What would have been the fate of Farhan in "Three Idiots in Bollywood" if he had not met Rancho?

It’s another freshman year! When you enter college and study for a period of time, you find that you have no interest in the major you applied for after the college entrance examination. What should you do? In the movie "Three Idiots", Farhan was admitted to Imperial College due to the influence of his father and the surrounding environment. However, he clearly knew that he did not like industrial design and was only forced to do so by his father. authority, shelved her favorite outdoor photography. In every subsequent exam, he failed repeatedly and his scores were steadily ranked at the bottom of the list. With the end of his college career, he was about to go to society and accept the selection of enterprises. However, after Lanche's advice, Fahan finally plucked up the courage and persuaded his family to go to a foreign country to learn outdoor photography, and finally learned how to do it. Done! Although this is a scene in a movie, it feels very real to me, like a living teaching material that inspires people!

? In the movie, Farhan loves outdoor photography. Every lovely photo of wild animals he took made his father feel like he was doing a good job. To use a trendy Internet saying: There is no road taken in vain, every step counts! I think it was Fahan's early investment that made foreign photographers willing to hire him as an assistant, allowing him to shine in his future career.

A few years ago, I heard someone explain the word "pattern" this way: it means only doing things that are beneficial to the future. In life, what often troubles us is the choice between what is beneficial in the present and what is beneficial in the long run!

? When I was reading a book recently, there was a psychological test in the book, which was quite interesting! You might as well take this to test your decision-making ability.

Today, you are going to travel to a far away place. As soon as you walk out of your house, an elder with a fairy-like character appears in front of you. He tells you that he can give you a gift to help you on your journey, but you can only choose one of the following:

1. A bloody horse.

2. A white camel.

3. A strong elephant.

? Seeing these options, we can first think about these two questions: 1. No matter what your choice is, why do you choose this? 2. On what basis did you exclude the other two items? How do you sometimes rule out other options in your daily life?

? I think, whatever your answer is, here's the best answer I've ever heard:

Look where I'm going to travel.

When seeing BMWs, camels, elephants and travel, a lot of logic goes like this: I like BMWs because they are majestic and can travel thousands of miles a day. I like the feeling of traveling like this! I don't like camels and elephants because they are slow! But if you are going to the desert, you will die of thirst if you ride an elephant and cannot go more than 20 miles. What's the point of having a camel if you lose the grassland? Therefore, people with mature minds will understand that which animal to choose does not depend on the animal’s significance to me now, but on its value to me in the future. In the same way, the value of something does not depend on The home box you judge now depends on its value in future situations. This is called future value.

In our career choices, the future value of a career is more important than the current value of Laolv. Why is it difficult for college students to find jobs now? In fact, it is not difficult to find a job. What is difficult is to find a job that matches your major. Our most common reason is: "Don't waste the major you have studied for four years." But have we ever thought about: What is the real waste? If you work in a professional field that is not suitable for you, it is completely impossible for you to develop to a good professional level. So, are you wasting your 4 years of professional study in college, or are you wasting the next 35 years of your career? 4 years, 35 years, who is wasting it? The future value of a job that suits you is much higher than your current major.

? Finally, do a test to see what the mental model of "future value" is?

? In a certain lecture, a professor asked everyone present a question, If a person holds a water glass in his hand, what is his next choice?

? Some people say you should put tea leaves to make tea, some say you should share it with others, some say you should analyze yourself and use the water in the best way...

? So, yours What's the answer?

? The professor told everyone that if a person holds a water glass in his hand, he should do what he wants to do. What is the necessary relationship with the water glass?

? There is such a water glass in each of our hearts. We are afraid of losing so we stare at the cup, which limits our vision, rigidifies our thinking, and prevents us from seeing truly valuable things.

Some cups are called "professional", some are called "emotion", and some are called "good and comfortable work". What is your cup called?