The mode of thinking determines the height of your life

The mode of thinking determines the height of your life

In the final analysis, the fundamental difference between people is the mode of thinking. How big your thinking mode is, how high your life can fly.

Zeng Guofan said:

"People who pursue greatness first pay attention to patterns."

There is another sentence:

"The mode determines the result."

It can be seen how important a person's thinking mode is. To look at a person, we must first look at his mode of thinking.

Your mode of thinking determines the height of your life.

There is a story about Zhou Ying choosing his son when the moon was full that year, which has just come to an end.

Zhou Ying wants to choose a stepson from his uncle and his five grandsons. In order to be fair, he held a "children's selection competition". The competition is divided into three games, and the third game is the most interesting and expensive.

To give each child twenty taels of silver, the requirement is simple: spend it in an hour and spend it well.

It is easy to spend money, but there is really no measure of "value for money". The child's feeling of "value for money" is to satisfy his aunt (Zhou Ying), but how can he satisfy his aunt? A child said, buy something that aunt is satisfied with.

Yulin bought a jade bracelet at a discount, and you can earn twice as much when you change hands, and the more you put it, the more valuable it is. It will be worth 220 silver in two years. As you can imagine, two years later, it did have a vision and vision.

Yujin bought ginseng and angelica. Although ginseng and angelica are at a high point now, he doesn't want to win. He just wants his aunt to mend his body.

Yutong bought food and play, and was happy to spend money. Of course, it's worth the money. Yusheng bought several cars of fodder and pulled it to Xingping, earning at least three taels of silver.

As for Yucheng, because he didn't want to be Zhou Ying's son at all, he directly gave twenty taels of silver to his four brothers, and then played happily by himself.

Asked about Yucheng, he plausibly said, "Have all the brothers spent it? They spent it, which means I spent it. I spend money on my brothers, and as long as they spend it properly, I spend it properly. "

Earning money depends on skill, and the way a person spends money can tell his thinking mode. Zhou Ying commented:

Yulin has a long-term vision and Yusheng is good at calculation, and will be a good business player in the future. Yutong doesn't take money seriously Being kind and careful, I will definitely be able to play the sign of the Wu family in the future.

But they are all things that are bought with money, and Yucheng is a person who spends money to buy. I am very surprised that I know how to use people at such a young age.

Looking at the essence through the phenomenon, Zhou Ying pointed out their future life path and life height. Sure enough, the finale of this TV series is fixed in Yucheng (later renamed Huaixian), Zhou Ying's Farewell Boat. Huai starts from Jingyang and will fly to a wider sky.

Your thinking mode determines the height of your life.

What separates people is the mode of thinking.

What kind of thinking mode you have, what kind of choices you will make, and what kind of choices you make will determine what your life is like.

I thought that after graduating from college, I returned to my hometown according to my parents' expectations and worked in a large central enterprise automobile company. In all these years, I have never moved within the system. So far, I have only jumped ship once, but I still work in this central enterprise.

In the first few years, I worked hard, worked hard, worked hard and made rapid progress.

But after a few years, I feel lazy and tired after working in the same job for a long time. I began to enjoy comfort, not to make progress, and lost the fighting spirit of life. At that time, my life was really a bit like "I died at the age of 25 and was buried at the age of 75".

When I was 30, it was like playing the game of finding a stool. Everyone ran around the stool. At the age of 30, the music suddenly stopped and everyone began to sit down.

I don't want to stand alone, so I have to sit on the nearest stool. My brother is just the opposite. He always knows what he wants to do.

After graduation, he also returned to his hometown according to his parents' requirements and had a stable job, but this was not his pursuit. He yearns for the years of burning passion and doesn't want to live the life of boiling frogs in warm water.

He likes to delve into computers and has long planned. His future lies in the IT field of Beishangguang. For this goal, he laid out early and made a good career plan. The present stability is only accumulating strength for his future.

Taking advantage of this stable period, he eagerly seized all the time to study. I teach myself computer and network knowledge in my spare time, and I also take some computer courses in class. How many times have I woken up in the middle of the night and found that the light in his room was still on. He was either reading a book or in front of the computer.

Later, when the time was right, he quietly resigned and went to Beipiao. Mother knew that she didn't sleep well for the next few nights, so she earnestly advised him that the outside world was dangerous, work was not easy and life was hard, so she should stay in her hometown and not go out. But my mother's tears finally failed to stop my brother's footsteps, and my brother left without hesitation.

My brother is 30 years old. In Beijing, he has a house, a car, a family and a job he likes. My brother and I come from the same family. We have similar majors and the same academic qualifications, but our 30-year-olds are quite different.

I have to admit that it is the mode of thinking that opens the gap between people.

Jump out of the original thinking mode and break through the limitations

In the TV series Ode to Joy, Qu Xiaoyu once said:

"What are the restrictions? The limitation is that the woodcutter thinks the emperor is picking a golden pole. "

Different modes of thinking, there is an insurmountable gap between the woodcutter and the emperor. People who drive BMW are trying to change Bentley, while people who drive Chery are always trying to save fuel.

Indeed, what kind of thinking mode you have will lead to what kind of life.

I was deeply influenced by my parents and teachers. Parents and teachers have taught us since childhood:

Live frugally and save money.

School and family have a subtle influence on our psychology, habits and thinking patterns, and unconsciously penetrate into our bones.

So I have developed a good habit of thrift since I was a child. It's a pity to dump the leftovers, but you have to eat them hard and you can't waste them. Don't want to wear expensive clothes, only wear them at important moments; Exquisite and precious tableware is not willing to use, and it will be used for many years; I don't want to throw away the garbage at home, always thinking that I can use it again in the future. ...

I used to like to visit Taobao to buy bargains, discounts and gifts.

Later, it was discovered that the cheap clothes were worn for less than two years, and the gifts were either of poor quality or really useless. Without good goods, sellers are always better than buyers.

Besides, it is often inappropriate to spend hours browsing and selecting things on Taobao, so it is better to go directly to the mall to buy them. It's not expensive, but the key is to save time and effort.

I might as well waste this time on some beautiful things, such as reading, spending time with my family or spending time with myself. I kept reflecting on myself, and gradually, I changed my mind.

Leftovers should be thrown away, and hard support is harmful to health; Clothes are for wear, and tableware is for use. Isn't it just for use? Is it because you don't deserve the high-end items at the bottom of these wardrobes? These rubbish should be thrown away. It's no use keeping it. ...

If economic conditions permit, problems that can be solved with money should be solved with money as much as possible, because time is more precious than money.

Save money, save money, but money can't buy back lost time, lost youth and lost happiness.

I used to be a poor man's thinking mode, thinking that saving money is making money. So more energy is devoted to studying how to save money, and people's energy is limited. When you study how to save money every day, you will not have more energy to study how to make money.

Money is spiritual. If you are good at using it, it will cost more and more. If you are not good at using it, it will cost less and less. The more reluctant you are to spend money, the less money you can earn. You always focus on petty profits or like to covet petty advantages. How can there be a big pattern?

Later, I spent money on books, courses and continued to invest in myself. Finally, my ability was improved, my job was promoted, I spent a little money and earned a lot of money.

It seems that although everyone's thinking mode is limited and difficult to change, it does not mean that it cannot be changed. Jumping out of the original thinking mode and practicing constantly can also break through the limitations.

Life is very different. In the final analysis, the fundamental difference between people is the mode of thinking. How big your thinking mode is, how high your life can fly.

Only by changing thinking and enlarging the pattern can we break through the limitations and life will fly higher and higher.