Will parents urge you to get married when you go home to rent a girlfriend for the New Year?

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1. At present, there are only about ten days left before the Spring Festival, a traditional festival in China. For China people, the Spring Festival is a time for family reunion. Whenever the Spring Festival comes, no matter how busy, people who travel abroad will return to their hometown to visit their parents and friends. However, when it comes to visiting relatives and friends, many singles are full of resentment against the Spring Festival. For these single people, as long as they visit relatives and friends, they will encounter a problem: will anyone ask them if they have a girlfriend and when they will get married? Many single people look up as soon as they hear this question.

After returning home during the Spring Festival, not only relatives and friends will ask such questions, but even parents will ask them. This has caused many young people, especially single young people, to be afraid of going home for the New Year and prefer to stay alone in the city. However, some young people have the means to rent a girlfriend to deal with their parents and relatives when they go home during the Spring Festival. Nowadays, this way of "renting a girlfriend to go home for the New Year" is becoming more and more popular, and even a business chain of "renting a girlfriend for the New Year" has been formed online.

The so-called "renting a girlfriend home for the New Year" means that the girlfriend you bring home is not your serious girlfriend, but someone you rent to cope with your parents. "Since I rented it, I naturally have to pay it back." According to the survey, renting a girlfriend's house this year costs 500-2,000 yuan per day, with a maximum of 2,000 yuan per day.

However, this type of rental girlfriend is nicknamed "green rent". The so-called green rent is to pretend that you are an unrelated girlfriend. To put it bluntly, you are pretending to be in front of your parents and friends, letting everyone know that you have a girlfriend, so that you won't be urged to get married by them.

Objectively speaking, most of the reasons for this phenomenon are parents urging marriage. The older generation in China is more traditional. They believe that men should have families and careers when they are old, and they also believe that it is their responsibility to let their children become families and careers. As long as a child marries a daughter-in-law, his or her task is completed. If a child can't marry a daughter-in-law, parents will be worried, and when they are worried, they will start to urge their children. This is the reason for urging marriage.

For young people, the pace of life today is accelerating. Many people attend postgraduate and doctoral programs after entering university. Postgraduates and masters are in their thirties. "This age is not too big for young people, but in the eyes of the older generation such as parents, this is the age suitable for young people. For these people, parents will definitely urge them to get married when they go home for the New Year. "

Even though I didn't go to graduate school or have a doctorate, I am 22 years old now. If I talk to someone at work for a few years, I will be nearly 30 years old. This age is not bad in the city. If parents are in the countryside, they will definitely be worried. Therefore, it is mainly to urge these people to go home and get married in the New Year.

In order to respond to their parents' demands for blind date and marriage, young people can only resort to deception and come up with the crooked ways of "renting a girlfriend to go home for the New Year". This can not only cope with the impulse of parents to rush to get married and leave relatives and friends, but also make it easier for them to return to their hometown. Frankly, vanity is still playing tricks on you.

However, I would like to advise you here that "renting a girlfriend to go home for the New Year" is illegal, and young people with this idea should stop immediately.