Woman, you are beautiful.

Recently, my best friend asked me a question: Have you found that women nowadays seem to be less beautiful than before?

I asked her: Do you mean appearance?

She thought for a moment and said, I mean the overall feeling.

what a wake-up call!

because I feel the same way.

1

Last Spring Festival, I packed old things in my hometown. By chance, I found a photo of my mother when she was young.

In the photo, my mother has fluffy and slightly curly ear-length short hair, wearing a dress that looks like a navy dress and standing by the reed. Slightly shy smile reflecting the afterglow of the sunset, it is simply beautiful.

and this kind of beauty, not because of exquisite facial features, but because of a natural state, an elusive unique temperament belonging to women. And this kind of temperament, I know I don't have it.

No wonder, even Liu Yifei, who is as beautiful as a fairy, once admitted that her appearance is the worst at home. She feels that she is not as beautiful as her mother, and her mother is not as beautiful as her grandmother.

In the past, I thought that today's women would be more beautiful and foreign than those in the past if they were exquisitely dressed.

it was only later that I found the mistake.

If you really compare the photos of beautiful women now with those of the past, you will find that women now have less flavor.

nowadays, there are many beautiful women, but few really have temperament. Beauty without temperament is not vivid enough and deeply rooted in people's hearts.

Although their faces are flawless and exquisite like a painting, they just can't be breathtaking.

It seems that the beauty that really makes you feel deeply impressed and unforgettable can only be seen at a glance in old photos.

2

Xiao Na is one of my high school classmates, working as an IT worker in Shenzhen.

In my impression, she is a cute girl who speaks quietly and gently. Once she chatted with me on WeChat, but she complained that she seemed to be a happy woman.

I joked with her, working among men, you should not be confessed by them like a national treasure.

She said feebly that they would always be very enthusiastic to help me with such things as carrying water and sending and receiving big express. But I have to do everything in my job by myself. Doing this well-paid job in the eyes of others, taking on more and more important decisions, but just can't be happy.

I work overtime day and night, and a phone call from the project manager will get to the company even on weekends. Because of staying up late, my dark circles are getting worse and worse, and my skin is getting worse and worse. I feel ten years older. At ordinary times, I don't have time to dress up and cultivate my morality. I feel that I am getting farther and farther away from the word woman.

There seem to be more and more girls like Xiao Na around me.

They are smart and capable, and play an increasingly important role in their own work.

But at the same time, the intense work rhythm also makes them lose many other things, such as beauty, such as the relaxed and idle natural state.

Ma Yun said that in the next thirty years, women will flourish. Women will occupy an increasingly important position in this world. But he still has the heart of exhortation to women:

"Many women are miserable in the end."

"The female man is actually very sad."

"If a woman wants to be like a woman, the world must keep a balance between Yin and Yang."

what do you mean by being a woman? When you look at the photos of your mother's time, you will find that maybe they didn't have your high-paying job and your strategizing at that time, but they were really feminine and more feminine.

on the whole, they are beautiful.

3

I went to dinner with my colleagues the other day.

while we were waiting for the waiter to serve, my colleague suddenly leaned in and winked at me to show me a couple at the opposite table.

it's okay not to look at it. it's really a shock. That boy can only see the back and meticulous hairstyle, regardless for the time being. And the girl opposite us ... < P > How to describe it?

That face is really like the snake essence in the gourd doll, especially the chin, which seems to pierce a hard table at any time. It's really too sharp.

And that girl's face belongs to a big face. Although her facial features are exquisite, her makeup is perfect and there are no flaws, she feels uncomfortable as a whole and always feels that her face is deformed. It's like the mold on the assembly line is printed out. It looks not only stiff, but even a little scary.

There are countless cases of plastic surgery failure nowadays. In order to get beauty, to make their eyes bigger, their noses bigger and their faces smaller, they went into the operating room and re-portrayed happiness with plastic surgeons and scalpels.

But friends who travel frequently know that the most beautiful scenery is never created artificially, but is endowed by nature.

even the most exquisite skills and skillful techniques can't compare with the beauty given by heaven. What's more, the appearance of deliberately moving a knife is not only dull, but also has endless sequelae.

what is truly beautiful must be natural and true.

when you lose truth, you lose beauty.

4

If what kind of woman is beautiful in the end, I first think of the cuckoo.

Nowadays, many women are as desperate, nervous and anxious as men, but the real beauty should be relaxed, water-like, natural and casual.

Jia Baoyu said that women are made of water. Not only because of the softness and watery appearance of a woman, but also because of the lightness and naturalness of her inner state.

Every time I see Rhododendron, I am deeply attracted by her idle and natural state. Her beauty is not deliberate, and a black dress can set off her temperament to the fullest.

It seems that she doesn't care about anything. The wind is light and the clouds are light, and there is not a spark of fireworks. When you see her, it's hard to imagine her being burned out, angry or exhausted. You will only feel that you are enjoying a painting, a work of art.

Director Chen Kexin once said:

"Du Fu's temperament is very similar to that of Faye Wong. When you like a girl, you will never know what she is thinking, which is a special attraction to me."

Not only that, a beauty like Du Fu seems to be born. She seems to know how to get along with this impetuous and nervous world very well. In order to avoid being disturbed, she kept a low profile and didn't even open Weibo. She didn't want to share a piece of this utilitarian world, but she just wanted to be herself.

but at the same time, she joined the WTO. She knows the rules of this world, and she will avoid the part that is unfavorable to her and accept the part that she deserves.

so she lives a relaxed and comfortable life.

All true beauties are not nervous all day, they must be relaxed and natural.

They don't deliberately and persistently pursue parts that they can't get or don't belong to themselves at all. I cherish the gift from heaven and keep my own unique characteristics.

actually, it's not that there is a lack of beauty in this era.

but because they don't have a good grasp of their own pace and state of life. Once time slows down, they are free and return to a relaxed, natural and true state. Perhaps, they will find that they are so beautiful.

it turns out that being a woman is so beautiful.

women are never nervous replicas.

a woman is supposed to be a stunner.