Now girls like to play, and girlfriends who have been married say they haven't played enough, or are they just playing with me and have no idea of getting married?

After marriage, women do sacrifice many things, such as pregnancy, not eating casually, not going out to travel, affecting work and childbirth, and so on.

My daughter-in-law is like this. Before she got married, she loved to eat and play, traveled everywhere, worked hard and wanted to take the exam. In order to prepare for pregnancy after marriage, it is even more painful to have children without going out to eat or play for nearly a year. Now taking care of children every day, not sleeping well for two months, and living with elders have also produced such contradictions. Fortunately, I worked in a public institution and took three months off, but I was not fired. But in fact, many girls will lose their jobs during childbirth and become housewives completely.

If I have to go through this, maybe I have fear and don't want to get married, but there is no absolute thing. Be considerate of your girlfriend, communicate more, and handle the relationship between her and her elders. I'm sure she will.

Willing to adopt ~ thank you