"I'd rather die if I'm not beautiful" Big S: From Shancai to getting divorced if they don't agree with each other, he's really a "werewolf"

Cai Kangyong said in an interview that the biggest characteristic of Big S (Xu Xiyuan) is: not surrendering to life.

In the "Miss Beauty" program, Big S's partner said: "Sister S used to be a werewolf. Do you know what a werewolf is? It's just a little more cruel than a ruthless person. "

Big S himself once said: "My personality is like a wolf. I was a wolf before I got married, and I am still a wolf after I have a family. "

Wolf nature is actually a manifestation of ruthlessness to the extreme.

Big S once underwent destructive electric shocks to lose weight, gained weight from 80 to 80 kilograms to become pregnant, and even went to the ICU twice to give birth without any regrets.

All this stems from her natural "wolf nature" and her attitude of not giving up in life.

Over the years, she has been extremely cruel to herself, tried her best to treat those she loved, and acted chivalrously and righteously towards her relatives and friends.

The wolf nature in her has become a different kind of charm.

01 "I would rather die if I am not beautiful enough", showing my "wolf nature" during my teenage years

A person's character has already been written at the beginning of his life.

Big S’s real name is Xu Xiyuan, and she was born in an ordinary family in Taiwan. Because my father was an only child, my mother was forced to take on the important task of carrying on the family line.

But the mother gave birth to three daughters in succession, which made the patriarchal father and the family members both disgusted and disappointed.

The youngest daughter was named Xu Xidi (little S), which means she hopes to have a younger brother, and her nickname is "Tingting", which also implies that she can stop having daughters.

But in the end, Xu Xidi did not call her younger brother, and that terrible father also chose to abandon the family and abandon his daughter, and owed huge gambling debts in the future, which were repaid by the two sisters. .

There are three Xu sisters. The eldest sister is introverted and hides in the house to write danmei novels; the younger sister Xu Xiwei is very cool on the surface, but in fact she always wants to hide behind people. that one.

Growing up in such a family environment, Big S, as the second oldest child, has shown fearlessness since he was a child. She has become a very independent elder sister.

Big S’s “cruelty” sometimes surprises both Little S and her mother.

Da S originally studied at Guoguang Art School. In the first year of her last year, she wanted to transfer to Huagang Art School, but her mother disagreed at all.

One day when Xu’s mother was driving, the two had another quarrel over this matter. Big S became more and more angry when he thought about it. When the car drove to the viaduct, Big S, who was sitting in the passenger seat, S said to Xu's mother, "Why should you decide my life!", opened the car door and jumped out of the car, leaving Xu's mother and little S stunned.

Later, Big S became one of the famous seven fairies of Huagang Art School, and was also a classmate of Wu Pace and Aya.

Big S is not only independent and courageous in character, but also "ruthless" in becoming beautiful, and her "abnormal beauty method", It has become a legend.

She is naturally prone to obesity. When she was in junior high school, her weight reached 56 kilograms. She started to lose weight and only ate yogurt and apples every day. As a result, her stomach was damaged, resulting in stunted growth.

She will do anything to lose weight.

Big S said in the program "The Truth, Flowers and Everything" that she once lost weight through electric shock. Because once she heard that Bruce Lee relied on electric shocks in addition to exercise to train his muscles, so she began to learn from this method.

She wanted to achieve the ultimate effect, so she directly adjusted the electric shock tool to 99. How strong is gear 99? Later, Da S recommended this tool to a friend. The friend adjusted it to 20 and applied it to his belly once. The next day, he couldn’t straighten his waist.

In order to have the best effect on the camera, she maintains a weight of 42 kilograms all year round. In order to maintain her health, she avoided any drinks or snacks. To prevent cravings, I couldn’t find anything at home that I could put in my mouth.

In order to tighten her whole body, she even wore a body-shaping garment unscientifically 24 hours a day.

In order to tighten her calves, she wears stockings to prevent varicose veins all day long; if her calves are swollen after standing all day, she must use leg slimming gel to remove the edema when she gets home at night. ; Lift your legs for massage every day and insist on drinking barley water.

In order to whiten her skin, Big S also racked her brains.

She was born with "dark skin". She has tried various whitening methods since she was a teenager.

Red wine application, whitening and moisturizing, whitening injections...even any folk remedies are accepted; you must carry an umbrella and wear long sleeves when going out, the weather No matter how hot it was, she was packed like a rice dumpling; she used up 4 bottles of sunscreen in ten days of filming.

She does not eat any black foods such as black vinegar, soy sauce, and coffee. She will only drink black coffee unless it is necessary to reduce swelling.

Not only does she want to be whitened, not only does she want to be extremely thin, Big S does not let go of her whole body.

The Shancai she played in "Meteor Garden" had thick, waist-length black hair and a shawl hairstyle, making her the dream girl of the public at the time.

She spent a lot of effort to get this black hair.

She never washes her hair in the barber shop. She washes her hair twice, and then uses four combs to comb her hair according to the steps. To keep her hair smooth and textured, she combs her hair 40 times a day.

No one can touch her hair, not even her boyfriend who was inseparable at the time.

She once said: "For the sake of beauty, I dare to drink a cup of poison as long as there is no knife or blood."

She has an almost perverted desire to become beautiful. She just relied on her fierce determination to turn her ordinary-looking self into a famous "beauty king" in the entertainment industry at that time. Not only did she become thin and white, she became a "fluorescent lamp", she also led the national beauty craze at that time.

Big S is not only a "paranoid" who would risk her life to become beautiful, she is still very concerned about major life events such as marriage and childbirth. He is a pretty ruthless "ruthless person".

02 Never look back on the marriage you are committed to, change your "wolf nature"

Big S once The program said that in her life, there are no words such as "tired", "slow" and "pain".

Her attitude towards love is clear-cut, "Love is vigorous, leaving is decisive." From Lan Zhenglong to Zhou Yumin, she is ruthless and straightforward.

After breaking up with Zhou Yimin, Big S went to "A Date with Lu Yu" as a guest. She said to Lu Yu: End a wrong relationship, even if Even if it hurts to the point of death, I will never look back.

Until she met Wang Xiaofei, whom she recognized as Mr. Right, her "wolf nature" emerged again.

That year, Big S and Wang Xiaofei fell in love at first sight and got married in 20 days, which shocked the entire entertainment industry at that time. But even though this marriage was criticized by countless people from the beginning, Big S still did not look back.

She was ruthless enough to get pregnant and give birth to a child, once again using her "wolf nature" to gain her own happiness.

She gave up her vegetarian habit for more than ten years. In order to get pregnant, she started eating meat to gain weight. However, her long-term vegetarian diet caused a strong rejection reaction in her body. When she first started eating meat, she became crazy. Can't stop vomiting. Taking supplements every day, even if my figure is out of shape and my weight has increased from 80 to 80 kilograms, I still have no complaints even if I laugh at myself that I am "fat as a sea dog".

In 2016, the 40-year-old S became pregnant with her second child. This "ruthless" woman once again risked her life in exchange for a child.

When she gave birth to her second child, she felt unwell before the term was reached. Premature birth + allergy to painkillers caused Big S to have a seizure, coma and lack of oxygen. She was directly admitted to the ICU and rescued twice. Only through the danger.

Big S’s life creed is probably “I don’t believe in fate, I just believe in working hard with my hands.”

In order to lose weight after giving birth to her second child, her fierceness came to light again.

Based on the surprisingly small recipe portion provided by the nutritionist, she halved the food portion herself. She used unimaginable ascetic methods to lose 20 pounds in a month and became beautiful again.

Even Wang Xiaofei said that he admired his wife, and the whole family once again affirmed the fact that Big S is so independent and no one can stop her from doing what she wants to do.

Although almost paranoid, although stubborn and unrepentant, Big S turned himself into a real-life version of Shancai with his ruthless and hard-working energy.

The difficulties and obstacles that ordinary people see in the eyes of ordinary people are just a pass in her eyes. She regards any dissatisfaction as trying to break through a barrier, and only by desperately crossing it can she continue her life.

This fierceness and perseverance is actually very heartbreaking.

Fortunately, as time passed, her "wolf nature" gradually became softer.

03 After the life of "wolf nature", there is a different kind of happiness

The so-called Chinese Young girls, after the age of forty, become more innocent and determined, and more unrestrained and spontaneous.

In recent years, Big S, a female warrior full of "wolf nature", has gradually taken off her armor and restored the original softness of women in the face of marriage and children. In her social media, what is most exposed is the tranquil happiness of her family of four.

The 2019 travel variety show "We Are Real Friends" also allowed us to see her relaxed beauty.

In the show, the four sisters Big S, Little S, Aya, and Fan Xiaoxuan are combined, and Big S is in very good condition. This woman who is running for four years is still like a little girl, she has things she fears and longs for, and she also has happiness in her eyes.

In the show, Big S’s ponytail looks like she is 20 years old again. She is youthful and fashionable. It is hard to imagine that it belongs to two children. Mother.

There was a session where the restaurant owner’s son was asked to guess the ages of the four sisters. The handsome man said that the 42-year-old S was the youngest and was only about 19 years old.

Youthful and fashionable outfits are an important magic weapon for big S to look girly. Looking back at Big S’s fashionable outfits during the trip, she really knows what suits her.

For midsummer travel, the fairy-like fluttering dress with white + rainbow embroidery is a must-have item. When choosing a long skirt, lightness and comfort are the first criteria.

Many ethnic-style accessories use exaggerated contrasting colors to highlight the exotic style. Big S only chooses ethnic-style earrings and bracelets, which are safe when paired with a white dress. Too exaggerated.

When traveling in summer, a pair of wide-leg pants is definitely indispensable in your suitcase. It's lightweight, easy to move, and perfectly covers all body types.

Pairing a solid-color singlet with a pair of colorful rainbow wide-leg pants looks like a legendary heroine stepping on a colorful auspicious cloud, shining brightly.

Bright yellow makes the skin whiter. Big S cleverly chose this brisk and lively style to easily achieve the effect of reducing age.

White is easily overlooked by everyone, thinking that it cannot give a "traveling feel". In fact, white has a lighting effect.

Wearing purple alone can easily make your skin appear dark. Using white as a buffer can solve this problem well. This set of blue and white pinstripes + purple shawl is full of ethnic style.

If Big S really has a personality, it is a trait that appears to be "wolf nature" but is actually "brave" .

Her fearless bravery allows her to always be herself in the entertainment industry, without being interfered by public opinion, and to pursue the life she wants.

Her quality is not only her appearance, but her tough heart.

Why is Big S still so popular after being away from the entertainment industry for a long time? Maybe in her, we see ourselves in an ideal state.

She is not a peerless beauty, but she works hard to become what she wants; she does not have the support of a wealthy family, but she still lives a brave and self-sufficient life; when she loses love, she kills her Qingsi; she is firm and persistent when she meets true love, and is not afraid of criticism even if she gets married in a flash marriage.

She is not a person who is favored too much by God. She will chase after whatever she wants. Everything she achieved was earned through hard work.

In fact, in this world, everyone knows the way to become beautiful, but not everyone can successfully become beautiful. I have heard a lot about happiness, but not everyone can grasp happiness. The only difference between success and failure is: persistence.

Many people can be "cruel" to themselves for a day, a month, or a year. But Big S has been cruel to himself for more than 20 years.

She used this special way to win her own happiness. I hope that every hard-working woman in this world will live up to her time and move forward on the road to pursue her dreams, and her dreams will eventually come true.