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In their twenties, who doesn't suffer?

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Sister Aru is one of the best women around me.

She runs the most famous wedding photography agency in the area. Guests come and go in an endless stream, and two cities next door have opened branches. It is not a daily struggle, but it is definitely a successful model of entrepreneurship.

A year ago, I went to her studio to take wedding photos. I saw her sitting at the front desk with a smile, her long hair combed in a high bun, showing her slender neck, a simple pearl necklace and a black dress, which made her elegant and dignified, but she could not see the shrewdness of the businesswoman.

Coincidentally, more than ten days later, I met her at a poetry reading. On that day, wearing a lavender cheongsam, she performed a poem "Rain Lane" by Dai Wangshu vividly.

I sat in the audience and saw that this woman in her forties still had a noble and beautiful poetic heart. No wonder her eyes are so soft and her manners are so dignified.

Later, we gradually understood. She will recommend some books from time to time, or invite me to swim and practice yoga. I have been to her house several times and saw her bake a cake, make tea, put it out with exquisite pottery and put it on a small balcony with lush flowers and trees. It's really pleasing to the eye

Let's talk about the past and the present. Her opinions are good and funny, which makes people forget the customs.

I guess to myself that she should come from a scholarly family, be carefully brought up from an early age, learn to sing poetry on the piano, and always be favored by fate. At that time, I felt that only girls with superior material and rich spirit could grow into extraordinary appearance.

However, I was wrong.

It turns out that a woman as elegant and calm as her sister is also a dusty woman in her twenties.

She was born in an ordinary peasant family in a poor mountain village, and her academic performance was excellent, but she couldn't afford the high school tuition, so she had to give up her college dream and go to a technical secondary school.

Unexpectedly, the policy changed greatly that year, and the state no longer assigned jobs to technical secondary school graduates. She had no power, power and background, and finally entered a kindergarten as a teacher.

In order to pay off the 3000 yuan loan she owed when she was studying, Sister Aru used her off-duty hours and weekends to be the wedding emcee. At that time, she could earn 40 yuan money by running a race. A year later, she finally paid off the loan, and two years later, she had the first ten thousand yuan in her life.

Then she met the only thrill, a man who loves photography. It was at the end of the last century, and the wind of wedding photography in small cities was just blowing. Aware of the business opportunities, the keen Aru sister borrowed 50,000 yuan from relatives and friends and opened a wedding photography shop with her husband.

Unfortunately, at the beginning of their business, they did not manage well. The loss in the first year was nearly 654.38 million yuan, and employees' wages were still in arrears. Their lives suddenly fell into the abyss.

In order to pay off their debts as soon as possible, the couple worked hard, setting up stalls, selling popsicles, barbecues and everything. At that time, they always had to wait until it was getting dark before going to the vegetable market to buy leftovers at a price of ten cents a catty. Eating shredded green peppers once a week improved their food.

At that time, she was pregnant, and when she was in labor, she had to have the cheek to scrape together two thousand yuan before she was admitted to the hospital.

After giving birth to the baby, Sister Aru went to developed cities without hesitation to learn and learn from other people's studio management concepts and marketing strategies. A year later, she finally turned a profit and earned the first bucket of gold in her life.

At that time, Sister Aru had finished her 30th birthday. She devoted her brilliant twenties to the hardships and hard life of starting a business. But when it comes to this matter, she always appreciates herself at that time.

I dare to think and do things in my twenties, and I am hard-working enough. Only at the age of 30 can I qualify for ample food and clothing, and at the age of 40 can I qualify for elegance and calmness.

Every step of the moment is the cornerstone and foreshadowing of the future. There is no road to life in vain, and there is no pain in vain.

For young people with ordinary backgrounds, their twenties are really not a period in our lives.

Just out of school, inexperienced. Stumbling at work, confused in life and suffering emotionally. Because we are new here, we are in awe of this bizarre adult world. If you want to learn to do things a little, you have to be careful everywhere. It won't be easy.

No one promises you a bright future, parents can't build bridges and roads, and relatives and friends can't help you. Only you can fight.

Of course, the first thing to face is poverty.

My best friend, Taozi, earned less than 2000 yuan a month in the first year of work. She was embarrassed to get home, so she had to scrimp and save, and she wouldn't change a pair of shoes if they leaked. On rainy days, I went to work in the rain, and my feet were wet, but I still pretended as if nothing had happened and talked and laughed with my colleagues.

You must be so embarrassed and helpless, worrying about rent, utilities, and haggling over the price of a rice cover and Zhajiang noodles. But when my parents called to ask, they laughed loudly and said I was doing well.

Secondly, we have to face the pressure of work.

In the year of graduation, I worked as an intern in a state-owned enterprise, and most of my work was to sort out the leaders' speeches. Leaders like to talk for two or three hours, all of which are difficult to understand in dialects.

Listening to the tape often, I can't figure out his pronunciation or those professional words. In order to arrange the manuscript within the prescribed time limit, I almost sacrificed all my rest time, which made my nose run and tears.

But this is just the beginning. The following interviews and manuscripts almost filled my next ten years. Until now, I still trudge on this road, and I often think of Wang Xiaobo's words:

? Today I am 2 1 years old. In the golden age of my life, I had many extravagant hopes. I want to eat, I want to love, and I want to instantly become a twinkling cloud in the sky. ?

I also want to eat, love and be a free cloud, but there is no vast sky for me to be carefree.

Many young people like me are trapped in the city. Who are the ordinary small accountants, designers, salesmen and clerks who never lack money and can't sleep? Almost all of us in our twenties are immersed in busy work, trying our best to live, dream and future.

In fact, many people grow up in their twenties after leaving school.

Only after facing the wind and frost of this world alone can we truly understand the hardships of our parents and understand the efforts and persistence of adulthood. The beauty of breaking a cocoon into a butterfly is actually bred in the pain of transformation.

Twenty years old, this is the age of suffering. The so-called youth is capital, not only a delicate face and youthful body, but also the ability to endure hardships and the courage not to be afraid to come back.

The only question is whether the suffering you have experienced can light the way forward.

Therefore, if the sky is going to fall on the Sri Lankan people, they must first suffer from ideological suffering, physical suffering, physical hunger, physical emptiness and chaos in action. Therefore, their persistence has benefited them a lot. You see, Mencius has explained a truth that the significance of suffering lies in cultivating abilities and qualities that were not available before from suffering.

At the age of twenty, Zhao was still a walk-on in various studios. She has seen the supercilious look and is used to it, but it doesn't prevent her from speculating about other people's eyes and thinking about the essence of performance. The lifelike figures we saw later all came from her early forging and tempering.

Zhang Ailing said that fame is early, but not everyone has talent. A more ordinary life, one step at a time, with today's efforts, in exchange for tomorrow's richness.

Life is a process of continuous accumulation, and all success is not a castle in the air. These solid cornerstones must be laid down bit by bit through the efforts of young people.

We live in an era of class solidification and counterattack, but it is by no means an era of turning a blind eye to paying. It is lovely because it recognizes your efforts and efforts.

The real golden age is that the spring breeze is proud and the horseshoe is urgent, and Chang' an flowers will be seen one day; It's even more thankless. It's hard to blow out crazy sand before you get to gold.