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What does "feeling" mean between men and women?

If two people have feelings, they don’t care about their age or the difference between rich and poor. Real feelings are when two people are together, they should have a feeling, a "feeling of intimacy". The man may not be handsome and the woman may not be beautiful, but they look pleasing to the eye and feel cordial to each other, just like family members, in front of each other. Both are able to relax completely, be willing to open their hearts, be willing to expose their vulnerabilities, and be willing to expose their shortcomings without worrying about being despised and ridiculed by the other party.

Real feelings are such a sense of intimacy and relaxation! It is a kind of family-like feeling! True feelings are the blending of hearts and minds, as well as mutual understanding and tolerance. It's easy to love someone's strengths, but it's hard to tolerate someone's shortcomings. If a person can tolerate the other person's shortcomings throughout his life, that's true love. Only the person who can tolerate himself the most is the person who loves himself the most.

True feelings are each other's care and consideration, the feeling of caring and cherishing each other, and the feeling of gratitude that you are good to me and I am better to you. I would rub his shoulders when he was tired, and he would patiently listen to my nagging when I was in a bad mood. When the weather is cold, they remind each other to put on more clothes. If one person has a cough or cold, the other person can immediately bring water and medicine. Silently remember what the other person likes to eat, and leave these things for him or her to eat...

True feelings are not romantic flowers and candlelight dinners, nor sweet words and vows of eternal love, but true feelings. Inner care and consideration are the real consideration and concern in every detail of life! As long as there is genuine care and consideration, the other heart will definitely feel it! The true relationship is when both parties know how to be grateful and know how to repay each other's love, rather than one party giving and the other party just asking... Love has nothing to do with material money, it only wants you as a person.

However, how many people have achieved this in reality?