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My boyfriend asked me to travel, and we didn't spend much time together. Should I agree to such loneliness?

Travel should be a sensitive topic. If two people choose to travel, they will face many personal problems. After all, traveling only means living in another place, so many details of your life will be exposed to him. Therefore, many people will choose to travel together before getting married, because this is equivalent to a lifestyle, and it can be seen whether two people are suitable or not and whether they can solve the problems encountered by both sides together.

Then I think if you haven't been together for a long time, you don't really know each other very well. Even if the other person is very kind to you at ordinary times and pays great attention to discretion, you don't know what kind of person he is inside, so you will still have certain risks if you promise him immediately. Then you can find a way to delay this time, let the two of you contact for a longer time, and then choose to travel together.

You can refuse his invitation to you now in the name of work or family affairs, but if you simply refuse, it will be embarrassing. The other party will think that you have a problem with him, so you don't want to travel with him. You can ask him to travel together in the future, which can be said to be an extension of one or two months.

In that case, I think it's a very conservative decision, because on the one hand, you refuse him now, but not completely, so as to protect your own safety on the one hand, and on the other hand, it won't make the other party feel embarrassed.