Middle-aged people don't want to do this to themselves. Don't be smart, right?

As a middle-aged man in his forties, you should have wisdom and life experience that match your age, and know what to do and what not to do.

Old people often say that the longer people live, the smarter they become. In fact, this statement has some truth. After all, life needs to be about experience.

At first, everyone didn't understand anything, their own life, the future road and the whole world.

But after living for a long time and encountering more things, I gradually understand some truth and become more and more transparent, so most people like to consult the elderly and think they are very wise. That's the reason.

But if you look closely, you will find that this sentence is only half right, because some people just get old and have no other progress. This is a very sad thing.

Some people obviously reach middle age, but they always make mistakes and ruin the rest of their lives. It's the same. It's all their own fault.

They always think they are smart, listen to some bad suggestions, always want to take shortcuts and always want to get something in their own way. Actually, it's useless

A really smart middle-aged person should know that the following life truths must be understood, otherwise your future road will become more and more difficult, and you may even shoot yourself in the foot.

People don't buy when they reach middle age;

Try to buy people's hearts.

Lao Zhang is 43 years old this year. He has always believed that people's hearts can be bought, because he has done such things before.

He thinks that as long as he can use some methods, he will be able to make the other party work for him. He is the department manager of the company. Some time ago, the company held a competition, the winner could be promoted to the general manager, and the last one would be eliminated.

It is normal for the company to have such an arrangement. As we all know, some bad things happened from last year to this year, so the operation of many enterprises is problematic. Everyone wants to lay off employees, which is very normal.

Lao Zhang usually performs very well. He and the manager of another department are sworn enemies. They are very capable, but they don't like each other. This game has just become the biggest confrontation between them.

He wants to get a right-hand man from the other side to do things for him by buying people's hearts, so that he can win an absolute victory.

He promised a lot of benefits, and that employee is also the most trusted person of his sworn enemy. He thinks that as long as this thing is done, he can become the general manager and let his sworn enemy leave the company.

He thought he was smart and foolproof, but it opened his eyes. Yes, he was cheated. Although the colleague promised him to do something, he turned and told his boss about it.

In the end, not only did he not become the general manager, but he was also defeated. If he is unlucky, he may have to pack up and leave the company.

Never try to buy off people. It's not as simple as you think. If the operation is not good, you will shoot yourself in the foot.

In real life, many people have made such mistakes. They always want to dominate some people in their own way, but in the end they find that not everything can be bought with money.

The longer people live, the more they pay attention to things other than money. If you don't understand this truth, it is easy to fall into the pit.

Try to buy people's hearts.

Ma Lao, 45, is a very popular person. As we all know, as long as he goes out, there is almost nothing impossible. He has many friends who can help.

Everyone admires him very much. After all, not everyone can do this. When many people helped him, they all said it was a symbol of human feelings, so many people wondered if he had bought some human feelings before, so this was the result.

In fact, not everything can be bought and sold in this world.

Smart people know that human feelings are not bought, but made. No matter what path you want to take, you should learn to give and return, instead of trying to start when you need others.

Some people are so stupid that they never have any contact at ordinary times. Suddenly, one day, they think that the other person can be used by themselves, and they want to win them over through some methods.

If you give enough benefits, you may succeed, but most people are ordinary people. In this case, many people are actually unwilling to help you. After all, everyone usually has nothing to do. Who wants to go into this muddy water?

Buy at a loss.

Seeing this, many people may find it strange. How can anyone suffer in this world? Young people don't want it, let alone middle-aged people. Everyone is very clever. Who doesn't want to live a good life?

Having said that, many people are just doing it, but they haven't found it from beginning to end.

For a simple example, Lao Pan went on a trip last month. He wanted to go long ago, but he didn't have any travel experience. He just thought it would be better to go out for a walk than to stay at home, so he set off rashly. According to him, it cost about 30 thousand to 40 thousand, but the trip was not happy at all.

He can't eat well and sleep well, and many unpleasant things happened during the trip. When he got home, he looked tired and especially disliked the money he spent. After all, he is not a rich man. He only planned to spend thousands of dollars on the trip before, but he didn't expect to spend so much.

Everyone should think clearly about everything and don't act casually, so as not to lose money.

This thing seems a bit ridiculous to say, but in real life, many people have had this experience. This is what we call thankless, spending money to suffer. We should do this kind of thing as little as possible.

This is a small matter about travel. Many people have made bigger mistakes, so we must put an end to them and remind ourselves at all times.