Photography is the "wedding dream" of the elderly who are married in gold and silver. Do you know the history of golden wedding and silver wedding?

Golden wedding and silver wedding originated in Europe, and the history is not particularly detailed. But as far as China is concerned, a golden wedding and silver wedding was originally designed to make the wedding more ceremonial and attract people's attention. However, the golden wedding and silver wedding in China are too long. If you really want to meet the golden wedding years, you should probably know each other from an early age, and both of them should live a long life. In Europe, the number of years of golden and silver marriage is relatively easy to meet. In the west, it seems that as long as the 25th anniversary is enough, it is relatively easy to achieve.

However, whether it is a golden wedding or a silver wedding, in fact, marriage is not about length, but about quality. Many people prematurely end the ideal of a beautiful marriage because of their unhappy marriage, but this is not right. I remember when the epidemic in COVID-19 was prevalent, there was an old married couple, but when the reporter interviewed whether they could be isolated together, the old woman chose not to be isolated.

This shows that our imaginary golden wedding is not so happy, or we have added a lot of content. It doesn't mean that two people must be happy when they are together for a long time. It may be that the two sides have been able to live together for so long and have endured a lot. The management of marriage depends on many things, for example, two people should have three views. Although we can't have exactly the same views on the same thing, we can't refute each other's views too much, but we should be tolerant of each other so that we can spend more time together.

If couples are forced to live together just to pursue a long-term marriage, I think it is better to divorce early and give each other a freedom, which is the best ending for each other. In fact, we always thought that uninhibited Europeans might not have so many golden couples, but this is not the case. They still attach great importance to marriage, because marriage is actually a major event in life, no matter which nationality or era, so the golden marriage was established.