Travel with your boyfriend and get a separate room?

I am a boy, and I think it is very necessary to sleep in separate rooms. Even if I agree to share a room with her, I will open a standard room and give her the greatest respect.

I don't know her 1 year, but we have a good relationship. Some time ago, we traveled together in Hangzhou and Shanghai. To tell the truth, I am a very conservative person. A few days before the trip, I made such a decision in my mind that I would never sleep in a bed before I got married.

When we arrived in Hangzhou by plane, we found a three-star hotel. I booked two rooms when I checked in. When she got the room card, she was stunned at first, then smiled at me and accepted my decision gladly. In the afternoon, I went directly to visit the West Lake Scenic Area and found a place to eat a sumptuous dinner in the evening. After returning to the hotel, we said good night to each other and went into our respective rooms.

It's after 1 1 in the evening. Just as I was about to take a break, she sent me a WeChat asking me to make a reservation from now on. First, there is no need to waste the family conditions of our ordinary working families. Second, she said she trusted me. I also obediently agreed, and then chatted for a while, and fell asleep with a faint touch.

The next day, when we booked the hotel, I chose the standard room directly. When we walked into the room together at night, she and I were both a little shy. After all, we have never lived with other members of the opposite sex since childhood, although we are already lovers. In order to give her a relatively private environment, I went to the bathroom to take a bath first, so that she had enough time to change clothes.

Before coming out of the bathroom, I carefully wiped the water stains on the dresser with a towel to give her a clean washing environment. And the next morning, I asked her to go to the bathroom to wash first, and then I went to wash, which avoided some embarrassment to the maximum extent.

In this way, we have maintained such a tacit understanding in the next few days of travel, and the relationship between the two sides has been further improved.

There may be many people who think that when couples travel together, they should seize the opportunity to get closer. But I think even if the relationship between the two sides is good, this couple is still a couple, not a husband and wife. Boys should learn to respect girls, and girls should learn to protect themselves. Although the present society is relatively open, we should follow some principles as far as possible.

Moreover, in fact, everyone has the same experience. He will cherish what he can't get, but he will no longer cherish what he has got. Therefore, couples should keep a certain distance when traveling, so that both sides will cherish each other more, make such a beautiful marriage more secure and have more confidence to enter the marriage hall.

I don't know my opinion, do you agree? Welcome everyone to actively correct me!

Well, you must sleep in separate rooms, and you must sleep in separate rooms after marriage. As long as he touches you, you will go back to your parents' house, or you will get divorced.

I answer this question with my own experience from a girl's point of view.

My boyfriend and I met at a party three years ago. I was the maid of honor that year and he was the best man. Under the introduction of the bride and groom, we met and added WeChat to each other.

That night, as bridesmaids and groomsmen, we drank a lot, but he took good care of me. When I was drunk and unconscious, he carried me to the hotel and took care of me in front of the bed for one night. That should be our first day alone.

The next morning, I found him lying in bed. Seeing that I was awake, he went out and bought me a hot breakfast. After eating, he took me for a walk in the nearby park and breathed fresh air to sober up.

In the afternoon, we had a simple lunch at the lakeside restaurant near the park. After dinner, I learned that he is a retired soldier and now works in a public institution.

After a brief greeting, we said goodbye to each other and went home.

One day, I saw him make a move and joked, where is this? It's beautiful! He replied, this is my hometown. Do you like it? I can show it to you if you like.

I said yes. The speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention. He really drove to my city on Saturday. When he arrived, he sent me a message saying that I was downstairs in your house. You should pack up your makeup and leave with me in a good mood.

As a girl, makeup is a time-consuming thing. The first time I went out, I unconsciously dressed up all morning, but he waited patiently downstairs for the whole morning.

After we set off, he took me directly to his house and made me a master bedroom. His parents are very enthusiastic, the home is super clean and tidy, and they also made me a table of local specialties to entertain me.

After dinner, he gave me a rest and then took me around the old street near his home. Finally, he said, it's very late today, and tomorrow I'll take you to the place where I sent a circle of friends last time. It's a long way, so you should have a good rest and keep your spirits up before you leave tomorrow morning.

I asked him, why didn't you take me to the hotel and your home? It is not appropriate for girls to go directly to boys' houses. He said, it doesn't matter, treat my home as your own, and it's more expensive to live outside. You have just come out to work for a long time, so you can save some money. The most important thing is that you live outside alone, and I'm not at ease.

After hearing what he said, it seemed reasonable, so I settled down.

The next day and the third day, he took me to play around the scenery of my hometown. In the play, he took care of me and acted like a gentleman.

This trip left a deep impression on me, and my affection for him is growing day by day.

After I came back, I contacted him more frequently.

Slowly, we seem to talk about everything. Over time, I fell in love.

The feeling of long-distance love is a bit difficult. He visited me in my city several times during his love.

Although he is a boyfriend and girlfriend, every time he comes to see me, he will choose to stay in a hotel outside.

During the day, we are lovers. We will walk hand in hand, eat, drink and be merry, and we will kiss and hold high. But in the evening, he treated me as a guest and left my place voluntarily.

Once, he came to see me. It was a late-night train. I met him at the railway station. After he sent me home, he was going out to open a hotel. I offered to stay here tonight. As a result, he said, nothing. I want to respect each other before getting engaged or married. I want to leave the best experience and feeling in the most sacred moment. With that, he left.

Since then, I have more confidence in his character. Perhaps this is his style as a soldier, with responsibility and responsibility.

After spending more than a year with him, I am more determined to stay with him.

In this way, we have gone through each other for two years with incomparable purity and prudence.

In the spring of the third year, I asked him when you would give me a warm home. He replied, you can do it now if you like!

I replied firmly, I want you to marry me this spring. As a result, he was as happy as a child and began to make arrangements.

The next day, he and his parents rushed from Jiangxi to their hometown in Fujian to discuss marriage with my parents.

Both parents are very enlightened parents, and the consultation process is not very complicated. They said that as long as the two children really love each other, we parents don't have much opinion.

In this way, we agreed in March, prepared in April and got married in May.

We abandoned all the rituals that complicated secular marriage should have, and finally chose to travel and get married.

Two weeks before our wedding, we chose Sanya, Hainan as our travel destination. It was our first official trip since we became boyfriend and girlfriend, so we were extremely uneasy but full of expectations.

The day of departure has finally arrived. Before leaving, he booked a hotel, which is Sheraton.

I joked with him that how many rooms did you book this time? Is it a big bed room or a standard room? He gave me a serious answer, didn't you? A big bed room, of course. We have established a relationship and are about to get married!

Looking at him like a big boy, I think I chose the right person.

I asked him why he chose such an upscale hotel. We just bought a wedding room, which can save money.

As a result, he replied to me that it was our first official trip and getting married was such an important thing. How can we wronged you? Taking wedding photos is also very tiring. Only comfortable and energetic is the most beautiful!

Hearing these words, I was moved to tears.

After arriving in Sanya, it was a very tiring journey, but I was extremely excited and awake.

After checking in, we entered the guest room early. At the moment we opened the room, I was moved and surprised by him again. The room is beautifully decorated and everything is arranged in the way I like. There are flowers, balloons, candles and even my favorite totoro on the bed, and the walls are covered with our previous experiences.

It turned out that before this, he had arranged all this in advance through communication and coordination with the hotel, just to give me a surprise.

That night, we spent the most precious and unforgettable night in our life in this beautiful atmosphere. This is also the first time we have been in the same room and slept in the same bed.

This trip to Sanya is also the best trip in my life. I only brought a good mood and someone who has been with me, and he arranged everything else.

Now, we have passed the fifth year and have a love crystallization that belongs to each other.

He is still the same as before: responsible, responsible!

So, in the end, I want to say that it is an open question whether to separate rooms when traveling with my boyfriend. You think your boyfriend is a person you can rely on and trust, and I think you can share a room or even a bed.

And what kind of person your boyfriend is also very important. Maybe you can see his character indirectly in this trip.

I think the author who put forward this question also has his own answer in his heart.

I also want to say that since you chose to travel with your boyfriend, it shows that you have accepted and recognized this boy to some extent. Therefore, you should be aware of what may happen on this trip, be responsible for your actions and know how to protect yourself. I think this is the most important thing!

I think, should, very should, a man is a thinking creature in the lower body, so be careful, when the time comes, his sperm will go to the brain, and it will be you who is unlucky.

Unless you trust him, he deserves your trust.

My girlfriend and I have only been together for half a year, but the relationship is very good and we hardly quarrel together. He likes me very much and I love her very much.

On May 5th this year 1, we chose to go out to play. At that time, we also considered whether to open two rooms. However, due to lack of funds and tight housing, we opened one, but we didn't do anything beyond the gap except kissing and hugging.

Tell me about me first. I grew up in the countryside, and my education (sex) is actually relatively backward, so I am still very conservative in this respect. I think out of a responsible attitude towards a woman, even if it is an open society now, we should not cross the gap until we get married or engaged.

Another reason is that I will be responsible for other women, so I can promise not to touch other women before I get married or engaged, so I also hope that my other half will be the same and complete before I get married or engaged. Some people may say that I am a virgin complex, but I still believe that saplings are looking for a white paper for saplings. And the reason why I don't touch her is because I'm not sure if I can go to the end with him. If it is true, we will part one day, and when he meets the boy who really likes her, and the boy, like me, can't accept her previous behavior, then I will feel guilty, and my current girl will blame me for a long time. So out of responsibility for her, I won't touch her.

Tell me more about my girlfriend. My girlfriend is a woman of principle. She is very dependent on me and is gentle in some things, but she will never give in to some principled things. She has her own ideas, her own attitude and her own bottom line. In some things, no matter what you do, he will forgive you. Even if he was angry, he didn't exceed the bottom line. All I have to do is apologize to her and coax her, and this matter will be over. If you touch his bottom line, I think it will be very difficult. Therefore, a person's bottom line, we still try not to touch.

It is also based on these two considerations, coupled with economic embarrassment, when we went out to play on May 1, we chose to share a room and bought a big bed room. Two people slept in a bed for two nights, and I really felt the happiness of sleeping together. It is really comfortable to sleep with it at night. I can say good night to my face and kiss before going to bed. The happiness of being a man really reminds me now. Apart from these, we didn't do anything else, especially the natural barrier was not broken.

There is another situation, that is, you love him very much, and he loves you very much, and you think that the two of you will have a future, and your mind is open and you can accept it, so you can get a room. Even if you do that, you won't regret it, because it is within your ability.

Whatever the outcome. I still hope you can take safety measures. Girls must learn to protect themselves when they are outside. As an adult, you are responsible for your own decisions.

Let me start with my example. My wife and I traveled for the first time after we fell in love. We made up our vacation and chose to go to Yunnan. 15 days or so, take the traditional route, such as Shangri-La, Shuhe Lugu Lake, Lijiang, Kunming. When I arrived in Yunnan, she gave me 7000 yuan and refused to let me pay for it myself. We always have two rooms along the way, and there is nothing in the hotel. The owner of the hotel will look at us strangely, watching us intimate and intimate in pairs during the day, but entering his room at night.

When we are in Shuhe, we will go horseback riding. The female boss of the hotel found two Yunnan aunts. They were chatting on the road with horses. Aunt said we have it here. Boys and girls should not be seen making out before marriage. On the wedding day, a boy can marry a girl with seven horses as a bride price.

We got married after our trip to Yunnan.

Now that both boys and girls are traveling, it is natural to get a room. I lived in an apartment next to Vientiane City in Qingdao a while ago. The whole apartment is a variety of homestays. Every day in the elevator lobby, I will see all kinds of young men and women close to each other to check in. Some I suspect are 18 years old? Just checked in? If I have a daughter, I will be worried to death, or if I talk about a girlfriend now, will I be worried that she will travel with someone else to get a room? Sometimes when I think about it, I am glad that these are not my troubles.

I'm not preaching, I can only say that the society is becoming more and more open now, and girls and boys don't take this seriously. I wonder what your boyfriend thinks? This is not a question of outdated ideas or whether a girl will suffer, but a question of respect. Well, I feel old now, and I can't say it clearly. If I can't say it, I won't say it, but girls, self-respect and self-love are always right.

I am a woman, and I analyze problems from the perspective of human nature, and I will never be empty.

If you want to stay in a hotel when traveling with your boyfriend, you certainly don't need to open a separate room. Even if it is a relationship between men and women, it is only when the relationship is warm enough that girls dare to travel alone with boys.

After all, girls are not stupid. She went out alone with an adult man and had a good impression on herself. If the relationship does not reach a certain level, girls really dare not go, and it will be very embarrassing to get along in the private room! If it gets too stiff, the relationship between two people will collapse.

As an adult, what you need most is to have a basic prediction of some common things, to be able to make an accurate response according to your inner thoughts, and to ensure that you can be responsible for yourself.

Young people are full of hormones and are in a period of youth ignorance. Many things are curious and eager to try, and there are many people who get along like an old couple. For young couples, this is not only an expression of love for each other, but also a way and means to explore and understand each other and prepare for their future marriage.

In real life, many girls want to be a pure friendship with each other in the early days of getting along, and don't develop the relationship too fast. But the boys have different ideas. They have a good impression on a girl, hoping to get to know each other better, so as to further develop their intimate relationship, finalize each other's lover status as soon as possible, and free up their hands to develop their careers. Boys who can't reach their goals will quit soon.

Traveling abroad is an activity that consumes money and energy. Unless they are very fond of traveling, most couples choose to travel in order to enhance their feelings and give each other a good memory. It is a ceremonial activity.

This also shows that couples who choose this form of travel have a stable and intimate relationship and have already surpassed ordinary couples. It doesn't make much sense to divide rooms. Opening an extra room will only cost more money and take on more leisure. Why bother? Thanks for your support.

The unspoken rule of travel is that when men and women travel, they will naturally live together, which is a natural thing, otherwise, who will give themselves to you and go to see the scenery with you. Some scenery may have been appreciated by others, but it is only your scenery that makes people feel extremely nostalgic, or it may be that your company makes people feel infinite happiness. So, if we travel with you, we can't live together and depend on each other. I think this girl may never forgive you for not knowing the customs.

Traveling with my boyfriend, if I say that as a boy, I don't take the initiative to take care of girls and take the opportunity to win their hearts, which is not limited to some hospitality, I think this trip can only be said to be sightseeing and meaningless. Seeing the mountains and water is also a common landscape. Only two people are holding hands, rippling in the landscape and feeling each other's heartbeat in the landscape. That's a tourist mood. And what kind of man are you when you are not waiting for your girlfriend in the dead of night? So I said, when you travel with your boyfriend, don't refuse that boy to protect you, even if there are no such things in their lives. At least two people sleep together and feel each other's breathing and heartbeat, which is also a wonderful feeling. Therefore, going out to travel with your boyfriend and sharing a room will isolate the love of two people, even if it is a waste of resources. What's the difference between this and the Queen Mother's overpass? So don't hold back when I say love.

Sleep in separate rooms, then what are you doing out?

You must sleep separately!

Open two rooms and sleep separately. After all, it's just a boyfriend, and girls still have to keep the bottom line. After all, some things should be cautious.

If you are engaged, you can consider shyness as appropriate.

In addition, travel can better show what kind of person your boyfriend is: do you have a plan? Is there a responsibility? Is it all for you?

Good luck [Ross]!

I think your boyfriend might not want to. I don't know how long you have been together. How far has the relationship between two people gone?

In addition, even if you are psychologically prepared, if you have no plans to get married in the short term, the protective measures you should take must be done well.