I travel once a month, but my girlfriend thinks I'm wasting money. What should I do?

There is no doubt that the best choice for this problem is to take her to travel together and let her feel how beautiful travel is for life. It can always relax itself, have more energy to face some boring study and work, and make the dull life look forward to that day every month, so that life will not be too boring and time will not pass too slowly.

Of course, this is just a matter of course. In fact, she may not travel with you. Even if she travels with you, she may not feel how wonderful the trip is. After all, some things are always unacceptable to some people, which has nothing to do with the things themselves, but with people, because people are always different.

Then we should think about plan B while expecting the smooth implementation of plan A. Since we can't change her and don't want to give up, we can only convince her. When everyone calms down and sits down to talk, tell her what some reasons mean to you, as well as some insights and experiences you gained during your trip.

In fact, many girls are not unreasonable people, nor are they the kind of people who won't listen. They always like listening to stories, and they are always willing to pay some emotions, laughter or tears for stories. Of course, the premise of all this is that your story is enough to touch her heart. I can only provide you with an idea, but the specific plan can't. After all, I'm not you, and I don't know what your story is. I can change it into a happy or sad story and still touch people's hearts. It's up to you.

In fact, there is a plan C. If this fails, if you still don't want to break up with her, you will have to change yourself. Don't take her to play, try to make her feel that she has failed, tell her well, let her know that she has failed, or pretend to know nothing and continue to maintain her previous life. At this time, it is time for you to change.

It has not yet developed into a life-and-death plot, but it is time to change or break up. If you don't change, you will lose sooner or later! Long pain is better than short pain. It is better to break up early, which is to set two people free.

If you don't want to break up with her anyway, then you can only change yourself! But I don't mind doing so, because it's too humble. Men should be kind to themselves no matter what. What is the point of living? Why not let yourself go? Life is so boring, if you lose some fun, even if you have a girlfriend, what's the point of life!

Anyway, it seems that this is all you can do at present. It's your choice. I hope everyone is well, it is best to be direct and the first one will succeed.