Traveling abroad requires purchasing, how can we avoid being besieged?

If you don't tell anyone, nobody will let you buy it. This is the best way. But most people like to die by themselves, and tell everyone when they want to go out to play.

That's what my mother does. Send a circle of friends to every little thing. Then we went abroad to play. I didn't tell my friends too much. My mother sent a circle of friends, and many aunts made my mother wear a mask. At first, I didn't care so much. I just brought some cosmetics, and the mask doesn't take up space. As a result, we brought hundreds of bags and bought an oversized suitcase temporarily. You know, I only brought two bags abroad to play, and I didn't intend to bring anything back at all, but my mother cheated me.

It is also difficult to buy things. With so many things in hand, I can't walk around well. In the end, I was overweight when I bought something myself. Finally, you have to ask others for the consignment amount. When you were at the airport, you were particularly embarrassed and afraid of being stopped. This is a waste of brain power. So after we go out, we usually don't say anything to others, and we dare not bring anything.

If you are really good friends, make it clear to them that there is a limit to going abroad to buy things. Even if there is no limit, you can make one up. In short, you can help, but enough is enough. Can't you make excuses? There are many excuses for not helping to bring things, such as being unwell and not suitable to bring a lot of things or heavy things, or it has been agreed to help another friend bring things, and the quota is used up. As long as you don't want to estimate, no one is forcing you. I think everyone has only a few close friends at most. As long as you bring some for your friends, everyone else will push them.