Brother and sister are very good when parents are around. And after their parents died?

Many families are like this: when parents are alive, brothers and sisters are very harmonious, and they will walk back and forth and keep in touch frequently on holidays. But after the parents left, this may be another situation.

Some brothers and sisters will become estranged and estranged.

Why is this happening? The reason behind it is too realistic and a little sad.

1. Parents unite their feelings. When staying with parents, brothers and sisters will come back to visit their parents, so they will always get together to communicate when they meet.

If parents leave, this connection will be alienated. Parents are here, home is here, parents are absent, and family is separated, which is very realistic.

2. It is not excluded that some families hide some contradictions. Parents can help mediate when they are alive, but one day when their parents die, contradictions will break out. For example, in the distribution of family property, children are prone to differences.

Moreover, some parents were eccentric when they were young. Although they don't show it on the surface, unloved children always have a knot in their hearts. When parents die, the relationship between relatives is cold, and some even die of old age.

3. Parents are dead, children are married, and some have grandchildren. Because we have to take care of small families, many will live with children, so it is not easy for everyone to get together.

Due to geographical reasons, brothers and sisters live in different places. Although the transportation is convenient now, they are getting older and older. Many people have inconvenient legs and feet, and it is not easy to go out for a long trip. It is often a family wedding, so that everyone can get together and meet.

These reasons are realistic. People pay the most attention to family ties, but when their parents die, family ties are often not in line with reality, and human feelings are warm and cold. At this time,