How to spend the dull period

How to spend the dull period is as follows:

1. Communicate actively. The flat period is also a running-in period, and you will find many shortcomings of the other party, and you will also find many differences between you. It's normal for you to quarrel when you have problems. During this time, don't make extreme things because of quarreling. After you calm down, you should actively communicate with each other in a peaceful and trusting tone.

Speak from your heart, express your mutual demands, and actively seek solutions with each other. Details sometimes reflect many things, especially when the object is a sensitive and careful person. Knowing that she has a habit of not eating spicy food, remember to remind the waiter when ordering.

remember special days, prepare in advance, send some gifts and say some sweet words. A phone call in the morning and evening, and more company. For example, she can put a small note in the book she usually reads and say a few warm words to attract her successfully! It should be noted that it is more touching to create some small surprises in the details.

2. Create new experiences. When you have the opportunity, you must go out to play together, because traveling can create many memorable memories. From planning, acting and ending together, you will experience more together and your feelings will be more stable. If you can, consider going to the environment where the other person lived as a child and feel the growth process of the other person intuitively.

It's very warm and beautiful to feel the growth experience of lovers, and the impressive experience as a child not only has a topic to talk about, but also helps you to do a very important thing: you will know more about lovers. You will know what environment lovers grew up in and what they experienced.

3. If in the dull period, your lover and you are trying to get used to each other despite quarreling, although life is very equal, they can snuggle up to each other and feel warm. Then cherish this person and try to get through the adaptation period of this dull period.

if you have tried and tried, but it has never worked, and the hearts of two people are drifting away and their feelings are getting weaker, you may want to consider the future of two people at this time, and don't think that they have been talking together for so long anyway, even if it is inappropriate. Some things are suitable and inappropriate, so don't wait until later to regret it.

The performance of the flat period is as follows:

Many people think that when feelings fade, they just stop loving. In fact, it is normal for feelings to enter the flat period, and any relationship will have a flat period. After the feelings enter the dull period, the most obvious performance is that there is no longer a feeling of heartbeat, and there are more and more contradictions between two people.

There are many different opinions and opinions between you, and there will be more contradictions and quarrels, and every little problem of the other side will be magnified and over-interpreted. You may even think that this person is not your ideal person.

You will feel disillusioned, because your inner needs can't be met. You will gain the attention of the other person in various ways to meet your own needs. Everyone will have their own outlines and standards in their minds before they begin to fall in love. When you meet the person who makes you move, you will be attracted.

At this time, all you can see is each other's advantages, even the shortcomings will be ignored. However, with your long-term contact, you will find that the ideal woman is somewhat different from the real one, and gradually there will be a psychological gap in your heart. When you fully understand a person, your desire to explore her will gradually weaken, and the novelty will disappear.