What is a woman's best mental state in life?

The progress of social civilization has brought some vitality to women, and women no longer play the role of being trapped in the family. The position of a woman is no longer to teach children and spend her life in trivial housework.

Independent women can get rid of difficulties and live the life they want. Then, the life you want is a woman's best mental state.

In fact, everyone is often involuntarily pursuing their best living conditions. I struggled all the way from youth to middle age in the blink of an eye. Every day seems very difficult, but today it seems like a moment to think about the past. When people reach middle age, I put aside the troubles of work and trivial matters of life, and concentrate on the present, so that every day and step in the future will be comfortable and practical.

Life has experienced countless problems, some of which can be solved by yourself, but it is impossible to get everything you want, and some of which can't be solved all your life. Sometimes I think more about what I have and feel very happy.

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I have a good friend, Xiao Qiong, who is recognized as a pistachio. On any occasion, as long as she is there, the atmosphere must be much happier. No one in this circle can forget her, just invite her to the party, or you will feel something missing.

In fact, her life is not smooth sailing, which can be described as very difficult. Laid off in his thirties, he has been working as a temporary worker. In my spare time, I also go to a cosmetics store to do sales. The 50-year-old husband got cancer, and the treatment spent all the savings at home. Her husband died, leaving her and her unmarried son.

Two years later, I tried my best to give my son a loan to buy a small house and get married. However, this daughter-in-law suspected that her family was not angry and had no money, and filed for divorce two years later.

Xiao Qiong's son is an honest man. He doesn't have much ability to make his wife live a better life and earn money to repay the loan. I reluctantly agreed to divorce.

Considering her life experience, most of us are much better than her. There are always some uncontrollable variables in life. Sometimes, seeing disaster arrival, we just can't escape, but we can always choose the courage and confidence to face difficulties.

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Xiao Qiong's mental state has been very good. People who don't know her very well never thought that she would go through so many hardships in life.

Xiao Qiong said that the troubles at home kept happening, which was unbearable at that time, but she had to find some outlets, that is, pretending to be happy. She just doesn't understand why all the bad things happen to her alone. But there is nothing you can do. It just happened, you can't resist it, you can only endure it.

Only with patience can we not be defeated by difficulties and show the unimaginable strength of ordinary people.

The world is so big that each of us is struggling desperately in our own small circle. Many people say that life is very tired and hard. But when you look back, everyone around you is just like you. No one's life is not hard, and no one's life is Ma Pingchuan, and there are more or less pressures and troubles.

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A smart woman will not give in to difficulties under pressure. Wearing a combat suit? Fight for your life. There is a woman named Wu Shengming who is 87 years old this year. From a rich lady to a nanny after escaping from marriage, from a multimillionaire to a prisoner, from divorce to the loss of an only daughter, from cleaning toilets to starting a business for public welfare. Although her life is rough, her tenacity shows what it is like for a woman to live the best life.

Grandma Wu today does not envy anyone and does not depend on anyone. She is the master of her own life, and her face is always full of confidence. Wearing fashionable skirts, elegant hats and light makeup, they show their temperament and charm and live as they like. Who would have thought that such an old man, like a young man, took time out to exercise and maintained a vigorous mental state.

Whether it is Grandma Wu, people will think that they are strong in life, and it is best to live a woman's life. Yes, every woman should seek inner happiness and live in the present, no matter what others say. You think that moment is your best mental state, that's enough!