The love choices of three people (three love inspirations for young people)

Introduction: Love is an eternal topic. Men and women in love will be very different from when they were single. Love will secrete hormones, and love also makes people become more multi-faceted. These may be the magic of love. Everyone cherishes first love. If a relationship wants to blossom and bear fruit, it must be managed carefully to have a happy ending.

In the days before and after Chinese Valentine's Day, WeChat Moments has become a high-frequency place for showing affection. Friends with partners began to post pictures of the two dating together and various gifts. Single friends also did not treat themselves badly, either by dating their close friends, or by themselves happily treating themselves to a delicious meal.

Seeing everyone so happy, it is inevitable not to go with the flow and celebrate.

I couldn't help but relive a movie from more than ten years ago - "A Little Thing About First Love". After many friends have watched this movie, they will think of their beautiful and silly first love period, and they will all say with emotion, "It was so cute when I first fell in love!"

In the movie The heroine Xiao Shui is an ordinary-looking girl, dark and thin, and her family conditions are average. But in her heart, she fell in love with the school's most popular figure - A Liang.

Xiao Shui had a crush on A Liang and tried his best to get close to A Liang, so he and a few friends began to think about how to get closer to the male god.

Xiao Shui started to take action and put in a lot of efforts to make herself whiter and more beautiful. Finally, Xiao Shui was able to get along with A Liang up close.

At the end of the film, the two meet again, and everything is left unsaid. Both parties are young and promising high-quality human beings. Of course, it is a happy ending to meet again after 9 years of separation.

However, as a movie audience, I actually prefer scenes that describe Xiao Shui's continuous self-improvement. The movie tells many girls with secret crushes that as long as you want to become a better person, you will definitely gain something through your own efforts.

The movie "A Little Thing About First Love" allows us to appreciate the beautiful relationship between the male protagonist and the female protagonist, but it also reminds us of the scene when we first fell in love when we were young.

However, some people have made good choices in love and life, while some boys and girls have lost themselves after all. The most disappointing love story is undoubtedly "The Left Ear" directed by Su Youpeng.

Many people said that they were very depressed after watching "The Left Ear", especially Xu Ge, played by Yang Yang, who did not love the right person in his first love, so that his subsequent life was a mess.

Let’s analyze it. If you want love to blossom and bear fruit, there must be several conditions. First: Like someone worth liking and make yourself better at the same time.

In "A Little Thing About First Love", A Liang is handsome and a popular figure on campus, but he is also kind and brave, and has the loyalty of a teenager.

When Xiao Shui had a crush on A Liang, he was initially attracted by his looks, but later he gradually realized that A Liang had a good personality. And A Liang is not an embroidered pillow. Judging from the introduction of the meeting again 9 years later, A Liang has transformed from a superstar to a photographer and is a capable person.

A Liang also had some feelings for Xiao Shui in his heart, even though Xiao Shui had not really turned into a beautiful girl at that time.

For Xiao Shui, she may have just had a secret love at first and didn't expect a good ending, but she has goals and hopes in life.

In real life, some girls eat and drink all they want when they are young, cannot control their weight, and do not improve their inner qualities. They also imagine that boys will love her so much that they can’t help themselves. Girl, I advise you to stay awake.

Xiao Shui changed from a thin and dark girl in the first grade of junior high school to a pretty girl, which was achieved through her hard work. She makes a little progress every day. Not only does she pay attention to her appearance, but she also does not relax at all about her academic performance and other internal issues.

It was precisely because of these factors that she was able to go to the United States to study and get more opportunities for personal development.

On the other hand, in the aforementioned "Left Ear", both boys and girls are involved. The entanglement between Li Bala and Xu Ge is very suffocating. A good-looking boy, because his first love failed, Falling in love with the wrong person will lead to his incorrect views on love in the future.

When we are teenagers, it is best to improve ourselves first. If we like someone, it is okay, but the prerequisite is that this person deserves this love.

To like someone is to put them together and work together, instead of hurting each other and breaking things. Second: The best love is to love each other and go in both directions.

Everyone likes to watch "A Little Thing About First Love" because the movie is sweet. Although there are some misunderstandings, overall it is quite beautiful. Especially between the male protagonist and the female protagonist, the two have a good impression of each other, and the good impression already existed before they separated.

The best love is to love each other, rather than to have sex with each other.

I don’t know since when, many young girls have fallen in love with a secret crush. They have a crush on one person and involve themselves completely, without receiving anything in return, and still feel good about themselves.

Some girls say, "I just like him, and he will be moved by me!" Please, if a man likes a woman, he will try his best to be with her, and vice versa.

Take a look at the news a few days ago. There is a male artist who has been in love with his ex-girlfriend for 9 years and is unwilling to get married. Then he posted on WeChat and admitted that he now has a new "girl whom he loves deeply".

Many girls are easily moved when they are in love, but after all, love cannot be obtained by being moved. True love is loving each other and running in both directions, rather than singing a one-man show. Third: When you realize that the other person is not a good match, bravely turn around and leave.

There are many girls around me who have experienced difficulties in love or marriage. Most of them fell in love relatively early. At that time, they were mentally immature and believed that a man who treats them well is suitable for them.

There is a female classmate who looks quiet and comes from a well-off family. In high school, she met a boy who pursued her fiercely. During the important period of her senior year in high school, a female classmate invested a lot of energy and time in dating, and finally got admitted to a junior college. After graduation, she could only work as an ordinary employee in an ordinary company.

She thought that after entering society and making money on her own, life with her boyfriend would gradually get better, but she found that her boyfriend was becoming more and more out of control.

It turned out that she had discovered that her boyfriend liked gambling a few years ago. Since her boyfriend came from a single-parent family, her mother-in-law was quite doting and thought it was nothing for a man to go out to socialize and play cards for tens of dollars. However, the boyfriend became more and more exaggerated, losing the wedding bonus they received, the down payment given by the woman's parents to buy a house, and the boyfriend also squandered their normal wages.

The female classmates had already sent out wedding invitations because of their dignity. It would be shameful not to get married, so they gritted their teeth and got married. However, getting married and pregnant still did not stop her husband from gambling and losing money on renting a house and living expenses.

The female classmate lost hope in life. They had a fight while they were arguing. The fetus could not be saved. The female classmate gave up completely.

Now that female classmate is married for the second time and has a lovely baby. She once said with emotion, "If she hadn't been so ignorant back then, she wouldn't have been immersed in a fruitless love so early and suffered all kinds of injuries. . ”

In fact, in the process of love, you will get to know yourself better, which is very important. When you find that the other person is not your good match, it seems to be a better choice to bravely turn around and leave.

People say that first love is beautiful. Indeed, at that time we were still young and our thoughts on many things were simple and pure.

So many people say that "emotions on campus are the purest", but why do many relationships on campus end in vain?

Because the future is easy to change and is affected by external factors, everyone is changing.

What’s more important is that many campus love partners are not so beautiful. Perhaps the highlight of their lives was on campus, but they were beaten after entering society.

If you want your first love to be fruitful, you must choose a "good" partner at the beginning. For example, if your three views are correct and your thoughts are progressive, you will also like you.

No one does not want to have a good life, but a good life will not fall from the sky.

A good life depends on people's hard work, even love.

To manage a good relationship, you must first choose a seed and add a few necessary nutrients before the fruit of love can bloom.

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Today’s topic discussion: Are you “regretful” or “grateful for breaking up” with your first love? Welcome to leave a message for discussion.