Core event

I feel very confused when facing employment. I always hope to enter a place that can give me enough growth and value, but I don't know that my ability is not enough to reach the level required by the platform.

What is even more frightening is that I sometimes prefer to spend my time wandering and worrying, but I don't want to really devote myself to the professional skills I should train and make myself more professional.

So I hope I can understand that no matter how much time I can put forward every day, even if it is 5 minutes, 10 minutes, I will try my best to devote myself to things that can really improve my professional skills, instead of thinking about them all the time. Anyway, don't do it again before it's too late. . .

If life didn't start too late, the best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago, followed by now.

2. Good people

Today, when I was reading a book, I deliberately read a book about good people, only to find that I belong to an emotional good person.

That is, you will know in your heart that a nice guy is not what you like, but if you refuse others, you will feel guilty and guilty, so you will be emotionally tortured.

I hope I don't care too much about the opinions of people around me. I must be a kind person, but I must have a sharp blade. You must be a helpful person, but you must be divided into occasions and events.

3. Core

When I was fluent in reading and speaking, I practiced a text about economic distribution.

Among them, the author shows that 90% of the wealth in the United States is concentrated on 10% people, and 10% wealth meets the needs of 90% people.

Therefore, not everyone can live a rich life, and most people's lives are not so well-off.

But we can also understand that the life laws of many things in this world are the same, just like the 28 principle.

20% of energy should be spent on 80% of the least important things, and 80% of energy should be concentrated on those 20% of core time.

Step 4 be flashy

I hope I can be less vain. If beauty is just to make myself more comfortable, then I can support myself 100%.

But if I shoot a video repeatedly just to make myself look better and don't care so much about the improvement of my professional skills, then I hope I can really reflect on it.

It took nearly an hour to shoot a short video of the micro-lesson today. I admit that I watched many videos of my colleagues and got a lot from them.

However, I didn't fully open it when shooting, and I still care about the "image" and the feedback from the outside world.

I think it's normal to care about feedback. Good! This also proves that I want to perform as well as possible, which can promote my progress.

But I hope I can concentrate and spend more energy to improve my professional skills and do the most important thing at the moment, instead of spending too much time studying how to tamper with my hair and so on.

5. Values

Two days ago, while reading fluent English, an HR said that she didn't want to hire that girl as a salesman, because she found the female applicant unattractive, so she was denied the opportunity to join the company because of her appearance.

In our face-first society, I wish I could understand more. No matter what kind of situation you encounter, you must have heartfelt confidence! ! !

Don't always judge a book by its cover. Of course, it is important to pay attention to your image, but don't care too much about your appearance.

Just like one of my most admired people, who is nearly forty years old and melancholy, once told me that a woman can get what she wants by beauty before she is 30 years old. But after the age of 30 and 40, we will rely on our temperament and our knowledge to show our charm.

Sharing from cattle people:

Today, I taught a 12-year-old child, and I feel that his English level really surpasses most college students! ! !

Get up before 6:30 and turn off the lights before 22:30.

Don't touch any messy information in the morning, WeChat QQ will be completely retired to ensure learning efficiency.

No matter how busy you are, you should take a nap for 30 minutes+read extracurricular books for half an hour.

Make a plan every morning, listen to English and preview.

Strive to set foot in most fields before high school, and punch in psychological art, history of World War II, history of Ming Dynasty, philosophy, music theory and Roman history.

I also want to see the photographic history of world economy and finance.

I have read many books about psychology, which is also my future goal.

At least five original English novels every year.

Run for 40 minutes in the morning, insist on daily exercise, and strive for failing to get an A in physical education.

Write down unfinished plans on post-it notes every day.

It's faster without Tik Tok and Atto, no variety shows, no dramas, no holidays, no animations and movies.

The only pastimes at ordinary times are probably guzheng and guitar. Guzheng alto amateur level 9 passed two years ago. At present, guitar band 4 is only learned during holidays.

When I was in the first grade, my mind was not on my studies. With strict family education and a little cleverness, I even entered the top 20 of that year.

In fact, people wake up in a flash.

It's a pity to think of myself in grade one.

It's really not proud that you can't make it into the top ten in such a small county on the 18 line.

The first volume of Grade One ends 19, and the second volume is 6.

Now the second grade is stable in the first five paragraphs.

A useful timer is probably 10h+ study every day (not entirely in-class study).

I want to be better than everyone else and move towards a better future.

If you don't have much homework, you can buy exercise books to brush the questions. Your memory is not good. If you are not smart enough, you will try your best to collect questions and ask the teacher.

Tired, full and happy.

I think the most important thing in life is probably to do what you want to do most and live in the way you like.

I like literature, psychology, travel and being with like-minded people.

Even if it's just for this, you should try to get out of this small town and see another world.

I can't say how hard I tried, I can only try my best to answer.

This year 13

When I read such an article in Zhihu again, I only felt that the afterlife was awesome. )

There is a school called Hengshui No.2 Middle School.

Students here only spend 15 minutes on three meals a day.

The net study time exceeds 14 hour.

Only one day off every month, no more than 24 hours at a time.

Every winter and summer vacation is no more than two weeks.

There is no Qingming National Day May Day holiday.

I haven't played mobile phone computer for a minute except holidays.

This school has 1%~2% students admitted to Tsinghua Peking University every year.

————————— The above is the original answer.

Other performances of "hard work" can be answered with reference to the praise of another friend in Hengzhong. He spoke in great detail. Except for some details, Hengzhong and Henger have similar learning patterns.

Let's put some photos of our alma mater first. Yes, this is a school.

Shaped like a prison guardrail to prevent students from jumping off buildings.

The picture comes from the watermark.

Although few people can enter Beijing, the slogan must be loud and clear.

Students are "mechanized", and English composition requires handwritten printing, which is from Hengshui No.1 Middle School.

Before the meeting, you should also endorse before the election. In order to be energetic, you must hold the book high.

Learn about Hengshui No.2 Middle School, and you can log in.

Www.hsez.net has obtained relevant data, and the real names and admissions of the graduates of the 20th16th class are still on the front page.

Actually, my answer is not perfect. I'll just tell you how likely it is that a student will be admitted to Shangbei under the limited conditions of "Hebei Province". If he spends 14 hours of study time every day (in fact, it's more than 14 hours), I want to apologize for what he has to say below.

The fundamental reason of Hengshui education mode is vicious competition, which is a typical theater effect. As long as one school starts the competition, other schools will either participate or watch the winner take it all. Education is also a market, and the enrollment rate is the best sign of a school. Consumers in the education market will only choose schools with high enrollment rates. Hengshui took the lead in vicious competition, and created the results of the "Great Leap Forward" and "Satellite Competition" in the college entrance examination with a deformed high school model, which destroyed the entire educational ecology. In order to survive, other schools in Hebei have to follow suit, such as Hengshui No.2 Middle School, Wuyi Middle School and Jizhou Middle School.

The picture comes from the internet.

In fact, even if you study in Hengshui for 24 hours, Tsinghua Peking University will not increase its enrollment plan or recruit one or two hundred students in Hebei. President Hengzhong feels that he has made contributions to high school education, but in fact, it only increases the difficulty of getting into a good university in Hebei Province and monopolizes Tsinghua Peking University. He gathered outstanding students who might be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University into a school, and then let them receive long and harsh exam-oriented training like modern workers.

Some people will defend this appearance of "hard work", thinking that students will study hard "voluntarily", while others are willing to spend more time on their studies, which will naturally lead to good results. Is this also wrong?

Yes! And all wet! First, efforts should not be confused with machinery; Second, choice cannot be equated with voluntariness. The so-called effort is based on a positive attitude and sufficient motivation, and a lot of actions are taken to achieve the goal. In fact, the students in Hengshui only passively repeat the instructions of the school. Once the command stops, all activities will stop. The school did not inspire students' endogenous "hard work" spirit. Even if there is, this motivation is not inspired by the Hengshui model. What students call "voluntary" is also a forced choice, not their own will. No one can persist every day, and there are only two reasons why they can persist. First, there are brainwashing, high-pressure control, harsh school rules, huge college entrance examination and family pressure. Second, students know that this is unscientific, but in this exam-oriented education environment, it can win, constantly train the exam-oriented level mechanically, conduct an arms race, and make use of all available time, energy and resources. No one in Hengshui can match this tactic.

But from the results, although they are superior in scores and look as powerful as the Soviet Union during the Cold War, they actually experienced a kind of internal friction-first, they gave up the opportunity of entertainment, all other special developments and contact with the outside world; Secondly, if you devote your time to a single thing on a large scale and continuously, and live in a high-pressure environment without privacy for a long time, it is easy to get tired, accumulate accumulated disadvantages, lose interest in learning, and have various psychological problems, resulting in personality defects, distorted personality, broken interpersonal relationships and even depression and world-weariness, and even choose to commit suicide. However, these poorest people are often ignored under the applause, flowers and aura of successful people, leaving only a cold iron net to protect them. Although most of the teachers in these schools care about students and are serious and responsible, and the schools also have certain psychological intervention mechanisms, they are still far from enough. After all, Hengshui is generally overstaffed, and the largest class in Hengshui II can reach several hundred students. Teachers in six subjects can't take care of the whole class in any case, let alone the heavy study tasks. Who has time to deal with these invisible problems? More often, they are helpless. This kind of environment creates a strange flashy and simple environment for students.

Very meticulous and strict school rules control students' words and deeds.

Even if you rest in the dormitory, you are monitored, and you accidentally violate the "law."

Media reports that can be referenced:

Two incidents of jumping off buildings occurred in Hengshui No.2 Middle School within half a year.

Hengshui's educational model is the cancer of high school education in Hebei. The superior management department is corrupt and incompetent, which leads to the spread of cancer cells in the whole province and even the whole country. Numerous schools go to this disaster area to "observe" and "learn" and imitate the educational methods here. Are they trying to educate students better? No, they are here to learn the skills of oppressing students. Workers are tools to create value for enterprises, and students are also tools to create value for schools. Students are more vulnerable to oppression, because students and schools also need good grades, so the unity of interests can easily be used by schools: "Urge you to study hard, not for yourself?" Then, on the premise that students are "voluntary", schools can be squeezed infinitely, creating a more exaggerated enrollment rate for schools, thus attracting a steady stream of high-quality students, a steady stream of tuition fees and gray income. Students' college entrance examination results are the best marketing tools, and high scores are their main products. Therefore, although students don't get paid, they create value. All students are free workers-those who are not protected by the labor law, in the school production line and marketing. This explains why Hengshui has to recruit more students, why it has to recruit students when it can't support so many students, and why it has to constantly expand campus buildings, because the more people there are, the stronger the workforce, the better! The operators of this model have long understood this simple truth-it is not as good as opening a farm to educate students and oppress and consume their interests simply and rudely-you just need to lock up the students, feed them (do exercises) and raise them fat and strong (get high marks), which is not technical work. If you go to the campus of Hengshui No.2 Middle School, you will find that I didn't say much. There are a lot of slovenly people. 10 people or even 14 people live in a dormitory and eat with a big washbasin. On average, 60 people use a water pipe. Coupled with the ubiquitous "corral" to prevent you from escaping or committing suicide, students can live like animals. Under the operation and "transformation" of Hengshui bosses, an ordinary high school that undertakes the task of moral education has become a commercial institution and a farm for college entrance examination training. So if you were born in Hebei, you can only blame yourself for your bad life. After all, this business model is invincible in the province at present. After all, it sucks the blood of tens of thousands of the best students trained by the richest family in Hebei. What is even more frightening is that the spread of this "education" model is still a national trend. Except for some developed areas, the Hengshui model is invincible, and the enrollment rate of any middle school is unbearable for Hengjiajun.

There is an endless stream of people visiting Hengshui every year. Students in uniform are like animals in the zoo, for people to watch and take pictures.

Yunnan Hengshui Experimental Middle School congratulates Hengshui on "No Opponents"

Some people ... will say something to defend this educational model, for example, Hengshui is the only chance for the poor, and children from poor families can only do so. I just want to ask, when there was no Hengshui before, poor children in Hebei had no way out! ? Isn't it true that the sky is unbalanced and Hebei seems like a long night? Only Hebei has Tianping School in China, so the poor children in Hebei are the luckiest poor children in China?

It is absurd to think that Hengshui model is a weapon for the poor to fight against the rich and powerful. Hengshui series middle schools are not what they used to be. Don't think that poor children can easily enter a super middle school like Hengzhong. In addition to a limited proportion of local students, super middle schools in Hebei recruit students from other cities and counties, and only the top ten or even the top three students come from some high-quality junior high schools in Hebei. Without such students, how to cultivate monsters with 700 points, 720 points or even 730 points in the college entrance examination in batches? If a student wants to go to a super middle school but it's not so good, he can only choose to "sponsor" the school with his own pocket, so the fact is that even the Colosseum in Rome is occupied by a few people, and the poverty in Hebei is even worse, because the educational resources of high schools are monopolized by super middle schools, and the gap between their scores and Hengshui will only widen day by day.

The screenshot in the picture comes from the official account of WeChat.

Even the "giants" in Hebei are struggling for balance. Their children could have gone to a better local public middle school to finish high school, but now they have to leave their hometown to attend the "arena" in Hengshui. In Hebei, Hengshui is not a helpless choice, but the only way for high-quality universities.

Although no matter how you study, it is a matter of heaven's reward, but everything must be measured, as the saying goes, too much is too late! This state of Hengshui obviously can't be called hard work, but paranoid, obsessed with Qingbei, obsessed with famous schools, making scary scores at all costs and scaring the enrollment rate. In the past three years, all activities have only focused on the college entrance examination, and their eyes are very short-sighted. Students know nothing about social status, industry and specialty, and have no career plan. They volunteered to fill in the form just to see if North China resumed diplomatic relations and chose the word "Niu" as the leader. It is a big mistake to choose your favorite major for the sake of the number of students in Qingbei, my alma mater, and for the sake of parents' face, and to give up Qingbei's application to other schools. But can being admitted to Tsinghua Peking University and other famous schools change your destiny? Can they adapt to college life after three years of wandering in the sea? Can their social experience, social skills and emotional intelligence support them to get out of high school? Can they continue to study in universities that have changed their learning mode? Can they achieve a class leap after graduation? After graduating from college for four years, students will naturally have answers in their hearts. Accepting reality is the first lesson for many Hengshui students. However, schools in Hengshui will not consider these, and can only see their "brilliant achievements"-they have produced countless Tsinghua Peking University. Even though these products may never be integrated into Qingbei, Qingbei did not remember them.

-top universities like qingbei, students are stunted. Excuse me, who didn't get high marks in the students who passed the exam in Shangbei? If nothing else, I am afraid that going to Shangbei is the "peak of life" of this person.

Some people will say that I graduated from Hengshui, or one of my classmates graduated from Hengshui and got 9852 1 1. Now there is no psychological problem, people are also very good, and their comprehensive quality is high. It's not as terrible as you said, so don't worry about their adaptation to society. In this regard, I said that I admire these people, and I also admit that there is no shortage of talents in Hengshui model. Being able to withstand that kind of pressure and endure hardships in Hengshui is already a valuable quality. But at the same time, I deeply regret that you were blinded by the deviation of survivors. You only saw your excellent self and great spirit, but did you see thousands of Hengshui students from Qian Qian accompanying you on the road? Take the lead, ride the dust, win the championship, after all, is a minority, teachers care, students envy, all eyes are on that excellent person. Maybe you were born to fight under pressure, but you forget that there are people in this world who only like dancing lightly. Learning is always an indispensable part of life, but it is only a part of life, not the whole. Those rights to life outside of study should be returned to students. How to spend those hours is a student's human right. They can study if they want, but if they want to sit in bed for a while, eat an ice cream or watch The Count of Monte Cristo for a while, the school should not teach them all in the way of informed criticism. As for those who say they don't have to worry about whether they can adapt to society, they can be said to be heartless, not to mention that one of the goals of education is to make students better adapt to society. Even if a person is sentenced to three years in prison, he may not be unable to adapt to society after he is released from prison! Is it necessary to wait until Hengshui completely destroys the social function of students before criticizing him?

Hengshui model is not an education problem at all, but a social problem, even a political problem. Any educator, educator and man of insight can easily see that the educational method of Hengshui mode is wrong, but why does Hengshui do it? Because it is moving, as the saying goes, children can't get rid of wolves, which makes these children unlucky for three years. Schools in Hengshui have set up platforms to gather talents from Hebei and make achievements. However, these schools recruit the most people from Hengshui. With these schools, Hengshui has occupied a large number of high-quality colleges and universities in Hebei Province. Now only when Hengshui becomes a province independently can other cities and counties in Hebei be saved.

Let's compare the top candidates of liberal arts college entrance examination in 20 16 cities in Hebei Province.

(20 16 Literature and History Peking University filing line: 667 Tsinghua filing line 675)

Hengshui City 706 points (Yes, you are not mistaken, liberal arts 700+)

Shijiazhuang 68 1 (this is the provincial capital)

Handan 667 fen

Tangshan 654 points

Langfang city 655 points

Chengde city 652 points

Cangzhou City 644 points

Xingtai city 665 points

Qinhuangdao 66 1 min

Baoding 658 points

Zhangjiakou city 657 points

Obviously, it can be seen that the champion of Hengshui City is not in the same dimension as other cities. The highest score of Hengshui is 62 points higher than that of Cangzhou, which is just the gap between top students! Hebei province is short of higher education resources. There is no 2 1 1 985 double-class university in Hebei province (Hebei University of Technology is in Tianjin, the main campus of North China Electric Power University is in Beijing, and Baoding Campus is only a branch). The pressure on candidates in Hebei Province is already enormous, and the Hengshui Corps is like a nightmare, which can't be bypassed, and it is almost impossible to defeat the enemy, standing in front of every student who tries fish in yue longmen. The students who failed to enter Hengjiajun had a dark road ahead, while the students who were "lucky" to study in Hengshui had a dark road ahead. After all, the constant army is divided into three classes, six classes and nine classes, and the schools are enemies of each other. Hengjia's students will only be more competitive.

Giant boss-"Hengshui"

"Low entry and excellent exit"-Hengshui No.2 Middle School is a school with a score of 6 10.

The satellite with a high score of 734 points is located in the "Shijiazhuang No.2 Middle School", a famous old school and super middle school in the provincial capital.

Shijiazhuang No.2 Middle School and Hebei Experimental Middle School have gathered outstanding talents from all over the province.

The picture comes from watermark, and it is deleted.

There is a basic premise in management, that is, limited resources can never satisfy unlimited desires, so management is needed. Some people attribute the appearance of Hengshui model to the shortage of educational resources, because people's desires and demands are constantly growing and infinite. Educational resources can't meet the needs of China people now, and it is impossible to meet all the needs in the future. The distribution of any resources can never reach a perfect balance, but this does not mean that vicious competition must be engaged. The final result of vicious competition will only be a total loss, no winners, only losers. If this vicious competition tends to spread, it must be visible.

The education market, like the macroeconomic market, needs government supervision. If the government neglects its duty and turns a blind eye to the monopoly and vicious competition in the economic market, it will bring disaster to workers, people and the national economy, then the government will turn a blind eye to the monopoly and vicious competition in the education market, which will also bring disaster to students, families and education! If there is something wrong with education in a region, the consequences will be unimaginable. After all, education is a century-long plan, and a generation will be destroyed because of a moment's negligence!

Local government departments may not turn a blind eye, but there is nothing they can do. If the Hengshui mode is to be controlled, the resistance is really too great. In Hebei, many people believe that "the college entrance examination will be lifelong". If it is really controlled, it is conceivable that the parents' meeting of Hengshui series students will react, and the local education department will definitely be labeled as "ruining students' bright future". It will actually promote vicious competition. Hengshui tried to open a branch school in Zhejiang (Pinghu Middle School), but it was criticized in Zhejiang. Why-the economic base determines the superstructure. With the economic development of Zhejiang province, people's education level is getting higher and higher, and their educational concepts are becoming more and more rational. So resolutely reject this absurd education model. In Hebei province, the economic situation is poor, Hengshui is the worst (the lowest GDP in the province), and the people's education level is low. They will not consider and question the Hengshui model. They think Hengshui is so good that students are left there without parental control. The school will take care of them and let them get high marks. Instead, they think that students who resist Hengshui are rebellious children who can't eat hard and don't understand. What they need most is strict discipline. But they have never tried to experience a day in Hengshui, so they can never understand their children. They just hope that children can change their destiny with knowledge. They equate knowledge with university. So the most fundamental problem in Hebei is poverty. Poverty means that we can't afford culture and education, and we can't afford natural shortsightedness in culture and education. Short-sightedness will lead to further poverty and educational degradation. When you have two loaves of bread, you can only exchange one for daffodils. University is a testing ground for productivity progress, and it is also a money-burning machine. The annual final accounts of the resumption of diplomatic relations between northern Fujian and Zhejiang in Qing Dynasty exceed10 billion yuan. Therefore, only with economic development can there be sufficient material foundation for the development of culture and education, and universities in Hebei Province can obtain sufficient research funds and resources to build "buildings", invite "masters" and cultivate outstanding talents. Only in this way can we compete with universities in other provinces. If we can build high-quality universities in Hebei Province, such as Hebei University and Yanshan University, into domestic first-class universities comparable to Shandong University and Zhejiang University, how can we compromise with Hengshui School and get 734 points just to pray for the enrollment quota of a good university in other provinces? How can I get into Peking University with a score of 707, and then write an article "Thanks for Poverty"! ?

Of course, as a candidate, there is nothing you can do. In such an environment, development cannot be achieved overnight. People who can't change the environment can only choose to adapt to the environment. Therefore, Hebei children who want to enter the university should find a way to enter the super middle school. There is no answer to this question. There are about 400,000 candidates in Hebei Province every year, and only one or two hundred people can realize their dreams. That is to say, the probability is about 0.05%. If you were born a genius with a golden spoon, you might be easily sent to the north without even taking the college entrance examination. Don't! This kind of genius regards learning and research as fun, and can have fun and forget to eat and sleep. Although others think they are workaholics, they enjoy it and don't feel tired. But if you are just an ordinary child in an ordinary family and don't like studying so much, then even if you repeat ten years, you may not get high marks, but does that mean you don't have to work hard? Fools think that there is a limit to a person's life. The course of history, your qualifications, the resources you can use, luck and personal efforts determine your upper limit, but there is no lower limit for a person. If you don't work hard, you will degenerate infinitely. Even if you are born a prince and die without regret, you should at least be worthy of yourself and the people who love you.

Of course, the road of life is not so narrow. What about going to an ordinary middle school or even a high school? Where is life not a stage? A person's value is ultimately determined by the contribution of his career to society. Life is not a sprint, but a marathon. Interestingly, it has no direction, or even a beginning and an end. The runway painted by Hengshui is ridiculous. After running out of this runway, you will find that no one is waiting to cross the mountain. The world is just a sphere. Although there are glaciers and deserts, we only have one place, and no one gets on or off.

As a Hebei native, the author wrote about my heart.

I don't mean to hurt the students in the school mentioned by Heng Zhong and the dear alumni in No.2 Middle School.

I don't want to hurt high school students who are struggling and working hard. I respect everyone who works hard for their dreams.

I love my teachers, and I see their hard work.

My head teacher goes to work at 5 o'clock every day, 1 1 o'clock, and leaves work, rain or shine. He stays at school for 18 hours every day without complaining. He really said thank you to the most lovely you, and he still insisted under this system.

I love my classmates.

It doesn't matter if you agree or disagree, refute me and scold me.

But it better be from the heart.

Not boring malice.

I'm so sorry

(Source Zhihu: I don't know when to share positive energy into selling anxiety.

I hope I don't become like this.

I hope I can stick to the direction I want to develop regardless of gains and losses.

No matter how people around you are! )