The more difficulties you experience, is it easier to cause autism?

Not necessarily, but also depends on the individual's psychological quality and personal views on the course of life.

1. The more difficulties, the greater the pressure, which cannot be alleviated. Sometimes the more difficulties there are, the more they can't be solved, the more they accumulate, the greater the pressure, which has a great influence on the mood, and some individuals may also be autistic.

The more difficulties, the more experience and experience you can gain. As long as you can bear it, the more difficulties you have, the stronger your confidence and determination to face them in the future, which is conducive to the development of your future career. For example, in the Long March of the Red Army, as long as we are brave enough to face it and take the initiative to face it instead of staying put, the pressure will be much less, and everyone can feel it in life. Because stress is determined by mentality, not the difficulty itself. Still the same sentence: Heaven is the great responsibility of the people of Sri Lanka, so we must first suffer their minds, work hard on their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, and mess with their actions. Therefore, patience has benefited them a lot. That is, bitter first, then sweet.

3. Difficulties are opportunities. If we can understand that life is an experience, an exercise and a game. You can face all the difficulties in life with a very relaxed attitude. There is no difference between good and bad life experiences, which can increase our experience and understanding and lay the foundation for our final rush. Just like computer games, the design of any plot is related to the ending. Life is the same, until the end, none of us know what these experiences are for. So don't worry, live in the present with your heart, and do the present things wholeheartedly. You will find fewer and fewer difficulties, smoother and happier life.

So everything is the best arrangement. Let's face all difficulties with initiative, understanding, acceptance and gratitude! We will be able to successfully accomplish our ultimate mission in life.

Hello, I'm Adeline, the psychological counselor.

If a person's self-esteem level is not high and he always thinks that he is not good enough and has no self-confidence, at this time, he will interpret all kinds of plots in life as difficulties and obstacles.

Every difficulty in life may be a stumbling block, but it is also an opportunity for us to jump and bloom. Every time we make a choice, if you find it too difficult, you are always choosing to make it a stumbling block, not an opportunity.

The way to improve is to meet the challenge, not to escape, and to improve self-confidence.

1. Improve self-efficacy.

Inferiority may be related to our family background, but it also depends on the specific reasons. But we can do something easy to achieve first to improve our sense of accomplishment and self-confidence bit by bit. Gradually increase the difficulty, and finally you can accomplish more things that you never imagined before.

2. Accept yourself unconditionally and believe in yourself.

You feel that your ability is limited, and many things are afraid to try, which makes it impossible. This is fantasy.

In fact, a person's potential is infinite. It is only because he doesn't believe in himself that he will confine himself to an impossible cage.

3. Find your own talent. A person's innate talent is the best way to achieve himself.

First, we need to find out the original motivation of autism. Autism is not a completely congenital mental illness as we usually think. Many parents of autistic children regard this situation as a congenital defect and a congenital psychological and physical obstacle, but it is not. First of all, a person's character is plastic before he is three years old. As the old saying goes, "Three years old makes you old." So why not "look big at one year old" and "look big at two years old"? This proves that a child's personality and character can be consciously shaped by the outside world (teachers and parents) before he has basic memory ability (three years old). I saw a movie in the 1980s, in which a female educated youth and a local peasant woman gave birth to a child on the same day. Due to the lack of local medical management, the nurse mislabeled two children. When both children are nine years old, "city children" have completely become "country children", while "country children" have been spoiled by parents in the city! The cause of autism is mainly the contact barrier between children and the outside world, which is what we usually call "communication barrier". There are two main reasons for this obstacle: First, children are withdrawn and unwilling to open their hearts to others (which can be said to be a natural factor). We can see the personalities of one-year-old and two-year-old children in the game: some children are active in the game. And some children always watch quietly and stand by. The latter is a typical congenital withdrawn child. But such children only have personality motivation for the time being, which is not the most direct cause of autism. Second, children's cognitive advance, that is, children's psychological cognition is greater than their actual age. At this time, children will have a rejection of their peers around them. That is, refusing to communicate with others. However, because children do not have the self-control ability of adults, they are prone to autistic symptoms. In the next chapter, we will analyze the ways to induce autism symptoms in children in the second case.

As long as there is life, there will be many roads to go and many things to experience. As the ancients said, if people want to take heaven as their great task, they must first suffer their minds, bones and muscles, starve their bodies and empty their bodies. These are all the tempering we need to go through in the process of growing up. Some things we have to experience before we know right or wrong, and sometimes others don't listen.

Whether experiencing more difficulties will easily lead to autism, my personal opinion is no. I mainly elaborate from the following viewpoints: 1. My personal understanding of autism is self-isolation. The reason why you are self-enclosed shows that a person is introverted and unwilling to contact with the outside world. When we encounter difficulties, we will try our best to solve them. This is not a process of self-isolation, but a process of communication with the outside world. 2. The difficulties we have experienced can be big or small. When we can solve them satisfactorily, our mood will be suddenly enlightened and the haze will disappear. From a difficult time to the end, we will gain a lot of experience and insights, so that we will continue to grow and mature. When the next difficulty comes, our vision and viewpoint of looking at the problem will be improved, and we will no longer be as innocent as before, but more stable and rational. We are going through a difficult process. When we can't solve it, we will be depressed and give up on ourselves, and there are quite a few negative emotions. But in modern society, we will express these emotions in another way, such as drinking with friends, playing ball games with friends and singing to express this unpleasant mood and let us decompress. It can only be said that the more difficult it is, the greater the pressure, but autism is rare. I am a volunteer in China. When I was still at school, we held a charity sale to donate money to children from the stars, which is what we call autistic children. They all have their own world and are unwilling to contact with the outside world. Several children have experienced some extraordinary experiences and left a shadow in their hearts. It can be seen that family harmony and education and parents' care for their children are very important.

The difficulty is not terrible. The terrible thing is that we didn't face it blindly, adjust our mentality and calm down to think about the solution. I'm sure we can pull through. Let's cheer together!

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The more difficulties you experience, is it easier to cause autism?

What I want to say is, we have to figure out what autism is and how it happens. I can answer your question. You haven't reached the state of autism here. Autism is two concepts.

Autism is self-enclosed, unwilling to socialize and unwilling to engage in collective behavior. Like to be alone. Loneliness does not mean that autism is not good. Many people, like photographers, painters, artists and writers, live in their own world and ponder their own creations.

Back to the topic you asked, the more difficulties you experience, the more likely you are to be frustrated, especially in adolescence.

When a child grows up, it depends on how many opportunities his parents give him to cope with the difficult tempering and the cultivation of social relations. There is a saying that the more frustrated, the more brave, that is, parents give their children enough opportunities to experience. The Indian film "Wrestle, Dad", two soccer girls, under the guidance of their father, have gone through too many hardships and finally achieved their world champion. Their mother also gave strong support and support behind their backs.

To sum up, the more difficulties you experience, the less likely you are to be autistic.

Yes, I have been working outside for more than ten years. The most important thing is that a woman lost her good job. It hurts to think about it. Can't get a driver's license, can't pass level 3. I feel very annoyed. Experienced a lot. A boss in Tianjin cheated me of more than 70 thousand. It's hard! What can I do, man? Hold on. I'll read it slowly when I have a chance.

Difficulties are the obstacles that everyone will inevitably experience on the road of life growth. This needs to be seen from different people. Successful people often leave customer service difficulties on the road to success, overcome them, accumulate experience and constantly improve themselves before they can achieve their own success. Ordinary people, when faced with difficulties, often can't solve them, or they can't solve them very well. After a long time, they will lose confidence in all aspects of themselves and be knocked down by difficulties. It's only a matter of time before they become autistic.

For people with strong inner feelings, the more they experience, the more open-minded they grow. If they are not strong, they will regret being autistic. In fact, as long as you think about why there are so many difficulties and find out the real problem, you will gain confidence whether it can be solved or not.

It's not absolute, it mainly depends on the individual's mentality. Different mentality leads to different results. The difficulty for optimistic and positive people is that they are likely to eventually turn into powerful motivation; On the contrary, it is very likely to become troubled and cause autism.