Suit and leather shoes can be considered for clothing. On this occasion, boys need to be very formal, clothes should be ironed neatly and shoes should be cleaned.

makeup: tidy your hair, shave your beard, cut your nails, and don't bring jewelry.

Parents' clothing: Mom can consider a long skirt or cheongsam, and Dad can consider a shirt, which is a little formal.

make-up: mom can paint light make-up and put on her head, and dad can shave well and be clean and decent.

the woman's engagement gift

the man's clothing: suit, shirt, tie, leather shoes, etc.

Return gifts: Most return gifts are based on local customs.

little doubts about engagement

1. Can we hold a wedding directly instead of an engagement ceremony?

As long as the families of both sides discuss it well, it is actually possible, and there are some places where there is no such thing as engagement. If you are really in a hurry, or the budget is insufficient, you can simplify the engagement ceremony. Both parties have a meal at home, and the boy gives the girl a bunch of flowers and a diamond ring. The sense of ceremony that the girl wants should be satisfied.

2. When to get engaged

There is no specific time. It mainly depends on whether two people and their families are ready to get married, so they can find an auspicious day to get engaged. Generally, the engagement date is 1-6 months before the wedding.

3. Do we have to hold an engagement party in the hotel?

This idea of looking at local customs and families of both sides, if you want to simplify the engagement, the man can send the betrothal gift to the woman's house, and then the two families can have dinner together and talk about some engagement and marriage in the presence of the elders.

if the engagement ceremony is very important, both parties can invite important family members and relatives to the hotel together, generally no more than 4 people, and even numbers are better, and then engage in the engagement ceremony.

4. Who will hold the engagement party?

Normally, it is held by the woman. Just give the money to the woman.

5. Do you need to hire a wedding planning company for the engagement party?

The following three methods can be referred to:

① Buy your own things to decorate.

② Some hotels provide decoration services, so you can ask.

③ If you have already made a wedding plan, you can ask whether the arrangement of the engagement party is provided.