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How to strike up a conversation with a girl you like?

When you meet the girl you like, the most normal thing is to express her beauty. Compliments will always make a girl happy. But remember to hide some of your inner desires.

First, girls don’t like boys to talk to her based on their gender needs. Although she likes to be called beautiful, temperamental or knowledgeable, it mostly comes from a need for self-confidence. So when chatting up a girl, appropriate compliments are a must.

Second, don’t ask for a solo date too early. You can create some opportunities, for example, asking a few friends to go somewhere to play. In such a public place for fun, with friends as companions, girls will feel relatively safe and will happily allow it.

Third, after getting the other party’s contact information, don’t rush to confess your feelings and bombard them in turn. Girls start choosing their lovers from their friends. Unless you are a big star, or a sweetheart who makes her particularly excited. It's normal to keep in touch every once in a while. Give girls the time and space to notice you. But frequent interruptions can only add endless risks to this kind of interaction. Girls can block you at any time.

Fourth, you must pay attention to etiquette and politeness when striking up a conversation in public places. It can be said that necessary etiquette and politeness are ways to shorten the distance between people. What a girl likes most is to have a gentleman-like man take care of her. Then you need to learn what gentlemanly behavior is and implement it into the details.

Fifth, taking too long to strike up a conversation for the first time may cause damage to future relationships. So the first date only establishes the impression in the other person's mind. Give the other person time to notice or reflect, and never do everything to the fullest, as this is very likely to cause opposition or resentment from the girl.

Everything must be done step by step. Only in this way can we obtain a lasting relationship.