Tsinghua University female student Wang Lihong: Regardless of family opposition, she married in Africa. How is her life now?

Who doesn’t long for a beautiful love?

As Chinese, our love has been dominated by certain stereotypes for centuries. For example, the order of parents, the words of the matchmaker, the matching between families and so on.

Although these concepts have gradually been diluted, some people even deliberately reversed them to break the pride of these concepts. But it has subtly influenced people's ideas for hundreds of years, but it is necessary.

It must be said that the ancients did have the ability to prepare for a rainy day. This is reflected in everything in "Wushuang".

Necessary threshold, ancient people were opposite to marriage and the so-called family. The identity, status, background, and economic strength of the two families must be on par. The reason for such a request is to ensure the future life. Habits and preferences, even expectations are the same.

At the end of the last century, most people still had traditional concepts and habits. However, Wang Lihong, a talented girl from Tsinghua University, decided to go to Africa to get married, regardless of her parents' opposition and the world's views on love.

Wang Lihong was born in Beijing and has been sensible and obedient since she was a child. Wang Lihong was admitted to Tsinghua University in 1996 and entered the graduate school in her junior year. At the age of 21, Wang Lihong was considered by everyone to be a female student with excellent academic performance.

Her parents were proud of their daughter. They imagined her future many times, but they never thought that her daughter would rebel against them on the issue of love and marry to distant Africa.

It all started with one person, Souma, from Africa.

In order to pursue her studies, Suma came to China to study alone. I am a graduate student at Tsinghua University.

Wang Lihong, who often stayed in the library and studied hard, attracted Suma's attention.

At this time, both of them could concentrate on their studies. Suma volunteered to help Wang Lihong study together.

In fact, Suma has long been interested in this serious and persistent Chinese girl. After getting along with Suma for so long, Wang Lihong's feelings for Suma are also growing day by day. At one point, Shuma suddenly confessed to Wang Lihong, and the two officially began a relationship.

Campus love is always pure.

But this relationship was strongly opposed by Wang Lihong's parents. They disapproved of their daughter being with the African boy and tried to prevent the couple from dating.

In order for them to separate and never see each other again, Wang Lihong's parents arranged for their daughter to study in Japan.

At first, Wang Lihong thought that their relationship might really give up, but to her surprise, Su Mo tried to follow Wang Lihong to Japan to study.

The parents' obstruction did not separate the two. Instead, Wang Lihong saw Suma's sincerity and became more determined to be with Suma.

After learning all this, the parents were finally moved by the relationship between the two, no longer hindered its development, and acquiesced to the daughter in their hearts.

The couple decided to get married soon after falling in love. As a traditional African man, Souma naturally wanted to live in Africa after getting married. At this time, Wang Lihong was also willing to return to Africa with Suma.

Although Wang Lihong’s parents are a little helpless about this decision. After all, life in Africa is no better than life in China, and the living habits are completely different, but since they all agree with their daughter, they can no longer stop her. .

A mature decision always needs to be considered before and after, and the person you change will never go back. Whether a decision is correct often requires a realistic test.

Africa is a place that still retains many traditions and primitive customs. With high population density, poor living environment, lack of hygienic habits, and backward thinking, almost no one wants to live there, let alone live there.

When Wang Lihong first arrived in Africa, she did encounter unexpected difficulties.

Language is the biggest problem. At first, she and Suma communicated in Chinese or English, but here, if you need to communicate with others, you have to use the local language. In addition, there are dialect differences.

The local people have always maintained their traditional eating habits, and their food takes some time for ordinary people to adapt to. This is the biggest difficulty for Wang Lihong living in Africa.

Based on love, Wang Lihong has been working hard to adapt to life in Africa. From her point of view, these are not problems. It just takes time to get used to them.

Seeing Wang Lihong’s efforts, Suma silently encouraged her to use her living habits and life details in Africa to get as close to China and Beijing as possible.

Africa has a high population density, and the most fundamental root of the problem is polygamy. It is especially worth mentioning that Summa also has about 40 brothers and sisters and dozens of nominal mothers. This system is completely different from that in China, but since you choose to get married in Africa, these issues must be accepted.

At this time, Suma made a major decision. He proactively promised Wang Lihong that he would not marry another wife. He kept this promise, and the two of them have been together for more than 20 years.

When she first arrived in Africa, Wang Lihong paid special attention to African educational resources and teaching equipment.

Africa is sadly underrepresented in the education sector.

Wang Lihong is a knowledgeable senior person who during this time dedicated herself to providing books to children in Africa.

Wang Lihong did not hesitate to use her own money to establish a school and teach here. She also bought teaching equipment, books and stationery for the children. In addition, she also serves as a teacher in the school and teaches. Students and parents will call her "Principal Wang" when they see her.

I don’t know when, but a strong sense of responsibility suddenly arose in my heart. She wants to tell students about the charm of the mysterious East through class.

Because children may not have the opportunity to travel to China and appreciate Chinese culture.

Therefore, Wang Lihong often tells children about Chinese culture and Chinese traditions. Every time she talked about this part, the children listened with interest. Wang Lihong, with a gentle smile, often talks about forgetting herself and missing her motherland.

None of this would be possible without the silent support of her husband.

Seeing his wife's efforts for his hometown, Shuma was happy and grateful for his wife's efforts.

Two years ago, some of Wang Lihong’s college classmates passed by Africa to visit Wang Lihong and chat about the past.

When they met, the two former classmates couldn't even recognize Wang Lihong. Standing in front of them was a plain-looking woman, her face obviously older than her peers.

Perhaps in their view, life in Africa is really hard, and they may feel sad for Wang Lihong at that time, but this was not the case for Wang Lihong.

Love is not just love.

At that time, she came here based on love and lived here for a long time. What she thinks about every day is not how to regret, how to leave, how to manage her love, but how to use her own power to spread Chinese culture in this land. This is worthy of her.

Although, one line will last a lifetime.