What do I need to prepare for marriage? Where to spend money? Shandong people from Rizhao~

1. Wedding schedule

(1): Items that the couple should prepare in advance before marriage

1. Wedding invitations: Buy the wedding invitations 2-3 months in advance and send them out about 20 days in advance For friends and family.

2. Seat cards: If the hotel does not provide them, you must purchase them in advance. Write a list of each table in advance and arrange the seats. (It is also recommended to make a larger seat distribution map)

3. Fireworks: Prepare 20 firework cannons on the wedding day, 10 firecrackers in the morning, and 10 firecrackers at the dinner (if the hotel does not allow them, there is no need to purchase them for the dinner) 10 pieces)

4. Firecrackers: If the community can set off firecrackers, you can buy some firecrackers in advance. (4 times)

5. Happy words: The decorations of the new house with happy words (in various shapes), the happy words on the wedding car, and the flowers on the coffee table and dining table are prepared 1-2 days in advance.

6. Tobacco, sugar and wine: Buy cigarettes, sugar and wine (1 bottle of white wine, 1 bottle of red wine, 2 bottles of soft drinks) on the wedding day in advance. Need to spare some

7. Sweet soup: Buy the seasonings for longan and lotus seed soup and disposable bowls and spoons for sweet soup in advance. (Prepare beautiful bowls for the newlyweds).

8. Red envelopes: Buy large and small red envelopes in advance, go to the bank to exchange for new change, and use the red envelopes. (even numbers)

9. Cups for serving tea: Cups for serving tea to parents, prepare them in advance (do not use disposable ones).

10. To give birth to a baby early: Buy some red dates, peanuts, longan, and lotus seeds, wrap them up and put them under the couple’s pillows.

11. Hotel: Book a hotel for the luncheon that day.

12. 2 Wedding Managers: Arrange the managers of the morning fleet and coordinate the time and route. The management staff who arranges the dinner, coordinates the distribution of tobacco, alcohol and candies, and makes event gifts, etc.

13. Clothes for Mom and Dad: It is recommended that Mom and Dad wear formal clothes and take the time to choose and buy shoes. New shoes should be worn two days in advance because new shoes will chafe on the feet.

14. Clothing of the newlyweds: It is recommended that the groom wear a dark suit. Men’s suits can also be chosen for the dinner based on personal preference. The bride should order the wedding dress for the wedding day about 2-3 months in advance (it is recommended to have 2 sets of wedding dresses, and 2 sets of dresses can be rented).

15. Honeymoon trip: If you want to take a honeymoon trip in the same month, you must choose a travel location and register with a travel agency in the near future.

(2): Services provided by wedding companies

1. Choose a professional wedding consultant, communicate and coordinate in the early stage, and determine the wedding services you need (emcee, supervision, Videography, photography, makeup follow-up, car rental, floats, performing arts, wedding dresses, electronic photo albums, venue layout and lighting equipment, etc.), communicate with the wedding consultant about your requirements and ideas for the wedding, understand each other, and plan a wedding that suits you. During the execution of the wedding, the wedding consultant needs to provide the guests with a. Wedding schedule b. Wedding planning plan c. Full-day wedding process arrangement d. Wedding dinner process.

2. Determine the car for the wedding day in advance (you can rent it or arrange it yourself): main car, auxiliary car, camera car. Plan the driving route for the day. It is best to have a dedicated person in charge of the fleet. A few days before the wedding The day will determine the departure time in the morning.

3. After the wedding project is confirmed, you can try the makeup in advance, communicate with the makeup artist, and choose a good makeup artist.

4. The couple should meet and communicate with the wedding host about 30 days in advance to determine the wedding process and entrance music.

5. If you have any questions about the wedding, you can contact your wedding consultant at any time

(3): Projects coordinated with the hotel before the wedding

1. Champagne tower and champagne are provided

2. Are cakes provided?

3. Are sign-in desks, sign-in books, and sign-in pens provided

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5. How many parking spaces are provided? Are wedding rooms and dressing rooms provided?

6. The colors of tablecloths, chair back covers, tablecloths, and table skirts can be determined with the hotel in advance

7. Power supply: If there are many lights, and The hotel coordinates the wattage of electricity used. If the hotel needs to pay the electricity bill, the couple will bear it themselves.

8. The maximum number of tables that can be placed in the wedding banquet hall, and whether flowers for the main table are provided

9. Whether the red carpet is provided

10. Menu prices and dishes are determined in advance

2. Preparation items on the wedding day

(1) Morning (basic process of photographer arrangement):

Personnel: Arrange the float in advance (location, time)

Bring the car The personnel distributed the route map to the driver (bring 4 corsages, 1 bouquet, wrist flowers, and pins from the wedding company)

Male videographer:

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The woman’s photographer:

The woman’s makeup artist:

1. The groom and groomsmen should wear corsages (the excess should be given to the bride and bridesmaids and kept by the groomsmen) )

2. The supervisor in charge of the car organizes the fleet

3. The best man is responsible for bringing 8-10 fireworks

4. The groom and best man are ready to open the door Red envelopes, wedding candies, and wedding cigarettes

5. Both parents prepare longan and lotus seed soup, disposable bowls, and spoons in the morning

6. Prepare cups for serving tea to both parents, parents Prepare red envelopes for the newlyweds

7. Is there a custom of carrying the bride on her back? If so, arrange the personnel in advance and the bridesmaids should carry the bride’s shoes when they go downstairs

8. It is recommended that the bridesmaids Bring straws, tissues, essential oil, needle and thread

(2) Afternoon hotel matters:

Personnel: General Supervisor

All decoration staff, floral staff, Lighting staff, emcee, bridesmaids and groomsmen, flower girls

1. The supervisor arranges the wine, cigarettes, wedding candies needed for the dinner, as well as the couple’s posters and place cards, and brings them to the hotel

2 . If you have purchased light sticks, Xiaoshang will arrange for personnel to distribute them before the show.

3. Bridesmaids, don’t forget to bring the bride’s dress and shoes to the hotel.

4. Arrange seats in advance Put the card on each table,

5. Arrange two familiar friends at the sign-in table to be responsible for signing in (sign-in book, pen, prepare in advance)

6. Arrange in advance to receive guests Personnel (preferably people who are familiar with the seats), make a seat list in advance

7. A dedicated person will be responsible for the red envelopes received to avoid losing them

8. The room for changing clothes should be close to Banquet hall, save time

9. Wedding candies can be placed on each table before the wedding, or they can be distributed to guests one hour after the wedding.

10. The newlyweds can toast with their parents or separately

11. Don’t forget the gifts that the MC asked you to prepare

(3) Coordinate with the hotel Project

1. Our staff need to go to the hotel around 12:00 to set up (the hotel will notify you in advance if there is a meeting)

2. At 4:25, the hotel sound engineer will cooperate with the emcee in the rehearsal. Music

3. Wedding day flow chart

For the bride:

1. (:) Agree on the arrival time of the makeup artist.

2. ( : ) Agree on the arrival time of the videographer and photographer.

3. ( : ) Makeup end time.

Remarks: The bride must wash her hair the night before

For the groom:

1. (:) Time for the main car to arrive at the company in the morning.

2. ( : ) Time to pick up the float in the morning. (4 corsages, 1 bouquet, brooch)

3. (:) Determine the arrival time of the photographer.

4. ( : ) Time to take photos of the new house.

5. ( : ) Departure: groom’s home – bride’s home (first route). Requirement: Take the shortest route.

6. ( : ) Noisy door.

The first door only requires a red envelope and a time limit of 5 minutes.

In the second door, the groom is required to perform a performance and ask for a red envelope, which lasts 15 minutes.

The wedding ceremony shooting takes about 20 minutes. The groom presents flowers to the bride, and the groom (bride) serves tea to her parents, gives red envelopes, drinks sweet soup, takes a group photo, and carries the bride on her back

7. ( : ) Departure: Bride’s home - new house (second route) . Requirements: Choose a good driving route, and the time should be about 40 minutes to 1 hour.

8. ( : ) Photography of the wedding ceremony, which takes about 20 minutes. The groom (bride) served tea to his parents, gave them red envelopes, drank sweet soup, and took a group photo

9. (:) Have lunch at the hotel.

10. ( : ) Go out on location.

Requirements: 1. One main vehicle and one auxiliary vehicle.

2. Outdoor photographers: groom, bride, groomsmen, bridesmaids (take the main car)

Video, photography, makeup (take the auxiliary car)

3 , Remember to bring flowers.

4. Relatives at home continue to eat.

5. The person in charge of the wedding should arrange all the matters in the afternoon.

11. ( : ) Location shooting, which lasted about one and a half hours.

Twelve. ( : ) Resting in the hotel, the bride is preparing to touch up her makeup

Thirteen. ( : ) The emcee rehearses the couple.

14. ( : ) Welcome guests at the hotel.

15. (:) The dinner begins.

Important matters for the whole day of the wedding:

1. There must be a general schedule throughout the day. Every job must be held accountable.

2. Choose a person to be responsible for arranging all-day trains (this person is very important). Responsible for the task: the groom must take him to run the two routes in advance and calculate the driving time; the groom must take him to the stairs of the bride’s house and tell him how the motorcade will be arranged when returning and which direction to start from. He will not go upstairs. , only arrange how the cars and people ride downstairs.

3. Two driving routes must be typed out and one copy given to each driver to ensure that no vehicle will be lost while driving.

4. Arrange six young men and find one of them to be responsible for contacting the cameraman, who will arrange for them to spray the concierge flowers. If you still need to set off firecrackers, add two more people and follow the unified dispatch of the cameraman. 12 fireworks are enough during the day, 8 more for the dinner, and 20 to 24 throughout the day are enough.

5. Don’t use disposable cups for serving tea to your parents. Prepare a pair of porcelain cups with lids on each side, preferably bowls with lids, and prepare a tray with a piece of red silk padded on it.

6. The bride should choose a short wedding dress in the morning so that she can move easily during the wedding ceremony and outdoor shooting. In addition, when going out on location, it is best for the bride to wear a pair of leather shoes with heels that are not too high or too pointed to avoid fatigue when walking on location. Long wedding dresses are not suitable for outdoor shooting but are suitable for entering after dinner.

7. The bride must make a list of all the items and clothing she needs to bring and give it to the bride's bridesmaids or female companions.

8. When exchanging rings at a dinner party, it is recommended to use a pair of cheap rings to avoid losing valuables and causing unnecessary losses.

9. If the lighting in the corridor of the bride's home is too poor, if there is a corridor light, it is recommended that the bride's home temporarily turn on a 100-watt or 200-watt incandescent lamp on the day of the wedding.

10. Make a telephone address book of important personnel.

11. If you have any unanswered questions, please contact the wedding consultant, videographer and emcee in time.