I want to go to college far away, but my parents don’t agree. What should I do?

Netizen 1:

First, the emotional factor. As the saying goes, parents never travel far. Every parent hopes that their children will be around, visit them when they want, and meet up from time to time. Although communication is now very convenient, the Internet is very fast, and you can video chat.

Transportation is also very developed. No matter where you are, as long as you have money, it is still possible to have sex from dawn to dusk. However, blood relationships cannot be blocked by any space and distance. No matter how many video chats, it is not as good as Meet occasionally. Parents feel at ease when their children are close to them, and it doesn't matter even if they don't have much contact for a year. The child is far away from me, and I watch videos every day, but I still miss my child. Missing my child makes parents very painful.

Tell me the truth. My sister went to Guangzhou after graduating from college, bought a house there, and got married. My mother talks to my sister almost every day via video calls. The content of the call is the same every day. This is parents, this is family love.

Netizen 2:

Tell me another real example. My sister-in-law’s only son is from Fujian. After the college entrance examination, I went to college in Chongqing. Then I found a job in Chongqing. Then I found an only girl in Chongqing. Then I got married and bought a house in Chongqing. Then the child was born in Chongqing.

Then my sister-in-law and her lover stayed alone in Fujian. Then I’ll videotape it every day. Then, I got old, felt unwell, and didn’t know what to do. Then there is no more.

Netizen 3:

Guangzhou’s parents and children have the strongest concept, which is related to Guangdong’s economic development. At the end of the day, you still have to come back and find a job! Some parents feel good about themselves and believe that the environment is superior. This is also one of the reasons.

Psychologically speaking, the number of students coming to enroll is not large, and the requirements are different from local ones. This is a bit of a psychological disapproval! We also visited some school stalls from other provinces. Their ideal life has already been preset. Those who don’t comply are not very enthusiastic. From the perspective of environmental climate, we all find it difficult to adapt to the cold in the north! Of course this is a cognitive issue.

Netizen 4:

One of the things that parents are more worried about is that if their children go to college in a far away city, they may graduate in the same city where the university is located. When people look for jobs in cities or provinces, their jobs will be far away from home. The children may settle down in that city in the future. In this way, parents and children will be separated into two far away places. This will cause problems. A lot of trouble.

If the child goes to settle in a far away city in the future, after all, the parents will need the child to take care of them when they get older, so being separated in two places is not an option.

Netizen 5:

Moms are worried when their children travel thousands of miles. Every parent does not want their children to be too far away from them. Poor parents in the world, their children are just a piece of flesh that has fallen off their bodies, how can they be willing to let him go so far? Therefore, we do not want our children to go to study outside the province, and we are worried that their children will not adapt to the situation outside the province, and will not be able to eat well, sleep well, or wear warm clothes.

Some children also love home or cannot live without their parents, and parents also know their children's situation. So I don’t even want my children to go out to study in the province. Keep your children by your side, and you can go to school to see your children when you miss them, or you can go home on weekends, and your parents can rest assured.

Netizen 6:

To give a simple example: the enrollment of Tsinghua University and Peking University, whether it is unified enrollment or independent enrollment (Peking University’s liberal arts plan and Tsinghua’s leading plan) ), the admissions indicators are biased towards students with Beijing hukou.

So, most parents let their children stay in the province because the college entrance examination score is a flaw. Even if the parents want their children to go out to the province to exercise, if the college entrance examination scores are not high, the child's "dream of leaving the province" will be lost. "It will also end in vain.

Finally:

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