For the rest of your life, you must have the courage to stop.

Someone once joked that there is a saying that when traveling, you can drink the most expensive water, swallow the worst snacks, climb the highest mountain and take photos of thousands of people.

This sentence is "everyone is here".

The implication is that even if everything is not as perfect as expected, you can't live up to your time, money and energy.

"Don't live up to it" brings you back pain, but you are unwilling and can't enjoy yourself.

In fact, stop loss in time and stop loss in the middle is the real profit maximization.

But people often care about the immediate gains and losses, refuse to make their efforts meaningless, so they have to go their own way and finally find that they have lost more.

1, time is gone forever, so cherish it.

Some time ago, I saw my colleagues playing a game of planting trees to get fruit. Colleagues advise you to come and play, and you will get something for nothing.

My heart itched, too, and I began to plant trees. At the beginning, the trees grew quickly, sprouted, grew leaves and blossomed. Later, more water drops and fertilizer were needed.

You can only visit more and more websites to get water droplets. This game has become a daily necessity. Slowly began to encroach on the time of reading and studying, playing with children, and sometimes even staying up late to collect some water droplets.

It takes a lot of time, but the growth of fruit trees seems to be getting slower and slower, and the expected fruit is getting farther and farther.

I refused to give up until the end, because I paid too much time for it.

If you can't see the benefits, how can you beat gongs and drums and retreat?

In fact, I ended up with only two pounds of kiwifruit, which was only ten yuan when I bought it, but it took me two months of free time.

It is really a loss-making business to waste time and not get the same return.

However, compared with wasting more time in the future, it is wise to stop in time.

My friend Xiaoyun and my boyfriend have been together for ten years. The two are in the same class in high school and have a good impression on each other; University with the same school, determine love; Graduated from the same city, talking about marriage.

Once the passion, as early as in slowly get along with exhausted. Two people with different personalities often quarrel over trifles.

When he was exhausted, the man cheated. It is said that the third party is a gentle, considerate and innocent girl.

The man broke up in the hope of compensation. Xiao Yun gnashed her teeth and said that she would never get away with it.

I asked her, since I don't love each other, why don't I let them go?

Xiaoyun burst into tears and said, that's my whole youth!

Ten years of tenderness, ten years of love and ten years of lush life, if you give up, it means that this decade will become empty.

No one wants to spend ten years buying a spring dream. However, how much can this stalemate be saved? Just endless regrets and complaints.

The Book of Songs? Self-protection said:

In other words, when you and I made a vow to grow old together, I never thought you would break it. Now that it's over, don't think about going back to the league, let it all be over!

Because compared with the delayed youth, a bright future is more desirable!

Don't worry about spending money, be content.

During the National Day, my daughter said that she wanted to watch The Legend of Divine Leap and asked me to buy tickets online.

It happened that there was an activity in the cinema, so I bought a ticket for "The Legend of Deification" for 20 yuan. And a credit card is also engaged in activities, so I bought a ticket for Leap for ten yuan.

Because of my mistake, two tickets were bought at the same time. But because they are all special tickets, they can't be returned and changed.

If you want to minimize your losses, you must choose Legend of Deification, where the price is high, but my daughter especially wants to see Leap.

Happiness itself is a luxury. If you want to have it, you must satisfy your heart.

Moreover, the leap can make the daughter feel satisfied and happy psychologically, so the lost money is valuable.

In the movie "Happiness Knocks on the Door", Will? Chris, the hero played by Smith? Ghana used all its savings to buy a high-tech therapeutic instrument.

In Chris's view, therapeutic instruments are a huge investment. How can you give up if you don't make money?

So he went to a hospital to promote it, but because it was expensive and unacceptable, Chris repeatedly hit a wall.

Life is not getting better because of putting all your eggs in one basket, but getting worse.

The wife couldn't stand it and left angrily, leaving him and his young son to live hard.

If you just go your own way in life, the road will get narrower and narrower. Only by seizing the opportunity and seeking change can we have a bright future.

Chris gave up selling therapeutic instruments and was lucky enough to get an internship in a famous stock investment company.

With his own efforts, he won himself a formal job and gave himself and his son a road to happiness.

If Chris didn't give up at that time, and he was still obsessed with the money he paid, hoping that the therapeutic instrument would bring the same return, then he could only fall into endless waiting and regret his mistakes for a lifetime.

You can't take back what you have paid. Adjust your mind, don't waste your life in the past, find the right direction and start again. There may be another glory in life.

Don't worry about wasting energy, just go ahead.

In economics, there is a word called "sunk cost". Refers to those costs that have occurred but cannot be recovered. The money, time and energy paid cannot have the same benefits, which are all "sunk costs".

We can't do things at once, sometimes we take detours, wasting time and money, and more importantly, wasting energy without knowing it.

The teacher who once listened to the training class told such a story that one of her male students learned to write book reviews. Let's call him Xiao Lin.

Xiao Lin set himself a task, reading a book and writing a book review every day.

To tell the truth, sometimes a book can't be finished in three days, and he only needs one day. I want to write a book review of at least two thousand words, and the difficulty can be imagined.

It was this that Kobayashi persisted for two years.

It is said that persistence is victory, but persistence also depends on its value.

Two years later, Kobayashi gave up, because in his view, reading and writing book reviews did not change his life.

I just didn't improve my quality of life, didn't earn the money I expected, but kept myself busy every day and couldn't cope.

Kobayashi once struggled. After all, he has read hundreds of books and written hundreds of book reviews, far exceeding many people.

And I put a lot of energy into this, which is also beyond the reach of ordinary people.

Ineffective diligence can never bring value to oneself.

On the contrary, because of their irrationality, they will suffer more losses and fall into the quagmire of "sunk costs".

If you are too obsessed with "sunk costs" and keep the wrong thoughts and behaviors, you will definitely put yourself in a dangerous situation.

Therefore, it is wisest to seize the opportunity to stop loss in time.

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When people reach middle age, the growth of life experience and experience makes us more and more afraid to look at the past.

Even if we walk a lot, cross a lot of bridges and eat a lot of salt, it doesn't make us smart.

Because in the face of "sunk cost", sometimes we will automatically choose to ignore it, and we will convince ourselves that there is no need to change it after so many years.

However, in the face of the time, money and energy spent on the wrong choice, we should still inspire the courage to stop.

After all, starting over is more exciting than doing nothing.