How to chat with a girl majoring in tourism?

how to chat with your sister is a science, so what can you do to catch your sister's heart, or at least keep quiet when you talk?

The following are my skills, and it would be my pleasure if I can help you:

The first skill. Pay attention to the chat itself, not the topic. Many people don't know how to chat with girls, and often there is no topic when talking, and I think:

There is no need to prepare a topic for chat at all!

Topic-based Chatting:

When chatting, we always want to focus on the topic we thought in advance, but we don't pay attention to the chat itself:

So we often have the following situations:

For example:

Me: Have you eaten? (Bring up a topic)

MM: Ate

Me: What are you doing? (Bring up another topic)

MM: Get online

Me: Is the weather good there? (Bring up another topic)

MM: Not bad

Me: Are you busy recently? (Bring up another topic)

MM: Not busy

I: . . . (There is no topic to talk about, because the topic is always finished)

I: Oh, well, I just want to call and ask what you are doing, so you can continue to be busy. Bye-bye

MM: Bye-bye

Because at this time, your mind is always thinking, what should I say? What topics should I talk with MM? This often leads to a dead end. When you finish the topic prepared in advance, you will find that you are dumb!

and the correct idea of chatting is: pay attention to the chat itself, not the topic of chatting, not the question of what to talk about, but the question of how to chat

Keyword chat:

For example

Me: Have you eaten? (Propose a topic) (Key words: have dinner)

MM: Yes, I did.

Me: What did you eat? (triggered by eating)

MM: Beef noodles

Me: Did you make it yourself? (triggered by keyword rice)

MM: I can't cook, but I bought it (keyword: I can't cook)

Me: You can't cook. A girl can't even cook. It depends on how you get married (caused by keyword's inability to cook, a new keyword is married)

MM: I don't want to do it. It used to be done by my mother (keyword: before) (A new keyword, Grow up Wife, was triggered by the keyword before)

MM: I haven't decided to get married yet. . . (Key words marry)

Me: Does your mother love you very much (a new key word pain is caused by the key word mother)

MM: My mother loves me very much. I am the youngest. Of course it hurts me (key words: smallest)

Me: You are the youngest? You still have brothers and sisters? (A new keyword, brothers and sisters, is triggered by the smallest keyword)

MM: My sister, BLABLABLAL. . . . (a lot) I found that the keywords used here are almost the same. I will immediately return to the keyword marriage in the earlier conversation. I can chat with the keywords that appeared in the conversation between the upper and upper levels! Me: haven't you thought about what kind of person you want to marry yet? (triggered by the keyword marriage)

MM: I haven't decided yet. . . . (a lot) (key words: I don't know)

Me: What's your standard? (triggered by the keyword not thinking well)

MM: My standard is. . BLABLABLAL。 . . . At this time, I found that there are no keywords in what she said, or the keywords here are not conducive to you to start the topic and immediately return to the keywords in the earlier conversation to start chatting! For example, the keyword "buy" in line 6

I: Do you like shopping? Do you like shopping? (New keyword shopping is triggered by earlier keyword buying)

MM: Like it, super like it (keyword: like it)

Me: What else do you like? (triggered by keyword like)

MM: I like singing, swimming and traveling (new keywords appear: singing, swimming and traveling)

Me: Oh, you like singing. Whose songs do you like to sing?

MM：。 . . . .

me: Oh, you like swimming. Can you swim? How is your swimming skill? Where do you usually swim?

MM：。 . . . .

me: Oh, you like traveling. Where have you been? How do you feel?

MM：。 . . . . Don't dwell on a keyword all the time, grab a keyword and start chatting to a certain extent! Go back to the last keyword and start chatting to a certain extent. Stop! Go back to the last keyword in the middle of the chat and continue talking. Stop! Go back to the top and start chatting with the last keyword to a certain extent. Stop! Go back to the previous keyword chat. . . . . . You will find that you didn't prepare any topics during the whole chat, and the chat itself will bring you countless topics! You don't need to be ready to start chatting anytime, anywhere. You won't be under pressure. You won't rack your brains to think about what I should talk about. Because you will have so many topics that you don't know what to choose to talk about. What's important is that you have something to say and have entered a good chat atmosphere. It doesn't matter what you talk to MM, what's important is that in this atmosphere, it is fun, fun and humorous. Of course, this series of verbosity seems to have no focus and no nutrition, but what I want to say is that this is just an example, so that AFC people who only have a few words when talking to girls can have something to say, so as not to be cold, and I won't keep asking questions like this. This process should be interactive. I can only say that this is just a skeleton for chatting, and to make chatting interesting, we must join the framework, push and pull, and be cold.