Strive to grow up in a complex society

You and I met in this hot August. The weather is getting hotter and hotter, has your heart become impetuous?

Recently, Xihe has just returned to his hometown-Sichuan. After driving for more than 28 hours, the green leather train finally arrived at my terminal-Dazhou Station, and I was more excited and looking forward to it. That day, I packed my bags early and waited to get off the train. Although I am very tired, I naturally feel balanced when I think that I can go home soon.

When I got off the platform, I heard the familiar Sichuan dialect "Sister, where is it?" And "Do you want anything?" He Xihe feels particularly cordial.

Because of my studies, I am far from my hometown and study abroad alone. This is the norm of our generation! I remember an ancient poem: "Now, when I meet people near my village, I dare not ask a question." Now I understand this point deeply.

For my hometown, we will eventually become passers-by in a hurry. For better development, big cities are ivory towers in our hearts, and everyone is trying to get close to them, even if they are embarrassed, they will move on. Because this is a challenge brought by social development, all we can do is bravely accept and face the social reality!

"This society is developing so fast that I feel I can't keep up!" "How to study? What should I do after graduation? What should I do? " Almost all of us are fascinated by these social survival problems.

Society is really realistic. If you don't grow up, you can't stand on the society. Take Xihe himself as an example. Xihe is a pre-school education major, that is, one of the many gardeners who will try their best to cultivate the flowers of the motherland!

To tell the truth, as an ordinary high school student, studying preschool major really has no advantage, but it is more difficult. The teaching mode of preschool education is basically based on skills, supplemented by theory. Playing, jumping, speaking, singing and drawing are the skills that a qualified kindergarten teacher should have. For Xihe, it is very difficult to learn these skills courses, such as piano, which is my biggest headache.

The university is new to the piano. I have no talent, my fingers are not long enough, and my sense of rhythm is not strong. It's hard to learn. Every time I go to the piano room to practice, I sit for hours. Others may know a tune several times, but I have to say it dozens or even hundreds of times before I can barely know it. Maybe Cersei was too stupid to cry.

Because the school is basically full of classes every day, I have to squat in the piano room to practice on Saturday and weekend. In order to reduce the burden on my family, I will choose to work part-time in winter and summer vacations. The most impressive part-time jobs are sales promotion and children photography. Upgrade old stores, rename new stores, engage in preferential promotions to attract new and old customers. How to let others know? This requires us part-time workers.

In the hot July, with the sun of 37℃, I shuttled through the streets and met all kinds of people. Some people, if you stop her politely, she will stop and listen to your explanation; However, some people put on a flustered look; Some even swear that they don't hesitate to do anything ... I can't help feeling: this is a big forest, and there are all kinds of birds!

Sometimes I am really wronged, but I can only endure it and secretly wipe my tears in the corner. You still have to grit your teeth, because this is your job. What you can do is to do your own work hard and keep up with the pace of the big army, otherwise you will be passive and become an outcast.

Study hard and grow into a butterfly!

There are many hidden rules in social work, which require us to learn to grow up and learn lessons when we hit a wall again and again.

The interpersonal relationship in society is also very complicated, and you may come into contact with all kinds of people. Confucius said: the three must learn from each other's strengths, choose the good and follow it, and change the bad. This requires you to always keep a clear head in your usual interpersonal communication, and what kind of person you will be with. "Those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black" has always been the truth!

Although the university is a small society, the cruelty of society is far beyond your imagination. Survival of the fittest is an eternal law. People who are better than you are still studying and practicing, but you are proud to stay where you are. After all, you can't stand in society!

So Xihe advocates here: Don't just lock yourself in the cage of school life, take part in social practice, learn and grow through constant practice, and sum up experience, which will really be helpful for future work.