A woman who is more casual outside keeps her home very tidy? is that so?

My colleague is fair-skinned and beautiful, and is a standard beauty. Dress according to fashion trends. She has a lot of clothes and changes them three times a day. One outfit for work, one outfit for shopping, and another outfit when home. I am extremely envious when I see her posting beautiful photos with her hair tied in her hair every day.

Every day, her hair is combed smoothly and her clothes are smooth and snug. I secretly felt inferior in front of her. Are you too lazy? Look at how others dress up so exquisitely.

Until one day, she left her mobile phone in the store and I went to give it to her home. I opened the door and poked out a face covered with a mask. Her hair was hanging down around her ears, and the rest was pinned back with an eight-claw hairpin. She was startled when she saw it was me. Being a bit slow, I said, "You don't want me to come in and sit down?" She smiled unnaturally: "Please come in! Please come in!" I had long wanted to see the private space where I worshiped the goddess. I think it should be a tasteful and stylish place. The moment I opened the door, I was stunned.

The room is filled with clothes drying racks, which are densely packed with clothes. There are more than a hundred pieces of various kinds, and each one is very new. There is a huge shoe cabinet on the entire wall. High heels, semi-heels, travel shoes. Pointed ones, fish-mouthed ones, diamond-encrusted ones, mesh ones? It dazzled me, it was really a shock.

Her house is more than 90 square meters. Except for a bed, a sofa, and a coffee table, the rest is full of clothes. I asked her in surprise: "You have so many clothes, how much time does it take to take care of them?" She told me that many of her clothes had never been washed. Because there are a lot of clothes, I change them frequently and they are not too dirty. After changing, I just hang them on the hanger and wear them directly next time. Because I have never been in the water, my clothes are flat. Just wipe the shoes with the cleaning shoe cream you bought online and the job is done.

I once dated a woman from Hubei, a big man of 170cm, who worked in a company in Haikou. Every day when I went to work, she always had exquisite make-up and well-dressed clothes. Although they were not high-end clothes, they were very beautiful Will match. Once, she didn't come to work because she had a bad cold. A colleague and I went to her house to see her. As soon as we walked in, it was really terrible: one-third of the one-bedroom house was filled with garbage, plastic bags, egg trays, Express boxes, waste paper, unwanted clothes, instant noodle boxes, everything. On a writing table, the drawers were so full that they couldn't be closed. She was lying on the bed, half of the sheets were dragging on the floor, and there was half a bowl of moldy noodles on the stove. Her outlook was completely ruined, which was jaw-dropping. I still can’t figure out how to live in that environment.

Some women seem to be casually dressed, but their homes are spotless and very clean. My neighbor's woman is like this. She dresses plainly and seldom puts on makeup. But every time she opens the door, she occasionally sees that the windows are bright and clean, things are neatly arranged, and the shoes at the door are sorted by size.

A woman who dresses exquisitely but has a mess at home.

My cousin’s wife, my aunt, is good-looking and exquisitely dressed, but her house is often in a mess.

The washed and unwashed clothes are often placed randomly, and they are not folded after washing, but piled on the sofa.

There are often grease stains on the dining table. After finishing the meal, the bowl is thrown into the pot and is not cleaned until the next meal.

When my aunt first married my cousin, my cousin had little money, but later he made a lot of money in business.

At that time, guests often came to the house, and the mess made my cousin very uncomfortable, so he scolded his aunt several times for this.

My aunt is a traditional woman, and she is also afraid that her cousin will dislike her for this, so after washing the clothes, she folds them as much as possible and puts them in the closet.

The dishes and chopsticks are also cleaned after use.

So, people's inertia can sometimes be changed, but of course this change must have external causes.

A woman who dresses casually and has a clean house.

Such a woman doesn’t care much about her image outside, but her home must be spotless. This is actually a habit of hers.

It takes a lot of energy to clean up the house. After finally finishing it, I looked at the time and saw that it was already late. It was time to pick up the children and cook.

But you can’t disrupt the order of your home just because your clothes are not exquisite, so just make do with it.

This is why the home is clean and the clothes outside are casual.

In many cases, a person's external image cannot represent whether she is diligent. Of course, personal living habits are difficult to correct unless the person is willing to change.