What makes many young people choose to divorce immediately after their honeymoon trip?

Divorce as soon as I come back from my honeymoon trip. That's because two people are too impulsive, and young people are too thoughtless and willful. When two people are in love, they show their best side to each other and hide their shortcomings. It's different after marriage. You can't hide it if you want to. This requires both sides to understand each other and see each other's advantages, that is, before getting married, they must see clearly whether they are suitable for themselves. Both sides should be honest with each other and don't hide themselves, so that the other side can have the illusion that they are as good as the other side imagined.

After marriage, I found that the differences were too great, the living habits were different, and the customs were inconsistent. Going out for a trip and honeymoon was originally a very happy thing, but it was very unpleasant. If you don't like spicy food, the other party must have ordered a lot of very spicy dishes. I hate the smell of smoking, but the other person just smokes one after another. The whole room is full of smoke. It is unbearable to take a bath and change clothes every day, but the other party can't change clothes for several days.

Not to mention other small aspects, before I got married, I was obedient to myself and listened to myself. If you have nothing to do, you won't be able to get married. You don't know how to take care of yourself, you don't know how to take care of yourself, you don't take yourself seriously at all. Honeymoon trip is romantic and warm for others. For them, this is embarrassing and unpleasant. The two sides don't like each other. After their honeymoon trip, the two sides parted ways and got divorced. There are also many cases of flash marriage and flash separation now.

The two sides treat marriage as a child's play and break up if they disagree. It is because young people are too impulsive to consider the consequences of willfulness. It is normal for two people to encounter contradictions after marriage, not an escape. It is very reckless and irresponsible for both sides to calm down, demand to resolve conflicts and make a divorce decision casually. It is also a sense of responsibility for the two sides to openly put forward problems, seek solutions, tolerate each other, seek common ground while reserving differences, and slowly run in. There are no unsolvable problems, and it is irresponsible for both sides to make arbitrary decisions.