1 1 years later, the Wenchuan earthquake left the first example to escape. What happened now?

Have you ever asked your close relatives and friends if disaster comes, will he run by himself or take you with him? Human nature is often the most fragile, so don't ask such questions, because the answer is one thing, and real action is another. Just like Fan Paopao, who showed the truest humanity with the truest actions in the year of Wenchuan earthquake, although he was a teacher, he still chose to stand on the selfish side of human nature in times of crisis. He left the students in class and ran to the playground first. In the following years, he was reviled by countless people. How is he now? Has he been scolded for depression, ashamed to come out and meet people, and lived a life that is worse than death, as many people imagine?

"Fan Paopao" was originally named Fan Meizhong. He grew up in a deformed family relationship. His father ignored him all the year round and never assumed the responsibility of his father. Therefore, Fan Meizhong is a relatively indifferent person since he was a child. He has always believed that since others are not responsible for him, he naturally does not need to be responsible for others.

And such a character, until he went to college and took part in the work, was even more incisive. As a student of the history department of Peking University, he sneered at the professors who taught him knowledge, thinking that they were full of bookish and misleading lessons, putting on airs and learning nothing useful.

After graduation, it was because he was dissatisfied with the current education system, the compilation of teaching materials, the teaching methods of the school and so on. He wants to break the old rules and create his own teaching model in Fan Meizhong. So he never follows the rules and principles in his lectures, and there is nothing he says in the textbook. He teaches whatever the school doesn't allow him to teach, and the state doesn't allow him to say whatever he says. Because of this series of willful behaviors, he was expelled from school many times.

Fan Meizhong, who was once in dire straits, even had to be a small editor, earning a living by occasionally charging a little money. Fortunately, when he was about to be spurned by the whole world after many twists and turns, he was hired by guangya school. Moreover, this is a school that doesn't need to cope with the college entrance examination or education evaluation, and it can give him considerable freedom to do the teaching he likes, so Fan Meizhong has been staying in this school as a teacher.

On the afternoon of May 12, 2008, Fan Meizhong was telling his students a dream of red mansions in the classroom, and then the earthquake came. When the earth just shook, Fan Meizhong was still telling the students not to be afraid, but before he finished, the whole world shook.

Fan Meizhong's subconscious reaction was to immediately turn around and rush out of the classroom door, and then run all the way to the playground without looking back. When he stood firm on the playground, he suddenly reacted and didn't let the children run with him. Fortunately, these children are all high school students. When they watched him run, they all knew it was an earthquake. Except for a few children in the class who chose to hide under the desks, all the other children finally ran downstairs quickly.

Originally, everyone didn't take it seriously. However, a few days after the earthquake, a child suddenly posted on the Internet that Fan Meizhong could leave them and run first. This question was infinitely magnified in an instant, and everyone immediately reacted. What, the teacher didn't save the child first in the earthquake, but ran away by himself?

This kind of person is still worthy of being a teacher? And teachers' morality? No, damn it? All kinds of insults and accusations poured into Fan Meizhong. He doesn't understand, he just made the most normal reaction of a normal person in a crisis, how did he suddenly become a heinous bad guy? Moreover, none of the children in their class had an accident at that time. After he fled to the playground, he immediately went to save other children without running away.

In order to prove that he was not the selfish person who was spurned by thousands of people, Fan Meizhong wrote a self-defense article ten days after the Wenchuan earthquake. I hope everyone can understand that his subconscious behavior at that time was human nature, not his unwillingness to save children. But a few words in the article blacked him out again.

There is such a passage in Fan Meizhong's original text: "I am a person who pursues freedom and justice, but I am not a person who dares to sacrifice myself after others!"! At this moment of life and death choice, I can only consider sacrificing myself for my daughter. Other people, even my mother, don't care in this situation. Because I can't control my adults, there is no point in running away from one without moving it. If it is too dangerous, I will die with you. If there is no danger, I don't care about you, and you are not in danger, let alone you are seventeen or eighteen years old! "

It is this passage that has stimulated everyone again. How cheeky does it take to say such a thing? When in danger, we will only consider whether to save our daughter. If time is too tight, even our mother will not consider rescuing, let alone these adults who have nothing to do with him.

This is the real idea revealed in Fan Meizhong's article, and it is also his own real idea. I can't say there is anything wrong with it, but in the social situation at that time, his remarks would really arouse everyone's disgust. No one can be so clear and selfish.

After that, Fan Meizhong became a rat crossing the street, and the whole network denounced him, even demanding that Guangya Middle School expel such a teacher with no ethics. In this way, Guangya Middle School is really a new school. Under all external pressure, the headmaster left Fan Meizhong to continue teaching.

In addition, cartoons, jokes and jokes satirizing Fan Meizhong are endless. Some people even made up a story about Fan Meizhong's quick escape, and Xtep wanted to ask him to speak contemporary words. If you change to anyone with weak psychological endurance, you may be scolded for doing something wrong during that time. This is the enemy of the whole world.

And all kinds of remarks about Fan Meizhong finally died down after a year or so. Fan Meizhong continued to be his language teacher and lived a quiet life. Until the 10th anniversary of Wenchuan on 20 18, an article entitled "Ten Years Later, Apologize to Fan Paopao" appeared on the Internet, which caused a great sensation and pushed Fan Meizhong to the forefront again.

Ten years later, everyone calmed down and found that as an ordinary person, maybe 99 out of 100 people would make the same choice as Fan Meizhong at that time. After all, no one can ask others to save another person on the premise of sacrificing his own life, which is too moral.

However, he never stood up and said anything about the concern or topic caused by "Fan Paopao" again. Everyone thinks it's strange. Has Fan Meizhong been knocked down by public opinion?

In fact, Fan Meizhong is living a good life at this time. About 20 15, I resigned from Guangya middle school, came out to work as a freelancer, gave lectures on the internet, worked part-time in various training schools, and occasionally did some academic research of my own. At other times, he is a housewife, taking care of his daughter and children, and then doing housework, and his life is very easy.

Today, as a bystander, we can't say whether Fan Meizhong's reaction at that time was right or wrong, just as we are not sure whether we will escape first like Fan Meizhong when such a disaster doesn't happen to us. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. We can only say that as a teacher, it seems inappropriate and petty for him to do so out of moral considerations. But as an ordinary person, a father, a husband and a son, it is understandable for him to do so. After all, his life is the most important thing to his family.

After more than ten years, it is not easy for Fan Meizhong to have a peaceful and beautiful life again.

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