Do couples have to travel together?

In fact, couples need to pay attention to some details when traveling to maintain a long-term relationship:

Travel time from short to long

The length of travel and vacation, It should be directly proportional to the time you two have been together. After all, the longer you have been together, the more you know each other's good and bad habits, and you are more likely to "survive" during a long-term trip. If you have been together for less than a year, it is recommended to choose 7 ~10 days of travel is more appropriate. If you are still in the first one or two months of the love period, a weekend away is probably the ultimate challenge to your relationship. In short, the number of days you go on vacation together should never exceed the number of days you two are dating. number of months.

Allow some time for "free travel"

Choose the right place

Couples are often very obsessed with so-called "romantic" places when planning their itinerary, but The fact is that any place can create a romantic atmosphere. The key point is where you want to go and what you want to do. Although the night view is indeed more romantic than the neon lights, and the sea view sounds more desirable than the mountain view, but if you bring a sight with water She is like a snake, scorpion, beast, or afraid of avoiding the sun. She goes to a tropical island to enjoy the sun, beach and water. Just holding a parasol to hide from the sun every day may scare away a lot of romantic atmosphere, so discuss in advance the travel destinations and preferred travel methods that each other prefers. , instead of asking around where is the most romantic place, you can plan a romantic itinerary that is satisfactory to both of you.

Be sure to plan together!

If you are just choosing a restaurant for dinner and a movie on the weekend, it may be more efficient for one person to take the lead, but if it involves spending a lot of money and traveling together for several days, it is best to decide the location first. , it is better for two people to plan the detailed itinerary with a division of labor. For example, if she is more knowledgeable about food, she can be responsible for choosing restaurants. If you are more insistent on the local characteristics of historical sites, you can be responsible for the travel route. If both of you have the same research and insistence on food, travel, accommodation and fun, then it is OK for one person to be responsible for the day's itinerary, or make a list of things you want to do, must do, and must do during this trip, and then arrange together to meet the requirements. Listing the most extensive itinerary is also a good idea.

Coordinate an itinerary that best meets the "shared interests"

Especially when planning an itinerary using a checklist method, it is inevitable that there will be times when each party has their own objections and there will always be a stalemate. There is no solution. It is better to sit down and take a closer look at which city attractions and restaurants are most convenient and smooth to arrange without detours and time-consuming travel. Each of them can take a step back and coordinate with each other to come up with an itinerary that best suits the "shared vacation interests".

Leave some time for "free travel"

Sometimes the best itinerary for "the interests of the same vacation" is to leave some "free travel" time for each other, which is short enough The 2 or 30 minutes you spend "cleaning" yourself on the toilet or the 2 or 30 minutes she spends dressing herself up in front of the dressing table, which is long enough for you to visit a museum or the afternoon she pays homage to a department store, can all be listed as free travel options, so Once you come here, you don’t have to “discuss” each other’s insistence in a red face, and you can find everything everyone wants to see, shop, and do in one place.

Enjoy a romantic trip

Negotiate a budget that is in line with each other’s “economic interests”

However, in planning a budget that is in line with both parties’ “vacation interests” "Before the trip, it is better for everyone to discuss a budget that is in line with each other's "financial interests." After all, it is one thing to have fun swiping your credit card, but it is another thing to come back to pay off the credit card debt and tighten your belt, so in Before planning, first understand each other's budget and financial capabilities. If the two of you are not so good that your money is her money and her money is your money, it is better to split it 50-50. Of course, this doesn’t mean that even a few yuan of parking fees and admission fees should be divided 50-50. That would make me feel dizzy and make my fingers numb when pressing the calculator every day. At least accommodation fees, air tickets, etc. Each of you can pay for the larger expenses separately. As for the smaller expenses such as meals and souvenirs, you can first negotiate the budget range of each other and then pay in turn.

Reserve some flexibility

There is a saying that "plans can never keep up with changes." When planning your itinerary, it is best to retain some flexibility and prepare more records in case God does not work for you. When you go out hiking and wading in the water, there are indoor activities to pass the time. When you have been running around all day and your legs are sore and you are too lazy to eat out, there is still food to satisfy your hunger.

Give both parties a romantic time

Keep a cheerful mood

Yes, flights may be delayed, luggage may be lost, hotels may be missed, restaurants may be missed The food may not be as delicious as expected, but because plans can never keep up with changes, when encountering unsatisfactory changes, you should still maintain a cheerful mood. Use money to solve troubles that can be solved with money, and lighten problems that can be solved with a smile. Take it easy, don't let these "changes" that may seem trivial in hindsight ruin the mood of the entire trip.

Save some time for romance

Since it is rare to go out and live a world for two, naturally don’t just be busy with sightseeing and shopping, schedule a full schedule, and be a conscientious person Tourists, forgetting to leave time for romance, be a dedicated lover, whether it is an afternoon picnic on the grass, breakfast in bed without going out, or a moonlight walk with the night breeze, All in all, set aside at least a little time to create surprises for your significant other.

Protect your rights

After planning for a long time, the most unsatisfactory change is to break up before departure, cancel the trip, all prepaid fees will not be returned, or the two of us will be together. We had a fight that made the whole trip miserable, and ended up breaking up after we got back from the fun. In order to avoid emotional damage and a blow to our wallets, it’s best to confirm all the money you’ve paid for air tickets and hotels, and if you’ve paid a deposit in advance, also confirm it. The deadline for canceling the trip, or adding travel insurance with a claim coverage that includes “cancellation of the trip due to uncontrollable reasons”.