Muxiuhui was destroyed by Lin Feng! Really good people, will their popularity be bad?

While enviable; Imitate and give up. Once a watershed is reached, excellent people will become more and more excellent, and mediocre people will only become more and more mediocre.

Gradually, I will also see another cruel fact: truly excellent people are unpopular.

Really excellent people, a lot? Personality? .

Me, that's me, different fireworks.

Although, every time I hear this sentence, I will think of the singer Leslie Cheung, and this is his prediction of his own death. But I still can't forget it. If I can live so freely, it is also a great blessing in life.

My good friend A Zhi is a very talented person, because he is good at writing materials, from a small community worker to? Dig? At the municipal level, it is ten years. In the past ten years, he has written materials for the two main leaders, and his ability level has been well received. Oral praise and praise are naturally endless, but every time there is an opportunity for promotion and appointment, leaders will not think of him.

In a blink of an eye, Chi is in his early forties, and he has given up any hope of promotion. He began to learn to refuse some things, except for big materials, which were still regarded as his duty, and other chores Archie also made clear? Don't come to me again. ?

Working in front of the computer for a long time in the office made him suffer from serious shoulder and neck diseases, overdrawn and unsuccessful in his career, which made him shift the focus of his life to loving himself.

Besides being good at writing materials, A Zhi also likes photography and outdoor sports. Gradually, his weekend became an outdoor sports day, and every time he updated his circle of friends, he was familiar with but extraordinarily beautiful scenery. A Zhi always has a unique vision and sees the world from different angles.

Sometimes, he also accompanied his photographic works with some essays or poems, and gradually, many works were published in newspapers. A few years later, a collection of essays was published.

A Zhi went further and further in his writing, opening up a whole new world. He became a columnist, writing constantly, and was often invited to give lectures, which made him famous.

When people in the unit are still fighting for positions and interests, he is already looking on coldly, because he has successfully started his second career, and all his spare time is too busy. Where can he have sulking thoughts and opportunities?

Eating with real skills and traveling around the world with craftsmanship are outdated at any time. ? Heroes don't ask the source? , a really good man, his? Personality? Often become the most talked about topic, no longer derogatory, but sincere envy.

Really good people, some people are jealous and some people are slandered.

Fish and birds always live in different spaces, so do people.

My best friend Ping called to say that she was depressed today. She was scolded by her boss this morning, and she used it. Do what you like, or don't! ? The bitch's swearing words.

And A Ping firmly believes that from the female boss's mouth, there are countless worse words than this, which can be scolded at any time. But she always forbear, forbearing everything with me, thus avoiding many things like today? Meet? Very unpleasant.

Although A Ping has no position, she works seriously, well and quickly, carefully and attentively. Even if she often does a lot of extra work, she has no complaints.

No matter what kind of unit it is, it still needs people who can do things and people who can do things well. And Ah Ping happens to be such a person.

Everyone praised A Ping for her sureness, diligence and strong ability to get along with others, but her female boss gave her a hard time everywhere. Just like the scenes in film and television dramas, in real life, that kind of arrogance and arrogance is suffocating everywhere.

After four years together, A Ping has done so many things conscientiously. In the eyes of the female boss, she is just a machine. I caught a bad cold these two days, and besides, there is still a lot of work to be done at once. A Ping refused the job assigned by the female boss for the first time. In this way, it soon attracted some curses from her. What? Face to face and behind? 、? What are you good at? .

Ping really regrets why. Fight back? If there is something ugly, the female boss can talk casually. For a person who looks down on himself, the more he talks, the more boring he becomes.

Really nice. Do you like it? Are you alone? .

Being alone is not a loner, but the best quality of a person. As Schopenhauer said, only by being alone can a person become himself completely. ?

Since the song is too high and too few, no one can understand it, so don't force it.

The world laughs at me for being too crazy, and I laugh at the world for not being able to see through it? . Really excellent people are more willing to listen to their inner calls and find the life they want.

Just like Emily, the heroine in the movie Angels Love Beauty, she is intelligent, considerate, caring and talented, but she is often mistaken for an incompetent person. She is out of place in the crowd, but in her world, we will find that she is so excellent.

Only when you are with people on the same frequency will you feel happy and happy. So, the unique Emily, finally in her way, her favorite person, an equally different person, came.

When one begins to learn to be alone, everything has a new beginning. No longer confused, where will you go; No longer confused, this choice is right, but calm down and finish well.

Writer Zhang once said:

The better people like to be alone, because everything is clear. ?

Try to be such a person, even if his popularity is not very good, it doesn't matter. How nice it is to give up those low-quality social contacts and cut off those meaningless contacts and try to shine in a limited life!