What should 30-year-old unmarried men and women do?

I met my boyfriend in England. At that time, our company sent excellent employees to travel abroad. I met him on the plane home. I sat next to him, and learned from the exchange that his work is in line with my major and there is a lot to talk about. Later, we left each other's phone numbers, but we didn't expect to develop into boyfriend and girlfriend.

He and I are the kind of people who have many friends of the opposite sex around us. They are independent and advocate freedom, and they are a little cold. There are also many people who pursue him, but after being with him, all my friends and family know that he exists and he is very kind to me. We lived together, and I didn't know he had a wife and children abroad until I got pregnant. This is a bolt from the blue!

He can give me anything but a piece of paper (marriage certificate). To show his sincerity to me, he paid me all the money to buy a house. He was glad to know that I was pregnant. I didn't know my father had a family until I was pregnant for three months. I broke up decisively and cut off contact! At that time, I felt sad and wanted to hit my child, but I saw the B-ultrasound table in the hospital, which was formed by 1 1 for many weeks. I cried bitterly, fearing that I would not have children in the future. It was just the wrong time. If I have an operation, I must wait until the next day. I hesitated and ran back to give up aborting the baby!

Now that the baby is coming, people who know me advise me to give it away. Unmarried single mothers are really hard to do. It will be difficult to marry their children in the future. It takes a lot of experience and time to raise a child. I can't go out to work with my children. It's a pity that my job is very good now and I gave up. My mother and I had a few quarrels about the children, and she wanted me to give them away. I always thought my mother was so cruel that she would forget if she didn't help me. She also tried her best to persuade me to give it away. My heart is very painful, and I can't help crying every time I talk about giving someone away. But it makes sense to think about what my mother said. I am unmarried. I live here for the first time. Whenever people ask me where I got married, I have no face to answer, and neither do my parents.

My boyfriend came to me and left me a bank card. I hope I can take good care of my children. He said that as long as he was in China, he would stay with me. I don't know what to do in the face of his sweet words and material satisfaction. My parents asked me to give someone away, let me give my child a complete home, and let him enjoy a sound family warmth. I'm worried about growing up in an unhealthy family. Will he have a good life? It's hard for me, and it's hard for children to follow me. What should I do? I don't want to give it away, and I am afraid of being laughed at.

What if he suffers with me and I can't educate him well? Raising a child is really not easy. How can I give up in October? My heart really hurts. Although I can give him the best material, I can't give him a complete family. I don't know what to do.